While life may seem good in obvious areas for others, they likely are suffering in some less noticeable areas. For example: a person who is enjoying financial success may be experiencing family problems that are not known to others. Children may be disobedient or disrespectful and wayward, or husband and wife may not have s happy relationship. Television, movies, and novels have overdramatized the pleasure that unfaithful partners find in intimate relationship outside the home, but they fail to depict the guilt, shame, fear, and agony that is experience when a person attempts to live two lives.
A person must accept the fact that difficulties and undesirable experiences arise in the life of everyone. Success comes by facing the realities of life and making the most of one's situation. The person who complains about his situation or pines for the fortunes of others will waste his life and live in defeat.
If one does not learn to cope with the realities of life, he will be unable to master the unexpected which comes his way in marriage.
Life will never fall into place at every step. Personal preparation for marriage requires that a person be able to see and deal with the difficult experiences in life without blaming his partner.
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Hari
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Great article sir 💖