Always ask their will

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2 years ago

Hi everyone! What going on? My brother in law has just dropped us at home, as we were invited at his home at the splendid meal, which he arranged in the happiness of my nephew's arrival in this world. He is so happy, as happiness of father to hold his own child in his hands, is the most pleasurable thing. He brought a lot of sweets, which he distributed in his neighbors and relatives.

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Furthermore he also invited us at the tasty meal, which he ordered from the restaurants. But the rice and chicken curry are prepared by him, as he is a good chef also...Lol. Actually, while he was in UAE, he was used to cooking for himself, and his roommates, so he is expert in cooking different dishes. In short, it was a splendid meal, and we enjoyed a lot having fun together.

We might stay there longer, but my brother was in hurry, because he can't compromise on cricket match. As today is the PSL final, so he wanted to enjoy this match with his friends. So, on the way we dropped him there. I also buy some chocolates and snacks for my late night cravings..lol

Yesterday, my aunt also came to congratulate us, while having gossips she also informed us about her husband's nephew who is rejected by his finance. Actually, they both were engaged since their childhood, as they parents decided to bind their children in this relationship, even when they were just born. How ridiculous it is...lol

But now they were going to married in few days, while all the shopping was done, but at the last moment girl denied to marry him, as she was interested in someone else. Her parents also forced her, but she asked them to take her own life, if they forced her to do this. Now they are helpless, and can't do anything.

But I think, the fault is of their parents. They shouldn't have done this while they were just infant. Now, as they have grown up, and their priorities, or likes and dislikes have been changed, so they deny to go after their parent's will. Everyone have a right to choose their life partner for themselves, so it's better to leave them to make this big decision for themselves. I don't mean to say, that parents shouldn't involve, but they should at least ask their children's will too.

Once, a father forced his son to marry his niece, but the son was interested in someone else. Although he convinced his father, but he never heard anything, and asked him to be prepare for the wedding. But this never worked on boy, so he left his home at the exact date of his wedding. The father searched his son everywhere, but couldn't find him. So at last, he apologized the bride's parents. If he had heard his son's prospective, he haven't faced this embarrassment.

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Actually, marriage is not a matter of day, but its about spending our whole life with the same person, so this decision should be taken carefully.

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This was what has been happening in our culture too until everything starts taking changes. In our contemporary world, parents aren´t seen forcing their children to marry their own choice of partner, but now, children are given the freedom to go for who their hearts want which is the best.

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2 years ago

I am glad now this thing has been changed in your culture, and parents are preferring their children's will.

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2 years ago

Oh, what a nice meal that must be :) Congrats to you on welcoming your nephew :)

And what happened to the nephew of your aunt's husband should at least teach parents to probably not arrange for their children's spouses and let them choose their own when they grow up. Just my thoughts anyway :)

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2 years ago

I really couldn't get a grasp of why people would force other people to marry the person they don't love. I mean, parents should respect their children's decision :(

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2 years ago

Not all parents behave in this way,only few ones.

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2 years ago

Marriage is a serious matter that should be well-thought of. It is a decision. Happy for your nephew ❤

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2 years ago

Thank you dear...Yeh this decision should be taken wisely

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2 years ago

Whatever the gender is, we have the right to decide co'z we are talking about marriage, it's a lifetime commitment we just can't marry a person we don't love.

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2 years ago

Right dear, everyone have a right to choose their partner

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2 years ago

Often we don’t ask the girls about their opinions. We feel like we are the authority. But our religion strictly ask everyone's assurances first.

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2 years ago

Absolutely, girls also have a right to choose their partner

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2 years ago

Marriage requires parents consent. They still have responsibilities to take whatever happens to their son or daughter who gets into marriage. Congratulations to your nephew.

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2 years ago

Happy earth to your nephew. Wish a good luck to you nephew. And yeah marry is not a thing for a day. After marrying one have to live the rest of the life with the partner. So there should be a good understanding between parents and the th child about marrying someone. And sometime you know the boy or gurl chosed by themselves goes wrong so they should be more careful while making partner thereselves because they can not make someone guilt for their own choices.

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2 years ago

Thank you so much. Yeah they should first ask their children about their will.

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2 years ago

Yeah they should ask about the will and of course it is parents duty to ensuring childs brifht furture with the best partner.

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2 years ago