At some point in our lives, we have gone through difficult situations, which have made us rethink the situation and want to put everything aside. Give up our dreams, our desire to succeed. We have all experienced that feeling of defeat and no matter how hard you try, you don't see the result. I only have one detail: Never give up.
Having defeatist thoughts is not bad at all, it makes you human. No one is exempt from having them. You can't go through life being Superman-like anything affects you or always, no matter what you do, you are going to be successful. Success is something that is overrated today.
How do you measure success?
What for some is insignificant, for others is an ocean of joy. This is how I proved it in my early days here at read.cash, a few dollars earned for various items and I already felt like the luckiest man in the world. Others do 5 times more with a single article, which I had a hard time doing with 6 or 7. But for that, you cannot be discouraged at all. You have to be grateful for the opportunity and think that these people have worked for months to achieve their goals, and they never gave up. Just like you are doing. They were always looking for success wherever it was found. They knew that by working hard, that success they yearn for so much, every moment was greater, and it came with new standards, many higher. If you want to reach their level, you have to keep working and writing from the heart, as is well known to be done here on this wonderful platform. Always put others before you and you will have your dreams waiting for you around the corner.
Are you still working and you don't see your progress?
Are you going to quit for that? Of course not. You have to try harder. Make others appreciate your work. In your school, in your workplace, in your community, wherever you are, you can make a difference. Make yourself useful in something, study, the Internet is not just for watching videos of kittens on YouTube. When you learn to do something for yourself, to assert yourself, and give yourself the value you deserve, when you learn to love yourself, others will start to do it. They will notice you very quickly, and they will want to join you because you transmit love and security. An insecure person will hardly be an example to follow. When you transmit security, everyone will want a part of you and come together. Then always with sincerity and simplicity, you will be able to achieve your goals and you will feel loved and useful.
Do not despise others
If you look at someone who is about to give up, whatever their problem, don't drop them, help them. Remember that at some point in your life you were there in the same place. Teach him how to move forward, tell him about your experiences, your experiences, and your methods to succeed. Everything comes with time, as long as love is put into what you do. That person is a world apart, with problems, needs, and experiences that make him who he is. Just show him the way forward and the opportunities he misses from not following it. I'm sure he'll listen to you and always go forward. Over the weeks or months, he will look back and see all that he has accomplished, and he will thank you. At that moment, you will be the happiest man on the face of the earth.
Don't listen to defeatists
If someone speaks ill of a project to you, or that you are wasting your time, you are welcome to listen to it, but before taking their opinion into account, you must value many things. Will he tell you because he can't do it? Because you are too lazy to try? Why don't you have a winning mind? There may be many issues for which he tries to marginalize you. You have to be very attentive, and analyze everything from another point of view. If you believe and trust faithfully in what you are doing, then think no more. Listening to these people will only make you lose your enthusiasm, the desire to do it well, and you will end up like him, frustrated and bitter. Seeing how others succeed and you stay on the sidelines.
Never envy the success of others
This is without a doubt the worst. Envy leads to nothing, it corrupts the soul and consumes you inside. Remember that others reached that level, due to their constant hard work, just like you are doing now. If you get to be sending others you will not achieve anything. Take them as a reference, an example to follow, and you will do better in life. Remember that we all start from scratch. You entered the university in your first year, you graduated and you reached your first year as a professional in a workplace or company, you came to this platform or another place where many have already been for years. You came from scratch just like them. Don't you expect in a week or a month, even two or three months to achieve what they have created with years of sacrifice? Everything takes time, enjoy the process while you learn with them. Always remember, never give up, the best is yet to come.
Closing thoughts
Getting to have defeatist thoughts makes us human, but for that very reason, because we are human, we should put them aside and choose to continue the good work. When I start studying a new programming language, it is always difficult at first. But these languages, like everything in life, have a learning curve. This starts from zero and goes up, and at some point it becomes exponential, and you open triumphant, everything that you preferred to continue rather than give up. Keep moving on the right path. See you at the top.
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