Can girls ask guys out?

Haha. You really have a strong personality. That's why you are mostly get misunderstood by people. Well, you did go for gold. 🍻

Yeah, but as times passed by I've learned not to care about what people say to me. As long as I did not harm anyone, I should not worry, so I won't get stress.

Totally. Why waste time on dealing with other people's negativity. Maka stress ra. Haha

Mao lge, bitaw basin nalain kas akong mga comment nimo ba sorry ha I didn't mean it sorry.

Hehe. I must confess, I found it insensitive but naaah, we're good now. Past is past. 😅

My bad tsk sorry, I was very hyped that day. Again sorry, Ill be more cautious with my comments next time especially this is about your psychological issues.😌

Hehe. Really, I appreciate you for clearing things out between us. I am kind of reserved from what I feel and I admit, I went a bit distant after that but now it feels good that we no longer have issues with each other. ☺

Thank you, I also fell that. That is why I have to apologize, thanks for your understanding. I also don't like to have misunderstanding especially here in reading cash with all the users. Promise I'll be more cautious next time.

Thank you for reaching out. I mean, the effort and the thought you put for this conversation. I appreciate it. 🤭❤ See you around.

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How was it then? Did something good happen? Hehe

It's just hanging out lang naman. Friend zone haha

Haha. At least, if you did not do it then you will always left wondering 😅

That's life hehe. Atleast I am happy eith his company during that time haha.

Did you two remain friends? 😅

Yeah. He's a good friend of mine haha. And he doesn't know that I have a crush on him hha.

Until now? Hehe. Why don't you let him know? It wouldn't matter still because of your personal lives now, but at least he deserves to know hehe?

I choose not to tell him haha. I only had a crush on him but I cant imagine more deeper that it haha. I only had a crush on him because he has a sense of humor. I called him Kuya, he calls me Ate haha. Now hes still single 😄 He's 28 , hes an Ilonggo. Nacucutan lang talaga ko sa kanya haha.

Well, there are situations like that which doesn't need to be escalated and just stay where they are. ☺

Yep. Sometimes I said that I had a crush on him pero pabiro. Tawang tawa lang sya and he will say I am not your type ate jen haha.

I guess that's his way of dumping you. Sorry for the words 🙈😅

Yes hahaha. Because I know I am not his type hahaha. @Mykee kung nababasa mo to. Kilala mo ba tong tinutukoy ko hahaha

Hehehe. Maki chika nga. Charoot 😆

Officemate kasi namin yun dati hahaha

I see. Hehehe. Bat ako kinikilig 😆🤦‍♀️

Bakit nga ba? hahaha

Pero di pa kayo ni mister neto or kayo na?

Hindi ko pa sya kilala non haha.

Hehe. Kaya maraming time 😆

I agree. Girls have this intuition that really works most of the time. Anyway, this article talks about asking a guy whom you just met. Would you still do it? Hehe

Aah, there's no problem with that. The article mainly tackles to asking out a guy whom you just met the first time. Will you still ask the guy? Hehe

Mybe yes,if i am interested to know him I am goingvto ask him

Exactly. Hehe. That guy is someone you're interested to so go after the person ☺

Well, this pertains to someone whom you just met. If the girl seems to be serious and sincere, why not right?

On the other hand, regardless of who asks first who, it wouldn't really matter because they are already a couple. ☺

That is if the girl is not i know a slutty one, maybe its ok. There are different kinds of girls nowadays. They are like gadgets who upgrade everyday and match the qualities and actions men should do. I'm not being unfair in here but i respect women very much, but that depends on the situation if they do respect me also.

...Yes i agree.

Yeah right. Respect begets respect. There has to be gender equality here.

I Agree👍

Haha. I like that you called the attention of the guys out there. 🤭 Thank you for the wishes of our relationship. I wish the same to you too.

Yep, atleast we will know their thoughts.. due to stereotyping,maraming tumatandang dalaga at binata😅

Nakoo, totoo. It's like society dictates someone's future eh. However, the decision is still to the girl or the guy. At the end of the day, we are entitled with our own choices ☺

Exactly. Your mind will keep telling you of your what-ifs. Oh, that's sad to hear. Nevertheless, if you are really destined to someone, you will end up together ☺

Exactly. Besides, we are entitled with our own decisions. However, like I said above, people behave as to how their culture influence them. So it's still an issue 😅

True.There are culture also that require the girl to choose a boy and propose a marriage.

Yup. Chinese traditions are first fo mention. By the way, thanks for the upvote. Hihi 🤭

Your welcome. You deserve it and I want to read more of your articles,hehe,sounds demanding,but really I enjoyed reading your articles..

Yay! Kinikilig ako. Hahaha. Will keep writing more ma'am. I hope to read more of your articles as well 🤭

Un lang I am somewhat uncomfortable to be called "maam"..haha..sis or chelou is preferable..hehe..As for me I was really drain for the whole day so just enjoying myself reading interesting content here.😉

Oops, sorry. That was a wrong move. Hihi 🤭 Ya, I can relate too. There are days where my mind is too exhausted to function. It needs time to recharge. 😉

Haha. I agree with what you said about the maze part. My man is always frustrated whenever I get mad at him for he thinks of no reason. I had my reason, he just couldn't get it. He always says that guys are not mind readers. Why don't we switch positions? 😆

Same same but then he realizes why i get mad after some time since half the time, it's the same cause anyways. I still don't like the fact that he still talks to his ex even if wala na though he doesn't stop because well, they're friends. Still hate it though.

I can relate to them causing the same mistake over again. It annoys me and it's tiring to dwell on the same issue again right.

Woooa, that concerns me too. What things do they talk about? Do they talk frequently?

Yeah so half the time you just end up letting them be. As long as it doesn't damage the relationship and that you trust him, right?

Dunno. Game stuff mostly since i don't have the time to play anymore but i still know about the games he talks about, i just can't play right now. Plus about their old friends

Yup. As long as it doesn't ruin the relationship and just trust him. But still, you can't help to think about the things they talk about. What if they go deeper and you don't have any clue about it. Anything can happen though. On a lighter side, we just have to trust them. They know for themselves what's at stake when they cross the line. They're matured enough to think about the possible consequences ☺

Well I've been assured countless of times and the ex is already dating someone again, much longer then i and him have so i think it's fine at times, just not when there's tagging on soc med walls involved because it's a bit of a mood killer for me when i see those

It really is. It feels like there is still a special connection.

Well they've known each other since junior high, what else is there to do. I've only known him for 2 years but i don't want to pry into it more. They did lose contact after so many years, after all

Oh, that's the thing. Well, it's part of their history, and we can't change it so might as well focus on the present and nurture it for the future ☺

I couldn't agree more with what you said. Exactly my point. Women should be empowered and be treated like gems as you said. Then again, it's still up to the decision of the one who's asking first 😆

Hmmm.. because as what i see and learn on my 25th existence to the country of my father side. Its not allowed the woman to asked a guy to go out. That will be a big embarrassment and shame to the family. As i grew up as a moslem, i have seen so many forbidden specially when it comes to a man and woman. I am not a religious type of person. Because asking a guy to go out same as You are expressing your feelings towards to a man. Which is in our culture its not right. Its a big shame. Woman should be courted by a man. Until the woman said yes. And they will get married. But, there is an option to say no to a woman side” But anyhow, people in this generation have already change. So what ever the woman’s want and she is comfortable with it. She can do what she wants even to ask a guy to go out. 😊 the only thing is. She should take care of herself. 🙂 And know the limitations and never regret things.

I agree. I knew the responses of this article would be culture-based so it really differs from which culture you are in. Others may stick to their culture and others won't and explore new things.

I agree. This doesn't really apply here in our country because toxic judgmental Pinoys are not open for change. 🤭

Exactly. Europeans are somehow liberated so asking out a guy doesn't really matter.

Right. This culture in the Philippines is hard to change because we were taught about values like being Maria Clara and Mahinhin na dalaga. Hahaha.

Absolutely. I think other Asian countries still practice their traditional way of courtship though. Chinese are so strict when it comes to marriage. They arrange marriage right away. No time for asking a guy out. 😆

Hahaha. Indeed. I have a blood of chinese but good thing we don't have that kind of traditional marriage. It might be the end of me. Hahaha.

Wooooa. Chinita girl. Hehehe. So your father is Chinese or your mother?

Mother side. But not pure chinese na.. hehehe. Mga 75% nlng. Lolo is pure chinese then lola is half.. hahaha. Halo halo na..

Kaya pala chinita ka miss andi. Hehe. Kmusta phone mo?

Hahaha. Chinita24 tlg username ko madalas sa Yahoo messenger. Naabutan mo ba yun? Hahahaha. Yung phone ko, napaayos ko na. 500php. Huhuhu. Pero okay lang kesa bago. Wala akong pambili. Hahahaha

Familiar ako nun pero di ko nagamit. Hehe

Ganon ba. Okay na yan basta gumagana pa. Hehe. Pero if masyado nang malaki ang expense sa pagpapaayos, invest ka nlng ng bago. 😉

Right. I mean, that girl really likes you because she made the first move right? Unless she's on a mission 🤦‍♀️💔 There are some circumstances that this happens for both genders.

Well, if she is on mission, she's gonna regret that. I am good at exposing people🤣🤣and destroy careers😂😂😂

Woohoo. Fiesty 🙈😲 She chose the wrong person to mess with. It's gonna be a boomerang effect 🤭

🤭🤭🤭🤭 I like to play these games🤣🤣

This pertains to a setting whom you just first met. 😅

Haha. Me too. Personally, I can't initiate to ask a guy out whom I just met because first of all, I'm an awkward person. Secondly, I don't go out 🤭🤷‍♀️

haha. me too. I don't use to go out with a man because I'm just an ugly duckling when I was young. haha. And until now I can't ask a newly-met guy to go out. haha

This doesn't apply to both of us then 🤭 but you are in a relationship now?

Yes. haha. So I initiated it when I really want to go out and if he's in the mood. haha. He's not also a person who always wants to go out. He prefer to stay at home and cook food. How about you?

Then I guess your personalities are a match.

Yup, I am. As I've mentioned in the article 😅

not really. haha. I think we have the same attitude which not good in some ways.hahaha

Like what attitude? Hehe.

uhm. stubborn yet sweet in some ways too :)

Yieee. I like that. Naughty but sweet. But sometimes if he's too naughty, I get mad right away 🤭

haha. me too.