It's Time to Let Go!

There are a lot of times, we were pointing the things that it wouldn't happen. We took a promises, it will never happen or we took a promises it didn't happen again. Sometimes we did that since we feel it and it's pretty sure but always remember it doesn't have an assurance.

People will change from time to time and it's depend of a situation you walk for. There are a lot of possibilities will happen and we cannot predict our life paths. We didn't know what will happen tomorrow, next month nor next year. Since we know ourselves and it's our belief that we could say a lot of things with promises.

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I have a story with this.

I have a close friend of mine. We are bestfriends. Actually we're all three. I love them so much. We have a lot of differences. Everytime we have a time to each other, we are always laughing. They always make me laugh. The two of them have similarities and I'm the one who's different.

They are always laughing. They are really fond sharing stories but me is a quiet type so they are always teasing me so I can laugh but we are really close. I'm really comfortable with them.

It was fiesta that time. I was invited so we met each other at the town. We walked to their home. We ate and laughing because we missed each other. One of them has a boyfriend that time then she introduced the guy to us. I was really happy since she found her perfect one. I was really happy since the guy was so kind and respectful.

I am the eldest. One of my friend like teasing random things with her but since I am the eldest I didn't teased her instead I gave her an advices which is for her own good also. She gave a lot of promises to us. She said it in front of us at many times.

I always see her in Facebook with her boyfriend. I always supported her. I saw how happy she was. I was really happy with my bestfriend. She always uploaded a photos everywhere they go. I felt their happiness.

Until one time, I was at school attended some program then there was someone chatted me and it was her. She has a lot of cried emoticons so I was worried and nervous. I asked her then she shared to me about her problem.

I gave her an advices again what are things she need to do but she always cried. I called her. I comforted her. I did my best to make her calm. She was going about to have a baby that time. I was really shocked too since I always gave her an advices regarding that things. She gave me a promises but I didn't mind it since it already happened. I focused the things that could help her to make her relax and it's not good to her baby also.

I asked her some apology that time since I cannot accompany her since I was really busy at school. All I can give was chatting to her and always remind her the positive things to make her strong on the situation she had.

Until the time she already gave birth. I congratulate her. I was really happy seeing with her baby. I love seeing pictures she uploaded. She has a cute baby. She said she was really happy.

The passed two months, she chatted me again. She shared to me again about her problem. She said her partner cheated on her and wanted her to break up. I was really shocked. She cried a lot. I gave her an advices with the help with my other friend. We gave her always an advices what are the right things she must do.

After 1 month, she cried again. She said her partner cheated her again. Months passed, her partner do it how many times. She always cried and cried. She was really down. She was really broke. She didn't know what are the things she will gonna do. I said her, it was enough since I saw the situation that her partner will never change. He did it again and again how many times to my bestfriend. He's not worth it. He always gave a pains, sadness and worries to my friend.

I said to my bestfriend. I think it was the time she must stop but she didn't listen to me. She always gave him a chances since she love him a lot.

We have a long talks and we explained to her but she never listen to us. She followed her heart. She said, she believe that her partner will change soon so that was the time I let her be. I was praying that her partner would change also.

After 1 month, she chatted me again. She said that she and her partner broke up already. She realized everything and it was really enough. She realized what she did. She did the right thing and her decision was the best thing she did to herself.

"I was really happy for her while reading those messages. Finally she's awake. She's living now with her family and her baby also. I know someday there will be a perfect man to her. God will gave her a right man."🙏

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Thank you so much. I hope I give you some thoughts with this article of mine.

God bless everyone.😇 Stay safe always.🙏

-JRamona20 💜