Depression is not easy

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Are you familiar with depression? It's very common for us especially to the people we've known. A kind of disease that could kill a person. The only thing I know is they are the one who need some attentions that could be a better help for them. Since I'm out of topic again and my brains cells is very naughty. Don't want to cooperate lol.

Now I'm gonna share to all of you of what happened to my fellow classmate in highschool. She's Jonalyn but we call her nickname "Janjan". I'm not fond of chatting at Facebook messenger but recently my one classmate want me to find out what happened to Jonalyn. I've been searching her 2 Facebook accounts but no reply with my messages. Now I need some help with my batchmates because we have a group chat. Funny thing is no one answered me immediately hahaha.

Until one of my classmate replying my question and send me the 1 fb account she's been using now. Oh my god! I forgot the name of her daughter Menathalie hahaha. Thanks to Annalyn that living at Davao City. I send some messages to her but she didn't reply. What the heck! It's makes me worried why she can't reply me that usually she replied me easily. Until 1 day she called me via FB messenger. She's been drinking a wine without any glass to be used. Just zip directly to her mouth. Then I tell her, hey why are you drinking its so early. I just want to drink then I have 2 bottles left at the plastic bag. I want to forget my problems. That's the reason I want to drink everyday. Japan is 1 hour ahead of Philippines. That time is 8am so it's 9am there.

Its Janjan.. Showing her beloved wine.

My 2 classmates...

Apparently I didn't know she's suffering a depression until I ask her. Then I beg her to tell me everything but due to the effect of the wine I cannot talk to her properly. I feel pity to her while watching at the camera. What an ugly face not like before. A pretty one that people can appreciate her beauty. My classmate ruel want a group chat for the 3 of us. His the one ask me about Jonalyn. They are closed since highschool but no one knows what happened to Janjan. We're not really closed but she's a good person for me. An introvert that all she want is to be alone.

Our convo this morning. It's bisaya dialect in English, before I have a lots of money then they send me some foods then now they don't know me. So sad😔.

After 2 weeks of talking to Janjan, she had an improvement. We advice her to minimized in drinking a wine everyday. It's not to her health also then she had a daughter to be take care. Bring Menathalie to school everyday. Don't be so overthinker. Always pray to God and talk to him if you feel scared. She had no one actually. Her family really don't care as what she said. All they want is money Jean. So sad if your family is like that. They don't even asking her situation. Also to her friends at Japan , same as her family.

Everyday I always chat her just to check on her and Menathalie. Spending some minutes to her is really a big help. She need someone to rely on. Having a depression is not easy. Sometimes you cannot control it. She need a sleeping pills every night just to have a nice sleep. Hope God will always protect and her daughter.

That's all for today guys and thanks for reading. Be good to the people who are needy.

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July 28, 2022

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Kalisod jud anang depression sis ay. Need jud ug naay tawong masultihan para ipagawas ang gibati ug kanang tawo nga makasabot sa ilang sitwasyon. Maayo kay sige nimo siya maka storya sis.

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2 years ago

Luoy kaau sis ky grvh na sila mg self pity. Advance kaau mg isip nya sensitive kaau na sila mao mg amping jud sa mga ikastorya sa ilaha. Everyday nko sya twagan ug echat para mafeel nya nga naa pay tawo nkadumdom nya.

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2 years ago

Relate jud ko anang sensitive sis. Di gyud sayon mabutamg sa ingon Ana na sitwasyon. Mas lisod kung pati pamilya walay pake no?

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2 years ago

Sahay sensitive mn ko pero dedmahon ra later. Graveh iya pamilya wa jud paki nya ba. Nalipay ko ky nagpost na sa fb c janjan nya mski di ko tig like didto gebuhat nko para mahapi pud sya ba. Di mn jud ko active sa fb sis ui hehehe.

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2 years ago

Nasa Japan pa din sya sis? Baka problem din sa pera ano, nawala ba ng work? Kapag walang nakakausap talaga ang tao na matino at depress madala magsuicide na lang. Kaya dapat nalilibang sila para makatulog ng maayos din, puyat, gutom, mental stress, need nila ng kausap na hindi bias pero hindi din naman naninisi, yong may maganda maiipayo, minsan lalo ka pa maistress e.

Sending positive build up sa mga may mental sickness. May the right people meet them.

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2 years ago

Yes sis nasa Japan pa din silanng daughter nya. Mga citizen na ksi sila at wlang prblma pera don ksi may bigay ang government don sa kanilang dlwa. Di yan gaya ng pinas pero don pati pg aaral ng bata di mo na iisipin. Tlagang may sarili syang mundo na ayw nya sabihin sa ibang tao. Medyo sensitive ksi yang may mga depression sis kya need nila may kausap lagi.

Salamat sis. Everyday ko sya kausap at ngayon din nagchachat muna kmi ksi bibisitahin sya Ng tga city hall today. Later na ako tatawag sa knya.

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2 years ago

when a person experiences the stresses and bitterness of life then he is normal. we are ordinary humans who can feel happiness and sadness because it is a limitation but we should never be afraid to rise up and choose it.

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2 years ago

It's true but shes weak. Too much overthink is not good to her health. Until she commit suicide few years ago and I thought she overcome it as what I've seen in her Facebook posts.

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2 years ago

Sa ganyang sitwasyon ang kailangan talaga nila kausap at uunawa sa kanila. Very good sissy nakakatuwa naman at naglaan ka ng time para sa kanya.

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2 years ago

Hello sissy. Wla ka pa palang article na napublish. Mas mgnda mg introduce yourself ka muna para makilala ka ng lahat at mabibisita ka nila lagi.

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2 years ago

Salamat, hindi ko pa nga nagagawa yan. Nauna pang mag post kesa mag introduce,slmat sissy, 😘

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2 years ago

Need nya talaga ng karamay sissy at sino ba nmn di maaawa sa sitwasyon nya nong una ko syang mkita sa vcall namin. Grvh ang haggard tlga.

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2 years ago

Mbuti mabait kang friends dahil once n kylngn k nila andian k nkready na suportahan at kausapin

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2 years ago

Salamat sis at naging kaibigan ko din sya nong highskol pa kami. Invited ako lagi pag may okasyon sa bahay nila. Pag umuuwi nmn Nlng pinas lagi nya ako sinasabihan.

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2 years ago

Ok friend

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2 years ago

Buti na lang ate may mga friends po siya na tulad niyo because apparently, suffering from depression is a difficult phase. Need po talaga ng someone to help her. I hope that she will overcome all of that.

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2 years ago

Kala ko tlga langga naging okay na sya kasi nagpopost na sya sa fb Ng good vibes. Nagsuicide yan few years ago.

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2 years ago

I appreciate what you did to your friend. You're an instrument for her change. Sana maraming taking ganyan.

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2 years ago

Salamat po at kahit sa chat at videocall namin sya nakikita bsta okay lng sila ay kampante na kami.

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2 years ago

Kung masubrahan na siya ug inom sis basin ma alcoholic siya ba murag ma addict sa wine almost everyday mag sige ug inom,need jud siya ug mga friends na mu encourage niya kinahanglan gyud ug more attention kay murag nag self_pity maong naingon ana iyang kahimtang

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2 years ago

Everyday gani sis tpos late nami nkblo nga ingon ana diay iya kahemtang ba. Luoy kaau sa video namo. Haggard face nya way arig as in maot kaau. Lutang sya kastorya, pataka ra ug tubag lagi mao ingnon namo yw inom ugma ky twagan ka namo. Need jud sya ug karamay sis.

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2 years ago

Basin need na siya ug professional help sis,kay basin ma nervous breakdown nah lisod na

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2 years ago

Naa sya doctor sis ug tambal nga ginatake. Lahi sa Japan ky atimanon jud ka didto pero wa lng lagi sya kastorya nga lain aside sa iya anak.

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2 years ago

Dili gayud lalim ang depression sis. May mga possible talagang mga pangyayari na hindi maganda but I know your friend is fighter sis. I'm sure magiging okay siya. God will help her. 🙏

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2 years ago

Sis naglaslas na sauna sa video sa Facebook as in naa iya anak sa camera. Kuyawan mi ato nga time. Abi nko na okay na sya ky iya mga posts after few months ky galaag mn sila ni nathalie.

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2 years ago

Mao ba sis. Grabe sis. Depress na depress siya ato sis. 🥺 Naa pa gayud iyang anak sis.

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2 years ago

Kuyaw kaau sya ky di mn moshare sa laing tawo mao way nkblo sa amoa batch. Gekuti kuti until nishare sya. Ana ko yw pg overthink lagi ky imo utok ana makutaw. Huna hunaon na lng nimo anak nga luoy na ug imo biyaan. Dili kasulbaran ang kamatayon ha.

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2 years ago

Gayud sis. Tama gayud ka. Unta mamati niya ug ma realize niya kay looy gayud ang bata sis.

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2 years ago

Depression is for real sis, nobody is exempted this one, nobody can say that he or she is strong enough when it strikes. Maong a true friend is a treasure gyd Kay diha makita Kung tinuod ba gyd sila sa panahon nga nagkinahanglan ta sa ilaha.

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2 years ago

Yes sis, a true killer jud ning depression ba. Imo sarili imo kalaban mao di jud mg overthink ky mao jud na makadaut sa tanan tanan. Luoy kaau na ultimo pamilya nya wa jud mo suporta nya.

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2 years ago

Hoping and praying for her fast recovery, and you're right depression is a serious thing to be addressed immediately, so having a friend during this time is a must, emotionally, and mentally help is big thing for them.

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2 years ago

Indeed...Talking with her is really a big help. We're always praying na magiging okay na sya at wag na maadik kakainom para lng tumakas sa prblma nya.

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2 years ago

Maayo na lang sis nag try jud mo ug contact sa iyaha basi kung wala basi maulahi na ang tanan. Padayuna lang sis she is needing someone to talk to. Maayo ng naa syang masharean sa iyang mga problema.

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2 years ago

Nagreach out jud mi nya sis ky luoy sd kaau basin unsa buhaton nya tpos mg unsa na lng twn iya anak.

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2 years ago

Mao lagi oi.. bisan sa ana nga way matabangan sya.

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2 years ago

Di jod lalim ng ingana maamsh. Imo kaugalingon imo kontra. Kinahanglan jod strong.

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2 years ago

Kapila na naglaslas maamsh pero nagtuo ko na overcome na nya..ay ay pud wa nko na active sa fb mao di nko updated sa iyha.

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2 years ago

You can really find real Friends when you're broke and that's the fact. Hopefully she can fully recover, depression isn't a joke and so she needed to be strong for her child and for her self.

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2 years ago

True ka dyan sis. Sabi ko nga sa knya maawa ka sa sarili mo at need mo mkaahon sa depression. E let go mo yang mga regrets sa buhay para maging peaceful na utak mo. Dami ksi nya iniisip eh.

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2 years ago

Nice te kay naa na sya improvement. Need jud niyag support ug someone to lean on to like you which made me see you not just a good friend but a great person as well. I'll be praying sa iyang complete recovery ate. Hope she'll be better soonest.💗

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2 years ago

Salamat at sino ba nmn ang hindi maaawa mkita mo sa camera na nalulong na sa alak. Tapos may anak pa sya. Masakit sa heart nong makita ko sya at nkakaiyak sitwasyon nya kya kinakausap ko everyday then nag update din sya ano ginagawa nya don.

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2 years ago

Oo nga po haystt.

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2 years ago

Dili jud lalim ng muagi ug depression .maayo nlang ky naa mo mga friends niya sis.Yes depression can kill mao ng nahitabo sa ako ex live in Partner.gisolo ang probs mao ng wa na kaagwanta ng suicide

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2 years ago

Kuyaw kaau na sis labi na way kahungawan nya. Naa jud posibilidad mg suicide ky naglaslas na dati ug abi nko naulian na kya okay nmn sya sa mga posts nya sa fb.

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