I was born in the year 1995. I am already 25 years old. Is it safe to say that this age is right or ideal to get married?
Most of my high school friends and college friends are already having their babies and some are getting married. So, it is now a wedding or pregnancy season? At least for us, 90s babies?
When I think about myself getting married, I would say that I'm not ready yet. Aside from financial instability, and unemployment, I am not mentally ready yet. I mean, I am slightly emotionally ready of seeing myself walking down the aisle with my wedding gown towards the man that I would spend the rest of my life with. The excitement I imagine when I foresee that situation to happen but there's also one thing that I'm sure of that I'm not ready for it yet.
As for now, I don't see myself raising a kid of my own as I consider it a huge responsibility and hassle. For the moms out there, I apologize for my definition of it. Most probably because I'm afraid of getting pregnant.
Is marriage all about raising kids? Culture is a key factor in why marriage is happening. For Asian families, It is to not break the dynasty and continue its chain. By tradition, it's about the children taking care of the parents when they get older.
Isn't marriage all about your love for each other? With or without kids, you're okay with it? There are some cases of marriage where couples break up because the woman couldn't bear a child.
Why are we obligated of getting pregnant? It's just unfortunate for those who get married because women are treated as human machines. Sorry if I sound too negative about it but that's my two cents.
I acknowledge that bearing a child is a gift from God. It's a treasure that could not be replaced with someone or anything that has monetary value. I should be thankful to my parents for bringing me into this world.
I know this article is biased and just one-sided but this is just my personal opinion.
So I attended my college girl friend's wedding. I know the guy she's marrying because we go to the same college and we also have the same course. The four of us even shared the same room when we were in Cebu for work. We had a lot of memories of being together for a year until homesickness defeated us and we parted ways. We are friends for 7 years now.
The last time we saw each other was the time when we separated from the terminal. So then finally, we reunited and saw each other again. This time, because of a milestone that we witnessed.
This is the first time I saw Jason crying. I have known him as a happy guy, the funny guy in the squad but he seemed to be the softest person in this video and just how lovely the gown of Mae's was. 😍 She looked so pretty and elegant. ❤
They've been together for 7 years. They became a couple back in college, the year 2013. We witnessed how strong the relationship was. They broke up for 2 months because of a serious misunderstanding but they got back together after.
I am so happy for them and I do really hope that their marriage will last for the rest of their lives. I have always been rooting for these two.
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