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4 years ago

If a man hurts you again and again, insults you again and again, and leaves you again and again, even after loving someone dearly, then you should stay away from that man.

Because the man understands that you are very weak towards him. Whatever he does, you will forgive him. And he will use this opportunity. He will come to you when you need to, and will push you away when you need to.

Not everyone loves in return for love. Some even look for opportunities. Capitalizing on your weakness, this man will deceive you in the name of love, will make you cry. Because he doesn't love you. He will never love you.

Rather, he will want you to love him, to care for him, to care for him, to suffocate for him. And seeing this, he will want to discover himself as a very valuable person. He will enjoy a demonic pleasure seeing your chatter.

He will not leave you completely, nor will he hold you completely. He will only use you if you need to.

When he needs to, he will hit you, insult you, look for reasons to leave again and again, and leave again and again.

After a while he will come back and think that he has made a mistake and he is sorry. He will apologize. You will believe him and forgive him. Because he knows very well that you can't live without him. He understands that you are trapped in his net. That's how he will play with your emotions.

People who leave again and again never return to the pull of love. No one ever leaves when they love. In fact, these people come back because they can't find anyone better.

Once found, it does not come. They eat the tree and come up with the attitude of picking up the floor. They will tear you to pieces in the guise of love.

This man should not be forgiven again and again for love. Forgiveness is a great thing, but forgiving again and again is a weakness. This does not increase the courage of the criminal but decreases it.

You have to remember that once people make a mistake. Those who do the same thing over and over again are not wrong, they do it on purpose.

Repeatedly forgiving such people means creating an opportunity to make mistakes once again. Repairing the hammer of breaking yourself anew. The ax dies on its own feet.

Keep yourself away from the person who plays with your emotions, plays with love, enjoys hurting. Hide your weakness in yourself. Love is okay, so don't give up self-esteem.

Don't make yourself as cheap as the putty fish in the market. Don't hand yourself over to someone who doesn't appreciate you. Don't give it a chance to break again and again. Instead, try to build yourself up mentally.

Love yourself before you love someone. Respect your love.

Instead of trying unsuccessfully to catch the cheater, push him out. Explain to him that the place of the deceiver is not in your heart, but in the dustbin.

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Yes you are right - love yourself before you love others. Even when you are in love you should never let your self-esteem down. If someone treats you in such a harsh way, there is no reason to love him.

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4 years ago

There's nothing wrong in forgiving. You can forgive but also keep your distance too. It's better to forgive, let go and keep your distance. You'll feel free rather than holding onto grudges. Forgiveness doesn't mean you should get back together. By the way, it's a nice article ❤️

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4 years ago

I always believe that everyone deserves a second chance but if you messed up that second chance, that's it, no more third chance. If we wanna be loved, we should first love ourselves. Stop falling for the wrong person over and over again.

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4 years ago

I agree Mr. Jack, loving yourself is something each individual needs at any rate sooner or later in their lives. I accept that caring yourself is one of the upbeat things throughout your life. In the event that you're content with what your identity is, at that point it's simpler to love and be cherishes by another person. It helps facilitate the brain and there are not weights on your shoulders agonizing over what others consider you. You should adore yourself before you can cherish another. By tolerating yourself and completely being what you are, your basic presence can fulfill others, right Mr. Jack?

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4 years ago

this is so true and had ability to cause eye opening effect indeed we have to learn the fact that person who is continously hurting your self respect he is never ever in love with you instead they just want to satisify their ego that you love them unconditionally so its better to stay away

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4 years ago

reality is very hard , good article dear

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