Relationship advice

See what we need to recognize the things that we meaningful the things that are genuinely fulfilling or require patience they all require work they all require energy see the challenges we all want to be with someone who makes us happy when what we need to do is be someone who makes us happy we sit with our friends discussing the rules but no one even knows what game we're trying to play because the problem with our generation not wanting relationships is that at the end of the day.

We actually do a gin a conversation together so often so many of our anxieties are actually built on assumptions or misconceptions which can easily be resolved through a simple conversation as early as you can.

1.Always smile

Let's say nothing smile and drink the poison atleast until that becomes a void we tend to avoid these conversations because we're conscious of the risks of speaking up but unconscious of the risks of not speaking up none of us should stay in relationship where we're fighting all the time but we can learn to change how we fight soften your judgement speak how you'd like to be spoken to affirm before you complain let your partner know you care approach the situation with compassion start with empathy focus on facts iniate the dialogue stay opened minded and remember when you're fighting,the real fight is both of you against the problem not both of you, against each other.

2.Gift of Love

You're against each other you're a gifts person you give more, gifts if you believe in quality time ,you give quality time what we need to focus on is what the other person wants and not what we want,so think about the person that you love or want to show more love to figure out what language they belong to and try some of these out experiment with them to show them more love appreciation and encouragement I guarantee you will increase and strengthen your bond almost immediately and remember this isn't a technique or a trick this is a genuine conveyance of your love and what you love feel about them so give it a go.

3.Self loved

We live in a world where people on self loved and self fueled enough to even consider this the first is getting over your greed and go the second one is recognizing that you have value and when you serve others there's a value exchange and the third when you're feeling full and overflowing you can the overflow to others .

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For me:Fine yourself a partner who is willing to learn and develop themselves along side you.

Selecting the right person is very challenging because people don't come with a manual or a QR code,which you can scan with your mobile device,to get insight into their personality. A lot of people hide their true selves,only showing their best version in the beginning,until a few weeks or few months later you begin to see them for who they are. This is why relationships are exhausting.

This is very good in theory but if you haven't between brought up in a secure environment,to develop this level of awareness and self-confidence then it's no simple matter to learn emotional regulation in particular. This research just seems to reiterate that those lucky enough to have a good start in life and consequent secure attachment are going to do well in relationship,those who haven't are going to struggle.

Everyone agrees that emotional intelligence and awareness are essential. The real question is how to acquire those skills? How does a person learn insight, mutually and emotional regulation.

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-Thank you for reading

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