Other says, regret is the most painful thing we experience in life. But for me, pain is the most powerful tool to correct every mistakes and wrong choices we made. Without pain we can't find and valued happiness or joy. It is the present that replace after the hurtful past experiences. In which, every suffering has it's own joy that's undivided and incomparable to come.
We received pain, struggles and problems to deal with everyday. However, the worth better we can do is to fight for it and trust the process. Though we knew how long it takes, yet the right time is used to be done and to happen.
We can never appreciate what happiness is until we know the feeling of being in pain
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The most important lesson we learned from each pain is to realized how life is creative and colorful to live for. It's very meaningful and interesting to see how it goes through. By that feeling, we are able to reflect some instances we faced in life and be inspired with it. Then, from time to time, we can remember that scenario we encountered and overcome. I could be one of those who run off to avoid pain, still the same that happens until now. How I wish to be stronger and become a competent person I am. To be remain still even in the stormy seasons of life I've been through.
“Romans 8:18 all pain will be in vain one day and the joy that's going to come can't be describe”. That word of God help me to grab out the sting that aches in my heart. Understanding and patience is the best way to paint the Lord's plan in our lives. A plan that would vanish the hardships and burdens. And will setting all free from sadness nights we have. All of those plans will occupies the empty space and filling out with all gladness. Breakthroughs happen so that all sorrows surrounded by joyful mysteries and victorious episode of the new chapter of journey.
Chosing the road that fulls of distraction and judgement can lead us to negative conclusion. It maybe result of regrets and failures that could never be undo. Someone will made us cry and hurt. Others may disappoints us and just use our ablities for their own fame sake. Nonetheless, they will all be in punish after what incorrect things they have done. In other words, painfulness are happen for a reason, not to hurt someone else in purpose but just likely to be committed. Once it is done, the effects will be easy or hard to deal and not everyone can bear with it.
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Escaping from reality just to feel good and at ease is a big weakness that human can do. Others may succeed to overcome and conquer, but some must failed and still hidden their selves. For the meantime, difficult situations despise the truth to let us more down in grief. But stand because we are no longer slaves to fear in sorrows and pain around us. We are now triumphs that would never be defeat from darkness. By then, every circumstances shall be broken and has no confident to interfere within us. There is now a limitations from loneliness to which people shouldn't suffer from pain anymore.
It's a choice we must made and choose, so that pain can't get another chance to hurt and made us suffer again. What would you like to follow and consider, when time is about to come? What would be your first to do if you face life aches and peoblems? It is you who always to decide of how the best way to do in those kind of situations. Either you defend yourself and fight back or you run away and never go back. Do not hesitate to make what is good and better than anyone's resolution. Wether it perhaps hurt you but atleast other's are not completely affected to the consequences.
Endnotes:
May we feel with pain but at the end nothing else compares by the joy rejoices that awaits with wonderful days. Means that it matters more than what hardest pain you've been earned. It will just passes by, but can't be forgotten and must be remember during day and night.
Specifically, more or less of each struggles are being designed not to make life tougher but to make it prolific and challenging. As long as we live bravier in this world, no pain could destroy and let us down. What purpose most of our lives is to live happily ever after all trials and hardships meet.
Until next time.. thank you for reading.
I am happy that I did not hide from the pain and struggles I experienced. If it weren't because of it, I wouldn't have learned how to fight for my inner peace. I have realized that nothing's more important than keeping your peace of mind. And there I truly believe is where happiness lies.