29-03-2022

From past couple of days I was busy with multiple things and to be honest there was nothing special till now in this virtual world like not doing any trades or DeFi these days

Only have noise, read and memes or telegram to laugh or feel depressed and all that so I'm trying to be consistent with some other topics than most of BCH stuff so well what's more better than spitting some facts and things we all can relate together

And yea in this topic gonna spit some facts or things you'll relate with mostly so what are you waiting for

Let's jump in, we all know and heard from our elders life never remains same and it has ups and down which is never ending cycle like till you die it will continue paddling up or downs so this is the most important part of our life from which we learned lot's of lessons and find a better mature person in ourselves.

Life never remain same after being 18+

I bet every teenager wish to become 18 but they don't know they're living in the best of their age and it's true life after being 18+ never remains same

So those who are not 18 yet than you're living your life without any troubles without any stress or being depressed no pain of gf leaving you and you've friends to hangout

But only thing bother them are study but it's necessary at least you don't have any other responsibilities than focusing on your study

But once you're 18+ than you enter in a age where you'll have to be responsible for yourself and family as well

You'll have to become mature enough to make some hard decision you didn't expected

Sometimes it will like you're thinking now you're 18+ chilling and enjoying your life than with one bad news everything will be changed

So ups and down is permanent we don't know when we fall down from our peak but once we fell down than we have to go through alone and it teach us many lessons.

Ups and down in our life

This is always unexpected but when they came we should be prepared and capable to handle the situation and to be honest i remember each and every ups and down happened with my life

They're connected with our relations and everything it mostly happened to me when i didn't even dreamt about that

It's like you worked your whole life to make money and now when you've enough money to live your best life the very next day you'll no more exist and now your sons or daughters are thinking they've everything except there dad but later they go bankrupt and this is how ups and down change our life and teach us many lessons.

Let's have some of things we all can relate with happened to us after being 18+.

Life after 18 isn't easy anymore because of lot's of reasons.

Facing family problems

I said earlier that 18 is a age where we become responsible and family responsibilities becomes our so you're studying or doing a job

There will be time when you'll face family problems like you're studying and than your dad says now I don't have capability to do job or they're retired and it's your time to make decision where you want to do job and with study pressure well it's upto person.

Or any other problems ever happened in family of you're elder child of your family than it's upto you to take care which is good for us and make us more stronger person for the life.

Your friends will leave you

Nowadays i ask myself one question and it's actually if i ever had friends well it's because they've left me or I've left them whatever it is I'm now happy

Though believe me or not once you're 18+ you might lose your friends one by one

Lemme give my own example, a year or two back i had some online friends and after a one year friendship we became stranger because of one girl came into his life and till now we've never talked with each other we're not even friends online anymore and it hurts

But not more than in real life friend, well believe me or not I've never made friends in real life but have felt the pain of losing one.

Your girlfriend will leave you

First of all I'll suggest not to go behind girl when you're just 18 like brother go do some work or study fulfil your parents dream and than find any girlfriend

But eventually when you're 18+ and had a girlfriend sooner or later she will leave you

I can relate with it and i still remember her those were the unforgettable memories with her and still everything reminds me of her

Even i stand with her in the worst time but when I've go through that worst time she left me and i forced her to leave because of having no choice but didn't knew that she will don't even ask ever again

So it's better to not get into any relation or break your heart in early age just focus on grinding goals instead of holes.

There will be career tension all day

Taking tension all day about career will be normal that time and you'll get used to it with overthinking it will get even worst

Though without taking tension how can we build our career so i believe that's not worst than breaking up with girlfriend.

Well if you're an over-thinker like me than it will become worst and day by day you'll become ugly IRL so never over think

Some will be too confused while thinking about making career like they don't even know where should take a start and i believe doing part time job while studying in early age teach us alot making tough decisions easily.

Stay strong & remember; you've to face all these situation cause you're not a looser and when you feel it's your downfall than always sees the brighter side of your life (ups) so flip down to ups all the time

And trust me if you've this capability than you'll find the best version of yourself.