Arrrgh! It is pointless honestly( the final part)

29 December 2021

Hello guys, good day. How is everyone doing? Are we still celebrating the season ? Well I am still and I hope y’all are too. I hope everyone is okay and getting ready to transition into the new year.

So this is the final part of the article I wrote yesterday titled Arrgh! What’s the point ? . I noticed a lot of you in the comment section saying maybe she wasn’t ready to get married or that maybe because she was dating K that was why she refused me well I just want to let everyone know that they were just friends, really close friends I must say but just friends. If they were dating or if they were attracted to each other in that way and I knew of it in the first play do you think I would have gone through with my Plans of asking her out ?Or even get close to her when I know she likes my bro in that way of course not that is why I got angry in the first place after I saw the text it’s Bro code guys, bro code.

Also I would like to add that I wasn’t asking her to marry me or anything of that sort. At the time. We were both too young to be married and By “proposal” I meant just asking her to let me know how she felt the same way about me. With that cleared off here is the finishing part of the story. If you are yet to read the first part of this article you might not understand this final part so please do here is a link .

…..So she said she was afraid. I asked her why she was. She said it was because she didn’t know if I was just playing with her or if I really liked her. Besides she knows I am in Unilag and I get to see a lot beautiful girls in my school from time to time, I might forget her or even cheat on her( well at the time she wasn’t wrong I can’t lie but for real I liked her up to the point where I wasn’t going to cheat on her if she agreed besides “K” was there to check me if I did so in a way she had an eye on me) also she wanted me to try and try again.

I asked her about the text I saw on K’s phone she explained that it was nothing serious that they were just playing and that if I had read the chat from the beginning I would have understood and now that I think of it K did say something similar to me when I asked him about it. He was like “bro common you know me and E don’t move like that she is just my friend and that chat you saw was just some silly play we were doing Oya read from the top”. I was too jealous to even read from the top. I just replied him “Omo no need I dey alright”.

She explained a lot to me that night but there was just one thing I still wanted to know even though it didn’t matter to me anymore. Did she feel the way I felt for her then? I asked her, She said she actually did and only came to the realization of her feelings for me a few days after we stopped talking. She said at some point she wanted to text me with a friends’ number just to keep talking to me.

Intermission ;- 😂 not that I am too handsome or anything of that sort but this piece of information felt really good to hear. Just imagine your crush telling you something like this. Okay back to the story..

I told her I was sorry for just leaving like that and that I am glad that she opened up to me but I had lost my feelings for her. Maybe they died a cold and horrible death😂 after she rejected me or maybe some new girl replaced her 👀 you will never know and I plan not to tell you. Either ways I wasn’t feeling her anymore. Immediately I made this clear to her she stopped replying and blocked me on WhatsApp.

I felt bad for hurting her like that but it was necessary I just didn’t want to lead her on some feelings that I have lost, that wouldn’t be right. A few days later K said she called him crying asking him to talk to me. I told him to tell her to unblock me so we could talk.

She did that same day. We spoke and after a long set of text back and forth we agreed that we should remain just friends and ever since we stayed friends. She is really cool we talk every now and then, share memes and videos and stuff.

So you see.. whenever I see a new girl I ask my self what is the point ? We are just going to start talking, from being strangers we become friends from friends we get close and it might seem like we would get married the next month, all of a sudden we stop talking due to one thing or the other. Then it is back to being strangers again. And then the same vicious circle repeating itself again and a again, most of you know this. So I ask myself again what is the point of all these really.

Thank you all for the love and support it has been a great one. Let me know in the comment session if you wish I wrote more on my past love tales and who knows I might just keep writing more stories like these .. thanks once again, be safe ❤️✍️✏️.

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