Be Creative
You can't use up creativity, the more you use the more you have.
In relation to the above, my question is how creative have you been and or how creative are you? We humans are products of creativity, wether you believe in God or science.
Did you ever heard of "nature and nurture"? Maybe you should conduct a little research it might help you a lot.
The world is not yet at it's peak ask me why. This is because you can't use up creativity. We have upgraded somuch in technology yet we will upgrade more and more because you can't use up creativity.
Hey beautiful reader, please don't be a deadpan. Affect your world, mutate in every sphere and your name will be inscribed on the "stone board of history".
What new spark have you created in your relationship? Do you tell thesame old stories,same kiss,and hug? Introduce something new make it lively and lovely. Teach the other person how to do it right, be ready to take blames and finally love without reservations.
Have you ever wondered why you are where you are in your relationship? Think about, if it's not working make it work, if it can never work decide what you want.
Define Love
How do you view this subject matter called "love"? Different folks and religions bodies have defined it based on their belief systems.
During my third year in the university, my creative writing lecturer came into the lecture hall one good afternoon and asked this question, what is love? Huh... Was the first thing that hit my head. Actually, the question tickled the class. Everyone defined from their own perspectives.
He smiled and paused a while with both hands resting on his potbelly and said " true love is that affection that grows without a reason. You just find yourself loving the person when asked your answer will always be, I don't know why".
I thought about that after somuch argument in class and came to a conclusion that if we love for a particular reason, when that is no more the love will definitely die. This means we as a people have not loved much or in other words what we call love is not actually it.
Now let me ask you dear reader, do you subscribe to my lecturer's definition or not? Please comment below.
Who was the last person you spoke to before going to bed?
Whose voice was the last you heard before closing those eyes?
Tell me the truth who did you kiss today? 🤗 Don't lie to me...
You Must Obey
Hey, before closing those beautiful eyes in bed, do the following:
😘 Kiss your partner.
Tell him/ her how much they mean to you.
Say I love you with a beautiful smile.
Get closer, squeeze her shoulder softly and make her feel your heart beat.
Kiss her 💋 neck .
Finally, say goodnight.
That's how to build a happy home.
True Love Never Dies
True happiness can only be achieved, when you value your relationship. Only then can your life become meaningful and living worthwhile.
Hey, make somebody happy. Those around you should feel your impact. If your partner don't see you as a Messiah, then you two are not in a relationship.
You don't force love, you can't buy it. It comes on its own. Sometimes, it grows gradually at other times it outgrows you and can even make you stupid (to people) but you are not.
Dear reader, are you among those having doubts about true love? You don't have to because true love exists, it has been and it's still existing as a matter of fact, it is very close to you. Look around and you'll find it.
My Confession Broke Her Home
" five years ago I was involved in a relationship. The affair was with a married woman though, three years older than me. I got involved in it because I was broke and that was the only available means close to me for survival.
It lasted for about two years and three months. He is a traveler, so he spends little time with his family due to his job. She gave me everything I wanted, latest phones, good apartment, and a good ride. I was living large at her expense but something within kept telling me that I was doing the wrong thing.
So, gradually I withdrew myself from the relationship due to guilt and how nice her husband was to me. The more he became kind, the more guilty I was.
One day, I decided to spill the beans. That day he came back from UK, after a few days I pleaded with him that I will like to have a meeting with him, that his wife should be present he agreed. At the meeting I confessed everything. I was in tears and pleaded for forgiveness. He asked me to leave.
Two months later, she flew to Paris after leaving her marrital home as I heard and that was the end of the marriage. At a time she started threatening me. I have not forgiven myself as I live with this guilt.
Now, I'm about to get married but I'm scared. Please I need help, how can I live without this guilt?"
**Note: matters discussed here are true life stories of real people. Therefore, it should not be mocked nor those concerned be insulted. Your duty as a reader is comment,upvote or tip as the case may be. Your comments should be helpful to us and those involved, thanks.**
My Confession Broke Her Home
" five years ago I was involved in a relationship. The affair was with a married woman though, three years older than me. I got involved in it because I was broke and that was the only available means close to me for survival.
It lasted for about two years and three months. He is a traveler, so he spends little time with his family due to his job. She gave me everything I wanted, latest phones, good apartment, and a good ride. I was living large at her expense but something within kept telling me that I was doing the wrong thing.
So, gradually I withdrew myself from the relationship due to guilt and how nice her husband was to me. The more he became kind, the more guilty I was.
One day, I decided to spill the beans. That day he came back from UK, after a few days I pleaded with him that I will like to have a meeting with him, that his wife should be present he agreed. At the meeting I confessed everything. I was in tears and pleaded for forgiveness. He asked me to leave.
Two months later, she flew to Paris after leaving her marrital home as I heard and that was the end of the marriage. At a time she started threatening me. I have not forgiven myself as I live with this guilt.
Now, I'm about to get married but I'm scared. Please I need help, how can I live without this guilt?"
**Note: matters discussed here are true life stories of real people. Therefore, it should not be mocked nor those concerned be insulted. Your duty as a reader is comment,upvote or tip as the case may be. Your comments should be helpful to us and those involved, thanks.**
Is She Tired Of The Relationship?
This one, I will quote directly. " Hello admin @mattersoftheHeart❤️#. Please don't reveal my identity. I have been worried about my girlfriend. Her attitude towards me suddenly became pale of recent, there is nothing about me that interests her. A little prank irritates her and she flares up each time I make efforts to know what the matter could be. She doesn't give me time anymore,her phone is now her greatest companion. Sometimes, I feel is because we ain't married yet, we've dated for about 10years. Last week, I bought an engagement ring, waiting for the right time to engage her but her mood has not changed. Please I need advice, what will I do because I love her and I'm not ready to build another relationship."
My good friends I'm sure you will read this. Comment below and advise him on what to do. Your comments/advice would be added to our reply. Please no hate speech is permitted.
Mind What You Do Before Them
What you do and say before your kids matters alot. This is because it builds their worldview which can either help or destroy them. For instance, insulting your spouse, fighting etc.
If you are a smoker, I don't condemn you but for goodness sake don't do it before your kids. They will think, doing that is a good lifestyle meanwhile you are suffering from addition because I'm pretty sure that you know the aftermath of what you are doing.
I don't know what you do or how you live your life but please safe 🙏 the next generation because it has started already 😒. The question you should ask yourself is the impact you have made in the lives of your children and other kids around you. To avoid regrets please **mind what you do before them.**
Assumption Can Wreck Your Relationship
" she knows I love her", " c'mon I must not tell him that, because he knows I love him". When you are used to that, gradually you are destroying your relationship unless you are done with it. Then that can be your break up strategy.
Rejecting your partner's calls without explanations just because you are busy might start building up the wrong thoughts in the person's mind. Instead of rejecting the call, allow it to ring. Afterwards, send a message but if you are not opportuned to type, maybe you are in a meeting after that please call immediately. That's the more reason why you should always carry your partner along it will help them know how important they are to you.
Please value your relationship. Remember how you started with the person instead of allowing that to die rather, strive to do better.
Actually, it hurts when someone loves and is faithful yet they are not reciprocated for their affection.
**ADVICE**
You just read this or maybe you had to scan because of time constraint or whatever the reason may be. Please call that person you love now if he or she is far from you, if the person is close please tell him/her how much you love them and how meaningful they are to your existence. Please do it now!!
BTC 1D Update
Quote from the initial analysis..." If we break the resistence at ~7.9k,we can expect a continuation to the upside to fill the CME Gap"
Now you see that the CME Gap is filled. We reached as high as the top of this upward channel. Impossible is nothing!🤗😉😘
Crypto Update
ATH in trading volume on Binance, $11 billion in 24 hours. Its very possible all weak hands are completely out of the bitcoin market...
Although, it is possible to revisit the low again, it is not probable...In the mist of BTC pump... But XLM has done 21% today..🔥🔥
Bitcoin Cash, Investment For The Wise
When crypto currency was first created, a lot of people thought it was going to be a failure. But gradually it began to grow and today Bitcoin is a household name. Now, in this business, Bitcoin Cash has emerged and is growing up so fast hence consistent progress.
If you have kid(s) that are below 18 years Please kindly convert some of your asset bag to BTCH, store them in hardware wallet and come back when they are 30yrs old. They will love you even till death.
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Pedophilia As A Case Study
The term as a noun, has been referred to "a child molester". However, the subject matter has a different meaning to various individuals. Especially, scholars who are concerned with the topic. Webster's New World Dictionary defines molest as " annoy, interfere with or meddle with,so as to trouble or harm". When combined with the word child, it has generally come to mean sexual abuse of some type.
This is an issue, that has been somewhat neglected in our society especially in some parts of Africa. The question is, what system should be put in place to monitor this regularly as regards to streetism. Although, not only street kids but about eighty percent of such cases points at the poor homeless girl on the street.
According to Dr. Groth's categorization, defines a child molester as having a sexual attraction towards prepubertal children (pedophilia) or sexual attraction towards pubertal children (hebephilia).
To be continued...
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I Hated Him For Being A Pedophile.
My growing up as a child, was not in a particular environment. My parents moved us around for some reasons especially crisis. At a time we left up North for East. The movements gave me a unique kind of exposure and experience. This made me so fast in adapting to any environment because I had to socialize with the kids in my neighborhood.
There lived a man named Sylvester. Pa Sylvester as he is called,an ex-convict of about fifty years plus, grey headed and strong, he did most of the hard jobs for people in the neighborhood for a penny or lunch. Pa Sylvester lost everything including his family after his penal servitude.
I never saw this man with any woman. He loved kids and bought us gifts. He gave more to girls especially the beautiful ones we little boys admired and wished to date when we grow up.
Usually, every month once or twice parents especially mothers will always fight him for abusing their daughters sexually. There were usually no evidence except for the fact that the little girl cried home and ofcourse he will deny it. Some of the girls liked what he did with them while some never did and regretted ever going into his house.
Everyone believed he was a pedophile but as for me, I had to be sure so I can either spread the good news or the bad one. So, I had to go close and pretended to be his friend. Somany times my Mom had to beat me severely with a whip because of him. I started sneaking out to his house.
Finally, I succeeded. I became his most trusted friend. He gave me access to his rooms excluding the bedroom. Whenever he is expecting someone he will do his best to keep me busy somewhere so I don't find out.
One day I decided to either fall in with him or fall out. That day I saw Natasha heading to his place. I knew she was coming to see him but I didn't know if it was for a fight because she was among his haters. Immediately, he hurried me out. He was too excited that he couldn't notice my presence around. Natasha went straight to his bedroom. I took my time to wait to be very sure of what my mind was telling me. About thirty to forty minutes later, she went to the bathroom for a shower.
The fact was that I saw nothing. But from my analysis I think they did it and it has been happening. From that day I ended my friendship with him.
My next article should be on the problematics of pedophilia and how it should be handled in the Society. Actually pedophilia was my first project topic in the university and my second topic was on polygamy.
Tell me friends if you were to be me, haven seen that, what would you have done? Comment below.
Oh My God! Are My In Hell?
How do you manage a good friend who has a terrible table manners? Would you rather, prefer dinner at home or lunch in an eatery together.
Well, few years ago, I went for a community development service somewhere, the enthusiasm of the work I did which I love doing made me forget some of my important documents I went there with. Lucky me my contact and other personal details were on it. I got home fatigued, after a worm bath I threw myself on the bed.
About an hour later, I received a call from a lady who mentioned my full name and said " hey I've got some of your documents with me. I picked them up in the hall. Call me tomorrow to get them." Immediately I searched through and realized I actually forgot them. At midday, my documents got to me.
Two days later, I called and asked if we could have lunch together as an appreciation, she accepted. So, I was prepared to have a good day.
We made our orders and she preferred noodles. Oh my gosh, when she started eating I had to look around to know who was watching. The way she rolled the food, the chewing, and the way she belch. Honestly, I was disgusted. But since it was not a date,well I'm fine.
I actually pretended to be fine. Days later I had to tell her in the most humble way you can imagine. But it's so sad that she hated me for that and the cool friendship ended.
The question is, do you think it's bad to correct a bad habit especially in a relationship or is it better do live with it. Comment below.
What Will Be Your Reaction?
Hey, I pray it doesn't happen to you. Think about it, how will you feel if your ever loving spouse wakes you at midnight and says " honey, please let's discuss this. I can't hide it anymore but I know I still love you. The truth is I feel disgusted each time you make love to me. Please don't misunderstand me I still love you."
Oh my gosh!!! Please how will you react to that and what advise will you give?
That message got to my mail about an hour ago. Honestly, I have not replied because I can imagine what is going through the mind of that individual.
Please comment and give advice hopefully it might work.
Has This Ever Happened To You?
This is pretty funny. Have you ever pestered someone and chased the person like a bee and she kept saying no but you persisted for months or possibly a year. After so much pain, she decided to say yes to you, imagine the excitement.
You got home from college, after shower a thought comes, hey, what do I need this girl for? You didn't call,she calls and you are casual on the phone.
The next day you saw her, looked away and snubbed. Maybe you just gave her a wave. Can you imagine how she will feel. I didn't believe such could happen when one of my lecturers told us his own story.
However, it happened to me. I felt sorry for the girl. I pleaded somany times but I'm glad she just got married because she has been on my neck since we graduated.
At a time she called me " a bad councelor" I almost took it personal and battled with that for about two weeks. I read and researched then it became clear to me that, a councelor needs a councelor. Actually, her words made me better.
Here is my advice to you, whatever you do always consider the feelings of other people.
🤗🤗😉🤣So... Comment below did it happen to you or someone did it to you.
Don't End It!
Hey, have you ever loved someone so deeply that you can't imagine loving the person less. The only thing on your mind is to spend your entire life with the person.
Finally you two are married. Five years later, the sweet banana and has turned sour looking terrible. She is now too fat, he snores a lot, her boobs looks too flat and crunchy, he's too slow and lazy, " honestly I'm feed up with this marriage thing, he is always yelling at me", "she is disrespectful". I can go on and on.
Oh common, cut the crap let it out. The truth is that you are now regretting. Maybe someone stepped in or possibly not that. You just suddenly remembered that this person doesn't worth it, you deserve someone better. Now, you are looking for an excuse to get a divorce. You are lying, you must remain there. Settle that problem.
Oh my, how come you didn't see all that and more before moving in. I said remain there. You must remain there because if you run out because of just that, you will never stay happy elsewhere. Thesame thing that chased you out now will happen again.
Tell me the truth are you nursing such thoughts right now? Or you have moved out already, please go back before things get too bad.
I Don't Care What You Are Going Through
Maybe you just saw this, thrilled by the caption and you are like what is this all about? I took my time to draft this because of you. I don't care what you are going through but know this you will definitely make it.
Are you going through hell right now and the thoughts of suicide is all over you. Hey, do you think that's the best? The answer is no,no! no!! no!!! The truth is when you die, you've ended everything. You can't be remembered for anything good because you made no impact in your world. You'll only remembered as the biggest looser of all time. I'm pretty sure you don't want that. Life gives you hope if you continue chasing your dreams and happiness.
The story of my life is that, I have cried out my eyes too many times and now there are no more tears to wet my dry eyes. Felt so much pain that I can't feel anymore even when it's needed. I have been bruised, wounded and broken,wished for death yet it is far and it rejected me. I have been disappointed, failed too many times, my hopes shattered. I even lost my place in my family as the first son, yet I'm hopeful. Gave love to many and was comforted by non even when I needed love so much. But I still love, and love even more.
So, what is your pain, disappointments, failure, heartbreak or what? Whatever you want, can never come too easy, if it does believe me it won't last because it has no foundation. The result you get depends on your kind of dream. If you want to shake the world then expect a bigger challenge but if you want to impress your community alone hence that is the size of your dream then don't expect much.
In conclusion, I will advise you to stay alive, enjoy its fullness and you will thank me later.
I Caught Him Twice With My Wife
Hello Matters of The Heart ❤️ MTH. I need advice to know if I'm over reacting or being protective.
My wife and I have been happily married over two years, though no child yet. She has given me the happiness I never expected this few years. She works with an insurance company and usually come home before me.
But for the past three months she started acting weird and comes home three hours past the normal work time. Sometimes she comes back late. When I ask she will blame her new boss for it. My worry is that she had told me on several occasions that the man is a womanizer, usually we laugh over it.
Last week,my wife came home and I looked through the window and saw her standing with thesame man. I almost flared up but decided not to be rash. "Sweetheart I'm sorry I came late but my boss brought me home". Those were her words. She dropped her bag and entered the bathroom. Immediately she passed I perceived alcohol. Yesterday, similar thing happened after a little fight she pleaded and repeated thesame Words" I'm not having an affair with him".
The above can happen to anyone,I shouldn't be the judge I'm only a councelor. What do you think, is she cheating, or is he being rash and or protective? Drop your comments below.
How To Revive A Dying Relationship
Death is the absence of life or state of being dead. In other words, death is the permanent end of all life functions in a relationship. You need to know this fact, death don't just occur it comes gradually and most times with signs that are visible.
Trying to fix an almost broken relationship can be emotionally taxing and sometimes it can even affect you physically so take it easy. You deserve to breathe. There will always be a way out unless you are done with the relationship.
Sometimes,intimate partners in the midst of despair come into therapy emotionally disheveled, but still searching for a way back to the love they once knew.
No one likes to admit it but the truth is that many relationships starts to die after a few years. Whenever you enter into a serious relationship with someone, you want the relationship to be just as strong after five years as it was when you first started dating but the reality is that as time goes on, many couples will find that the spark that brought them together starts to die out. Some couples will learn to overcome this and get the spark back in their relationship. Others will just break up entirely.
Learn not to be rash when taking decisions in your relationship, especially when it comes to parting ways.
Take this from me today and write it down, the only thing that can sustain a relationship is when the duo have similar vision and are after one goal, not just love. The vision will keep the two when challenges arises because none will want to trade that purpose for anything careless just to get at the other person.
So, I'll advice you not to get into a relationship because you want to but know why you need to because it is your "will" in that relationship that will keep you.
Infatuation is a problem
According to Oxford dictionary 'infatuation is the temporary love of an adolescent". Unfortunately, adults of today exhibit that and find it difficult to distinguish between real love and the short-lived feeling.
However, infatuation can be regarded as a stage of romantic love which usually occurs in the early months in a healthy love relationship. It can involve persistent thoughts of the love object and wanting to spend every moment with that person. While a healthy love relationship usually evolves over time such that it no longer involves the near desperate intensity and fervor of infatuation.
Moreso,a healthy love tends to mature over the years to include commitment, friendship, and a solid respect for the other person as an individual and of their needs. Healthy relationship allow both people to feel loved, cared for, and respected and allow for each person's individuality and pursuit of their own professional lives, recreational activities, and friendships outside of the love relationship.
In conclusion, a healthy love is built around a beautiful future emanating from great dreams hopefully to be achieved by both. The hopes and dreams of a better you in a relationship makes it stronger and more reasonable. In that regards, nobody will want to quit when challenges arises in the relationship.
Is It Wrong For A Married Man To Always Ask For Sex From His Wife?
**This just came to my mail not too long. According to this lady I quote, "Please I need help. Is it bad for husbands to be the ones asking for sex? My husband said am making him feel less important due to his frequent demands for sex. The truth is that I love him so much, he is a blessing to me and I have not cheated on him for once. It is just my nature but he doesn't want to understand. Although,most times I don't deny him sex but I feel me making the first move is wrong. What do I do to change because I'm trying to but he's not giving me time. Please I don't want my husband going out, help me out.**
Well, I didn't have the privilege to interview her to know if he noticed that while they were dating. So what is your take on this?
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Why Men Cheat
There is a popular saying that men are naturally cheats and can't be faithful to one partner. This has however, made a lot of women resort to the notion as a fact which they have no choice but to live with.
Well, men are not cheats by birth. Some factors will be considered and the chieftain is the "society"which will be subdivided. You and everyone around you are social beings and we all are affected by our society either positively or negatively. Some people constitute vices thereby making others victims of same society. For instance, people who were bred in a family where promises are not fulfilled will likely end up finding it difficult to trust. A lady who has been heartbroken takes time to love.
Cheating as a topic in regards to relationship is a deep one and requires frequent research using the psychoanalytical methodology. The fact is that men are usually proud and wants to be in charge.
The " Society" as a determining factor: https://read.cash/@HapyUserOfBargerWallet/why-men-cheat-eddf7f3f#the-quot-societyquot-as-a-determining-factor
Worldview: when a man sees women as pets that must be played with in regards to sexual satisfaction, he is bound to cheat.
Dissatisfaction: when his partner is no longer sexually appealing to him, looking outside his home becomes his next line of action.
Friends: be mindful of the kind of friends you keep because if you don't beat them they'll surely lure you. So I'll advise you better walk away if you still want your wife.
Distance: that too can be a reason to cheat especially for sexually active men. These and more are some of the factors. So if you are a cheating husband or boyfriend I'm sure you know where you belong.
The Story Of A Pastor
This one is really pathetic. Please it's not funny and can happen to anyone. A childhood family friend, though older than me, became a pastor eight years ago but struggled to have a child. According to medics both couple are sound.
According to him this became a trial of faith as family members curse the wife daily for being barren. He is a preacher of faith and can't believe anything less according to God's words.
Soon, the happy marriage turns sour as his wife gives him less attention; "no more love making. I will get to the bottom of this."She said. Months later she filed for a divorce. He pleaded that it will affect his congregation and confessed his profound love for her.
It became obvious that her love for him,God and the congregation is dead as she soon begins to flirt secretly with her ex- boyfriend.
Breaking news, she is pregnant. Now the question is, who is the father of the unborn child? The lady in question moved out of her husband's house quietly one Sunday morning.
My question is, if she claimed that the pastor is responsible then why did she move out? If you were to be this good man what will you do and how will you bear the shame before your congregation.
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