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Long-term Relationship

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2 years ago

A long term relationship can change us either for the better or worse. Love has the power to change us from who we are.

Every long term couple will undergo different phases in their relationship. Every couple dreamed to make their relationship last. Remember that no matter what, you and your partner are on the same boat and on the same team, you can talked everything or anything together.

Thing you learn unexpectedly in a long term relationship

Questioning your Relationship is normal

Being in a long term relationship, occasionally questioning if your partner is "The One" is normal. In life, want we wanted is happiness together with the person we loved. We want the assurance that the decision we made is right. Everyone has doubts from time to time, whether its for the future or relationship. As long as the doubt aren't lingering and constant, they are normal and even healthy.

You will Experience Temptation

Some people say that "You can like more than but you can only love one." Being in a relationship doesn't prevent us from liking or from being attracted to someone sometimes, especially nowadays. Social medias can be a bridge to interact with the people from our past and present who might not have the best intentions. However, being aware of the temptations allows us to keep our guard up and fight it.

Long term relationship can feel boring

Since you know each other for a long time, you might feel bored especially when to spend of the time together. However, if you truly love each other you will work to find the joy and happiness in everyday.

Forgiveness is Crucial

I remember @Yen, this is for you.

If your partner did something that hurt you, you should communicate about it and work out for a solution together. Don't give a cold shoulder. Arguments will happen, you should fully dealt with it and forgot it and never brought it up again. This allows a couple to move forward.

Arguments are Normal

Arguing is inevitable in every long term relationship. It doesn't matter whether it's a tiny squabble over little things or a serious disagreement, what really matter is how you communicate during and after the argument to solve it. How you work tjings out after a fight is more important than what you are both arguing.

As long as your partner can communicate well, appreciate each other well and can grow together, there's no way your long term relationship has to end.

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I remember when Papa told me " Long engagement is hard". He said that when I told him that me and my ex boyfriend now broke up hahahaha.

But it also depends. I have a friend they are 10 years in relationship but still broke up. There's also 8 years but they are happily married now.

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User's avatar Yen
2 years ago

I guess it depends on how they handle their relationship.

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2 years ago

Yes and it also depends on how they choose each other over circumstances

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User's avatar Yen
2 years ago

Great article

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2 years ago

No relationship or marriage is perfect. Turbulence like on a plane, but if you travel together, then everything is ok in the end

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2 years ago

True, no relationship is perfect and it doesn't have to be perfect. Communication is very important in every relationship.

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2 years ago

No matter how long two people are in a relationship, if they are not destined for each other, that relationship will never work no matter what both of them does to save the relationship. There's always a right person for everyone.

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2 years ago

Relationships are complex. I can't deal with the complexity of it so I'd rather not be in a relationship.

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2 years ago

Forever ka na lang single?? 😂😂

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2 years ago

Siguro 😂 Masaya naman maging single

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2 years ago

Sabagay. 😂😂

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2 years ago

Are you in a relationship by now? A long-term relationship will face so much complexity in the future especially about meddling family matters.. it's pretty complicated that is why some or shall I say most relationship fails, but by following all the tips you've given it can somehow help save the relationship if both parties are willing to compromise.

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2 years ago

Seems like your talking based on your experienced.

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2 years ago

Not so but most cases are like this, the relationship gets complicated when both families are in the middle.

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2 years ago

Hugot Eyb? Hahahaha

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User's avatar Yen
2 years ago

Not so, but I think mostly cases are like this?

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2 years ago

In some ways, yes? But seriously you're right. Sometimes meddling is some of the reason why couple get complicated

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User's avatar Yen
2 years ago

No asa pa! 😆 hahaha sorry mah friend Jabs nilaglag kita 😂

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2 years ago

What you mean by this?

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2 years ago

Hahaha😂😂😂 @esciisc

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