@Jeansapphire39
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more from that month
Dont forced yourself In this world of full of madness and judgement its really complicated to be pleased with anyone. Some are pushing themselves in order to be in a circle of friends. Anything they can do as long as they will accept in that group. But all of the sudden your not welcome. Did you experience that? How painful is that, right? If you have a bad instinct in that kind of friends dont forced yourself just to be in that group.
**Friends** are everywhere, can be virtual also. You cant trust anybody these days you think you have a good friend. The one you've trusted till you turn around and realize they have a knife 6 inches deep in your back. Be smart to whom youve been trusted. Friendship can be build with trust and love. It doesnt matter how long or short youve been in that frienship. **A pack of intelligent people**.. Mostly in social media treated themselves as an intelligent one, then the low profile treated them as a puppet. Dont be like that. God create humans to spread love and share each other. Let people underestimate you thay way. They'll never know for sure what you're capable of. Just be yourself and you can find a better person.
In my part ive been good to some people even they betrayed me but one thing I can assure once you betrayed me. Get lost and dont dare to be near on me. Its not the end of the world if I lost some of my friends. I dont want to waste my time to the people who are plastic. Be careful coz I can feel the real motives of a true person. If you are a wise one then ill be the smartest human being.
Thank God I still have a true friends that never forget me even they are belong in a high standard status. Thats the essence of true friendship that I build to them. Im with them with happiness and loneliness part that they cant forget. Dont treat your friends as you can benifets only with your own agenda. I feel pity on that kind of attitude so if they cant get something on you then your not a friend, how silly is it? Friends with benifets is another way of saying good enough to hang with, good enough to lay with but never good enough to be with. Ive encountered a lot of friends. Some I kept but some I erased them in my life. If they are not worth it dont stick with them. Im not a good adviser but I can share some of my ideas that really happened on me. Some put me in a situation that I cant forget that embarassing moment and all I can do is forgetting them also to avoid heartache. **Insecurities, betrayal and selfishness** are the things that will never make you a happy person. Life is too short so make it sure your life will be meaningful will full of love and happiness.
Thats all for today guys and please be good to your friends. Dont wear you mask just to hide the real you. Thanks and God bless you all... **December 28, 2021** **5:22pm** **Tuesday** **Philippines** **The fighter mom,** **Jeansapphire39**
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Yes, friendship should be regardless of status. And friends should always be there to support each other and without any strand of betrayal. I'm thankful for the kinds of friends I have.
True.. Friendship is hard to gain also but once you get it, really worth it. Im happy for your circle of friends you had.
I've been betrayed so many times and have begun to have trust issues ever since. I don't see myself being too close with anyone ever again.
Oh so sorry for that. As a matter of fact I still have trusted friends.
This is true sis. Nowadays it's very rare to find a real friends that's why we need to be careful to the people we want to be friends with. There are a lot of fake ones. You expect that they are real but it doesn't. I am a victim on this. When I met a girl and we became close each other but at the end she's a fake. She's using me only. I thought she was real. It's really hurt. After what happened I am careful to the people who I've encounter.
Sorry for that sis.. Ang galing ng acting pala at nadinggoy ka tlga. Saklap talaga pg naloko ka no pero ang mas masakit yung nilagay ka sa sitwasyon na pinahiya ka talaga. Kaya extra careful tlaga tayo sa mga fake friends.
Kaya ako sis naniniwala sa quality over quantity, di mo kelangan ng maraming friends as long as there is someone who will stay loyal to you:)
Truelala ka dyan sis. Wla nmn contest sa padamihan ng friends ang importnte yung di plastic din. Hirap na mkhnap ng loyal tlga sis.
Tama, minsan nga yung di mo inaasahan sya pa ang magstay na loyal
Big check ka dyan sis! Yung andon talaga syo kahit wla namang kailangan. Iba na ngayon sis pg wlang makukuha, iiwanan ka na.
Kaya nga eh, ung mangungumusta lang para mangutang🙊
Hahaha yan tlaga ang nagpapwindang sa akin sis.. Sabay sulpot pero mangungutang lng pala😁.
Dear Jean, you are definitely a kind and compassionate friend, but unfortunately some people even seek benefits in friendship, and only expect from others, the best thing to do, as you said, is to give up and forget. Such a kind person is certainly never alone, and her surroundings are always filled with worthy friends...
Thank you my ellen. We dont need to stay with a plastic people. I still have a true friends can be with me for my whole life.
*May pinaghuhugatan ka sis? Bitaw sis, mas ok ng gamay ra atong friends basta kay true lang, di pareho sa uban nga muduol lang nato para makabenipisyo or makaspy sa atong kinabuhi. Di pud nako kinahanglan ng mga plastic na friends, kung di sila ganahan nako feel free silang muhawa.*
Kanang wa nay lain nahimong topic sis hahaha. Kini rkn para maiba na sd. Di sd nko epugos ako self sa mga taong ayaw sd sa akoa.. Di mgskit ako tiyan nila ah.
*Mao man sis, bahala sila, mabuhi bitaw ta nga wala sila. Kaysa naman naa din makonsomisyon lang ta sa mga kaplastikan nila*
Mao mn! Dahhhh mg iyahay gud sis ky wa raba sila kahatag ug pagkaon nato, char lng! Hahahah
*Aw lagi tinuod man, sus di na uso karon ng daghan kaayo ang friendship. Bahala man ug gamay lang, basta kay trusted ug true lang*
Di sd ko gnhan anang sa kdghn mgwait pka kanus a paka storyahon hahahah.. Mouli ko ana ui 😅😅.
*Hahaha maka OP sa, usahay murag flower2x rata nila*
Kadto c Annalisa pg muanhe dri sa amo lugar iya mi etapok tpos dghn kaau na amiga na mga mdams nya mao di ko muadto pg manghgad ug dinner. Mgyawyaw sya ngano di ko muadto. Ingnan nko kpoy mghulat ui kanus a ko nimo storyahon. Ktwa c Jeanete sko😅.
*Hahaha, daghan man sad lagi mo nga friendship oi. Akong friendship ani akong mga igsoon ug akong family ra jud*
Dghn lgi pero selected ra sd ang masalegan sa tanan.. Friendly bya ko di bya ta pareha sa ubn nga mamili ky level up bya sila😅😅.
*Haha ok lang na oi, at least naa jud nasalihan ba*
Pasagdaan nalang na natung mga ingon ana nga tawo dae, dili na sila love sa ilang mama. Hehe likayan nalang na natu mga ingon ana na klase sa tawo.
Nktwa ko sa dli sila love sa ilang mama.. U make my day happy 😅😅😅. Bsta palayo sila sa ako dae ky sasamain jud sila.
Your words are true. I have been a victim of trust. People might think they are better than you and try to use you achieve something. That really bad and forbidden. That why I am always careful before calling people my friend. This is really informative. Thanks
Thanks for your compliments but thats the reality of some people sorrounds us. Its hard to find a true friend than never leave us... Have a nice day ahead.
We should not force ourselves to become someone who we are not just to seek some attention from someone. There's high possibility to meet with fake friends, fake peoples than real one, nowdays we must stay more careful than before. I think we all once faced betrayal in our lives, we have to choose our circle of friends very carefully.
Your absolutely right, we need extra careful to the fake people. Its so tiring to be plastic to others, right? I choose to be happy rather to be a selfish.
As we don't want fake peoples in our life like this other people too deserves real friends, real people. We need to understand that first of all we need to make ourselves real only then we will get real people in our life.
Your right. We really need to be real first but even were real some people really hurt us. By using us.
There are lots of people like this, no matter how good you behave to them they will always think to betray us. Just leave those people and cherish those people who are good and healthy to your soul and mind.
I leave them already and learned to forget them. Anyways advance happy new year to you..
Sa totoo ang panahon ngayon! simula nung naging hightect, marami na tayong makikitang nagseselos at judgmental,minsan akala natin mabait, pag kaharap lang natin, pag nakatalikod tayo makikita na natin ang inis! Ngunit, hindi lahat! malakas na kagat sa likod .hehe
Tama! Naging hightech na din pag iisip ng mga tao. Mas gusto ko pa yung ipakita na lng na ang totoo kesa mgmamaskara pa para magmukhang mbait. Tao nga nmm oh.
Sis kung ayaw nila huwag mo pilitin ,hayae na lng na sila ,minsan bag hahanap lng nsman yan dila ng makukuha saiyo .Pro ang totoo e mamarites ka lng nila
Nawitness ko lng yan sis pero di nmn nangyari yan sa akin ksi pg ayaw ko din ako na umiiwas. Mahahalata mo nmn kung ano pakay syo. Kya wag pilitin pumasok sa isang grupo na di ka nmn kayang tanggapin ksi.
Trust but verify! Only friendship tested by years can be real. And I will also say that a friend is a friend in need.
True sis! Must be verified and trust must be gain. Friend can be in you side even sorrowness or happiness.
They say you have three real friends in life, ones that will come running no matter where they are in the world. I guess yours are your three decades old friends like Jeanette in Norway. Love your banner and Happy New Year in advance :)
Yes Teng. Jeanete is really a true friend of mine. Always on my side no matter what happened. Happy New Year too and its raining again today..
True friends always stand by you
Yes sis.. As always. Thanks to my true friends.