Why we fall in love?

At first we should know what is love.love is complex. A mix of emotions,behaviours, and beliefs associated with strong feelings of affection,protectiveness, warmth and respect for another person.

For example: A person might say he or she loves his or her dog.loves freedom,or loves God.

There are many reasons why we fall in love. Some of them are :

1. Like Attracts Like

Although many people believe the old adage “opposites attract”, studies show this isn’t really true.Similarites attract because romantic love has a set of mutual identification mechanisms. For you to fall in love, you have to feel that the other person reaffirms you in some way or another.

What happens sometimes is that a person can have very defined traits that aren’t so obvious in the other person or are inhibited for some reason. Also, that two people are attracted to each other because the things that bind them are strong enough. Whatever the case, scientists say that you fall in love with people who are like you.

2. They Remind You of Your Mom or Dad

This popular explanation has actually been supported by scientific research. It’s very easy to fall in love with someone who seems similar to your parents. This might not be obvious to you at first, but if you think more about it you will realize it’s true.

The similarity to one of your parents could be physical, such as the way they smile. However, the similarity is most often personality-related. Protectiveness, being controlling or demanding, etc. It’s easy to link those traits with your love for your parents, which is why sparks fly.

3. Good Conversations

Communication is probably the most ultimate factor in love. Being with someone you can easily talk to will make you feel good. Everyone wants someone who’s capable of listening without being condescending and communicating what they think and feel.

Research shows that after you have a personal conversation with someone, you feel a certain affinity for that person. If the conversations you have with your partner flow naturally, you’re even more likely to stay with them.

4. Extroversion Makes You Fall in Love

Research also shows that extroverted people “inspire more love” than non-extroverts. This is related to the first point because it seems to be easier for extroverts to communicate and make people feel at ease. In that context, mutual attraction is much more likely.

When someone is open about what they think and feel, it inspires trust, warmth,affection, protectiveness,respect and closeness. Introverts, however, tend to have a harder time with this kind of communication. That certainly doesn’t mean that they don’t fall in love but it isn’t as easy for them to start a relationship

5.Because of our hormones:

you know how your hurt pounds and your mouth goes dry when your new lover rings the doorbell? It's basically a strong response. Romantic, eh?Adrenaline ;dopamine and serotonin all come into play in love's early stages.

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