Learning 1:

Suppose the name of the most beautiful girl in your department is Maisha. Not only beautiful, her role in class is also one. Brain with beauty! All the boys wish Maisha in their minds, except you. Because your roll- two. Maisha's arrogance, not giving sheets, taking care of everyone - violence has arisen in your mind to break everything down, the place is normal. You couldn't beat him for two years in a row. Now you are in the third year of honors. You study for seventeen hours a day to get behind Maisha. In the end, you succeed. Maisha broke her pride. You are now the first boy in the class, Maisha Second. You are also very happy. Tears are flowing in his eyes with happiness, a smile of contentment on his face, cool air in his heart. Do you know the funny thing? But you are not happy to be first in class, you are happy to be able to overtake Maisha. From the beginning of creation, there has been, is and will be 'competition' among human beings. Surprisingly, we are living a life of competition, but we are not getting any benefit from it. Good job, beautiful wife, doctor's degree, house-car; If there was so much happiness in these, then why do so many big celebrities commit suicide? Ever heard of a rickshaw puller or a beggar putting a rope around his neck or committing suicide by taking a sleeping pill? It is a very rare case. This competition of ours leads us to destruction. What did you prove by leaving Maisha behind? Nothing! Just made a comparison of his own Capability with Misha's Capability. Are we alive to measure our own worth by the standards of others? If not, why so sickly competition? So if you fail you think of suicide ...? Exceeding oneself means surpassing everyone. Ever thought about surpassing yourself? If not, think from today.

Learning 2:

Why do we take sweets to anyone's house? Knowing that we have diabetes, we politely take sweets, otherwise there is no value! How did this habit come to us? Answer: From our ancestors. Ever since we learned to light a fire by rubbing stones, ever since we have learned to quell shame with the leaves of a tree. Our demand for the sweet fruit of the tree was exaggerated. So whenever someone found a sweet fruit, he would take it away or run away and eat it. Because the demand for sweets was so high, it is not uncommon for someone to be killed for eating sweets. So it was customary to eat sweets with the eyes of one's partner. The trait borrowed from those ancestors, the love of sweets is gone from us. So we take sweets when we go to someone's house.

Learning 3:

Well, do you watch Bangla movies? Most of the answers: no. I do not see. Too bad, isn't it? There was a time when we used to watch Bangla movies, when there was no other channel except BTV, we used to sit in front of the TV after Friday prayers. We were so attracted, I can not deny that. What can be seen in 'Commercial' Bangla Cinema? Stylish wearing shirt-pants and girls walking around wiggling at the waist or below it are bad, selfish, dishonest, mean. Girls, on the other hand, are good at wearing salwar kameez, showing politeness in front of mentors, and they are heroines. In 90% of commercial Bangla movies, the rich are the villains. The rich man's daughter, the poor man's son - even in type movies, the rich man's daughter gets better because of being a heroine (or heroine quota), and the poor are always good and pious. But all the rich people from the heroine's father are Kalprit. Why? Because, Bangladesh is a third world country. The financial condition of the people here is weak. And day laborers, rickshaw pullers watching Bangla movies (I am not shortening the rickshaw pullers in any way. I respect them). So the film directors played a psychological game. The poor usually feel pity for another poor person, he may not be his own, yet a world brotherhood is formed in the minds of people of every profession from the poor and the rich without their knowledge. Poor-poor, writer-writer, singer-singer, industrialist-industrialist. The poor do not like the rich. As you can see, there is always a cold war between the workers and the owners. Since day laborers and workers from the tea shop sit down to watch movies at the end of the day, in order to win their hearts, the film directors also make commercial movies for them instead of making good films. At the end of the day, these are the main customers of the theater. This is one of the main reasons why the rich are badly arranged in Bengali cinema.

Learning 4:

We suffer when someone leaves us. Why? What a question it is again! Will it not hurt if the man breaks up? I did not love him? Of course lived. Suppose you have a physical relationship with someone. Once or many times. Again, your girlfriend had an affair with someone, but did not have a physical relationship. Both of them had a breakup. You both loved your boyfriend very much. Tell me, who will suffer more in this breakup? You, or your girlfriend? You may say that he was the one who had more love. That's the wrong answer, because it's just an idea! You will suffer the most. Because, you went into a physical relationship with your boyfriend. Funny but true. Love does not play a big role. We all know that memories are stored in our minds. But do we know the memory that is stored in our body? Think of our parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, great-grandparents to a few ancestors. You may have seen your grandfather, then your grandfather, his grandfather too; Didn't see them. But Your body can be found to match any part of their body. That is, the memory of the body, which they have left among us. If you close your eyes, even if twenty boys hold your hand in a row, you can separate your boyfriend's hand from theirs. There is no emotional issue here. Once you hold the hand for a second, it accumulates in the brain. That brain (when you hold your boyfriend's hand with your eyes closed) sends a signal to you, this hand you've held many times before, remember? Many of the things you actually think are emotional may have nothing to do with the 'mind'. Now if your girlfriend says angrily, I loved my boyfriend like crazy, much more than my girlfriend (I mean, more than you). The trouble is more than me. I go about physical, but I lived well. Yes, really! Your girlfriend loved her boyfriend too, but her pain is no more than yours. Because, mind is 50%, body is 50%. No matter how much you love from the heart, you have actually filled 50%, the remaining 50% is empty. Even if it sounds bad, it is true. But I have to go about the physical, but not that. First you have to select, is the value of physical memory more, or mental memory?

Learning 5:

You can't make friends with a girl from a liberal family or an elite family as easily as you can make friends with a girl from a middle class family. Suppose you are a student of a private varsity. Almost everyone in the neighborhood comes from a rich family. You can call your classmate from the back of the street, this Maliha! Meanwhile income.

He would turn around and come forward with a smile and shake hands and say, hey dude, what's up?

But, is it possible at the National University? The children studying in the national university are lower class or middle class. Boys shaking hands with girls is the moon of the sky, even if he calls the girls on the street, he will look down and see if there is any acquaintance, then he will go in front of you and say, why did you call like this? Classmate, still say 'you'. Such middle-class girls love, but at the time of marriage, they sit on the wedding pedestal with the favorite pot of the family and cry. Why these? The girl from the elite family is also human, the middle class girl is also human. But why are the middle class behind? Oh that the middle class can't get out of that thought. This is the main problem. A poor person can think of the upper class, a rich person can think of the lower class and make himself 'small'. Everything is a difference of opinion. But why is the economic difference big, why the big environment? Because, suppose you have three friends in one room. The other two friends use mobile phones all day, talk on the phone with their girlfriends, do Facebooking; But then you will not want to read. Again, if the other two friends are busy reading all day, dragging from morning to evening, drinking tea and cigarettes, and returning home with books; But then you will not want to be on Facebook, you will want to read. Understand how the environment is suddenly changing between us?

Maybe you started to think badly of me. Thinking, I am against middle class families or trying to shorten them. Basically, its nothing I’m doing. I can accept the economic middle class, but I can never accept the middle class of thought. A girl from a rich or elite family or a liberal minded person can easily mix with a girl from a middle class family, but a girl from a middle class or conservative family cannot mix with a rich girl. Because, economic misery. Middle-class, lower-middle-class, poor-class people are usually just like them, meaning they feel secure when they mix with another middle-class, lower-middle-class or poor girl. Why? Because, man wants to be with people of his peers. Mixing with the rich shows their inferiority, they feel helpless, they fail, maybe they think they are laughing at you, but they are not smiling when they see you. It's a lot like standing in front of everyone in class. No girl in the class is laughing or joking about your humiliating punishment. Instead of standing next to Sir, you are thinking, eat! What are the girls saying about me! Sir, what did you do? So much humiliation in front of everyone ...?

This is the problem of our middle class. So let go of your ears, go and sit. Clear the mirror of your mind, read good books, clear your mind; The rich will not feel bad then. Negative examples are known to everyone, so I say something positive. Those who have suffered with themselves, with society, have become rich by working day and night, do you see them as bad ...? Why? Is it honorable to blame fate for not working, not trying, forsaking the helm like you do? Criticizing the rich? Well, please. Because, failed people are more critical.

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