Just a while ago, I am watching Idol on Quiz, a korean show which Idols or celebrities compete in answering quizzes which have a prize money in which they will donate it to people who are studying korean languages. Then again it gives me an idea on what write.
"Love is loving an imperfect person perfectly."
We fall inlove unexpectedly with unexpected person. A once stranger to us suddenly becomes one of the most important person in our life.
Some say that we can like many but we can only love one because we have only one heart.
A person only takes three seconds to fall in love with someone. And when it happens, it seems like everything turns magical, that everything is in slow motion, that the it seems the only person in world are only the two of you. That's how person describe things when they fall inlove, especially when they felt the love at first sight.
Is that true? Or it's just an exaggeration of some people?
Either it's true or not, falling in love is a good things. You felt the happiness and joy when you give love and felt the love. It brings you to cloud nine of happiness.
Are inlove right know? Have you ever heard the PINK LENS EFFECT?
WHAT IS PINK LENS EFFECT?
When we fall in love, we felt that everything seems perfect and so as the person you love.
When we love someone, it turns our heart into upsideward and a butterflies in our stomach. They bring liveliness and more smile on our face. The world looks like bright and beautiful. We see the world differently. We look at the person we love as someone who is perfect in whatever he/she does, and that is pink lens effect, seeing someone as perfect.
It's like drinking a love potion then suddenly we were head over heals falling in love with that someone. That whatever he/she does, it's adorable, lovable and perfectly.
People who are most likely experiencing this pink lens effect are the newly couples. They are into the stage of discovering one another, but only see the perfect side of each other. A total smitten.
Isn't great to feel love and be loved?
But, like some things that has an expiration, pink lens effect has it too.
The validity period of pink lens effect is three years at the most. As the relationship go longer, we begin to see things differently. We soon realized and see the weakness of the person we love. What we saw as their strength and strong point begins to look like a disadvantage. But actual, the person we love is the same as he or she was, it is our mind that change how we see them.
If you eventually realize that he/she isn't perfect, will you leave him/her? Will you break up?
As years goes on, real love develop. It we accept each others differences and flaws, and cover each others weaknesses, be considerate with each other, the love and trust that have been firm won't be expire.
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I don't know why they seem to see the person they love as perfect. For me, loving means you see his/her imperfections and you still love the person nevertheless.