Hello, Matters Of The Heart ❤️, please keep me anonymous, but share my story with the community.

I've been married for the past fifteen years; my youngest child is eight and first is thirteen. My husband was nice to me because we dated two years before marriage but he changed after our first child.

As at then he didn't hit me, he was only a nagging husband. I didn't bother much because I felt it's a normal thing in men to nag.

Immediately after my last child, the marriage became hell, he became abusive; hitting and calling me names all the time especially before the kids. I don't bother about his cheating life because I still love him. I know it's crazy but for the kids I do.

He has been out of work for almost five years but I don't care too because of love. I'm deeply in pains as tears keep rolling down my eyes while telling this story. My kids don't want us divorced. He thinks I'm divorcing him because he is not paying the bills. My parents want me out of the marriage. Please I need your advice. What should I do?

Hmmmm... That's a sad one. I actually feel her pain. But we must not be bias in our judgement. Yes, he is wrong but it could be psychological and it has therapy.