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Have you been critized? I'm sure everyone has been critized one way or the other. No one can say that he or she hasn't been critized. Criticism itself is not a wrong thing. Criticizing is to analyze or assess a thing in order to get its merits and faults.

The criticism you've recieved at any time of your life will fall in between two categories. They are the constructive and destructive criticism.

Criticisms are inevitable except you're perfect of which no one is. No matter how much you try, there will be a time where you're below expectations. Criticisms should be parts of a human life but only constructive criticism should be allowed.

Criticisms can either be destructive or constructive. It depends on the critic. Some people have gained mastery in giving destructive criticism. The only thing they do is to criticize people till they feel less of themselves. This is a very wrong thing to do.

Criticisms start from the family because they're the closest to you. They know everything about you, how you react, how you behave and others. The thing is that what outsiders may not see or know, your immediate family will know because they're very close to you. They know so much about you. Most times, criticisms from your immediate family is always out of love, therefore very true.

Criticisms done by outsiders are most likely done in anger or pain, therefore it can be classed as a destructive criticism. Most times those criticism do not cause any change in you, it only makes you feel less of yourself. This is the reason they tell people not to mind the opinions of people most especially outsiders. Because the truth is we have more destructive critics than we have constructive critics.

It takes a great level of maturity and understanding to criticize someone the right way. There's a way i criticize a person and the person won't feel less but not everyone knows how to. I've learnt that when you want to criticize a person or something. You don't just start of to criticize that person like that. You should first recognize and talk about the things that person did right before moving to the ones that need some changes. By doing this, the person realizez that you're not really against him and that you want the best for him.

Whether we like it or not, there are people who'll criticize everything you do, even though they are good. They'll still criticize. What do we do to those set of people? How do we react to their criticism? Do you allow their criticism get you? Do you allow it affect your confidence? Do you allow it make you discouraged?

You shouldn't allow them get you. You shouldn't even mind how much they criticize you. If you're not doing something worthwhile, you won't be criticized. So that they criticize you shows that you're making progress. Keep at what you're doing. Nevertheless, there should be a balance to things. There can be some element of truth in the criticisms of people. Therefore, sometimes you should look at what they say and not how they say it. Because you might be making some mistakes, it's just that they communicated it the wrong way.

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Knowing when to tune-in and probe or when to ignore criticism is valuable. It will save you time, help you avoid headaches and heartaches, and get you to a place where you're growing and producing good work rather than obsessing over the impossible pursuit of perfection.

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1 month ago

This is very true bro

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1 month ago

Usually I experienced the destructive criticism, people judge base on what they hear or see without knowing the true story behind everything. Mga Marites!

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1 month ago

I'm so sorry. It's expected. Best thing to do is to ignore

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1 month ago

The most common form of criticism Is the destructive one many people will just hate you for no reason even when you do good to them, it can from your family members street brothers or sisters or even your neighbours only God can save us but in all we do let always do what we would want others to do to us.

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1 month ago

That's the kind of life we are living in ohhh. God help us all

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1 month ago

Yeah I've been there friend, at first I am affected with those nonsense criticism, however I never mind them along the way of my day, they're not important to me so why would I mind them

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1 month ago

Exactly, no need to mind them

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1 month ago

As long as the criticism is constructive and instructive, it can be accepted from anyone, but how much are we open to criticism. I think most people are not open to criticism, if I give an example here, when you criticize someone, the first thing they do is block.

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1 month ago

The first reaction of most people to criticism is rejecting it

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1 month ago

Lots of times. But I learn to do away with negative people

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1 month ago

That's the best thing to do

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That's the best thing to do

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