Love the right person

No matter how far you stay....
But I will always be in your way...
You are in my prayers and thoughts...
In spite of being quiet I have so much to say...!
Without you, I am nothing and astray....
But this world has distracted us away..!
No one can tolerate the meeting of two souls...
So every time lovers become their prey...!
Mortality of this life soon comes to take me away...
But always remember you're in my heart and will always stay..!


Yesterday I happened to meet with long time friend, although we study in high-school together, but she was moved to another city with her family. So after so many years she came back with her family to meet their relatives here. She contacted with me, and I invited her at my home. After having so many gossips, she began to talk about her first love. This is how she started,

" Although some people consider love as a life, and some as a physical attraction, but to me love is all about sacrifice and sincerity. Love teach us to sacrifice for the happiness of the person we love. I never thought even for once, that someday I would fall in love with someone, but it's something that comes from inside, and we can't restrict ourselves from loving that person.

She further said,

As I am going to talk about my first love, so smile is already on my face. That's the power of our first love that we can't forget it, no matter how far we come. We spent our childhood together, so I don't know when my heart began to felt for him. But when I realize, I decided to confess my feelings before him.

But before I could find a perfect time to confess, I came to know that he is already in love with another girl. It was really painful for me, but I never let my emotions overtake me and decided to be silent. Since the day I am hiding that love in my heart and never told anyone about it.


When I asked, her why she kept silent? She should at least let him know about what is in her heart. She said,

Love is not always to get marry with the person we love, it sometimes demands to give sacrifice, sacrifice to see your love happy, with someone they love.


I was overwhelmed to hear her words, she has a heart made of gold, and I really appreciate her positive thinking. But, I was thinking, that she should let him know about it, because love and confession of it to the person we love is although difficult, but the painful thing ever is to love someone wholeheartedly, but to hide feelings in your heart for one or two reasons. This is actually the most hurting thing, because then your days will pass in agony. Although I have not gone through this situation, but I witnessed my friend, I witnessed how she cried while confessing all this to me.


But according to me if we truly love someone we should confess our feelings before the person we love, might we get a positive reply. I don't mean to say that we should be mean, but at least should confess it. Our main problem is that, in love we only expect, and never try to sacrifice for the others' happiness, which leads us to pain, we should first try to know the truth meaning of love.


Many times we hear others saying that love is a painful thing. When someone gets involve in love, his night and day passes in regretting about his mistake of involving in love, and sometimes deception come to take away the colors of life away.

But, is love really hurts?


No not at all, love doesn't hurt.


Loving the wrong person does.!!

Love is not a sad thing, it's a beautiful relation of care and trust. The one who understand the true meaning of love can know its tenderness. So instead of blaming love, try to know its true meaning, and love the right person always.

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