Discover yourself

The cornerstone of starting any kind of development is self-knowledge. We cannot be in a development process without being aware of our shortcomings and discovering what our talents are. We must begin by analyzing ourselves. We should ask ourselves questions such as what are my strengths and weaknesses, what do I want to do. And we should give honest answers to these questions and compare ourselves to others when appropriate. Because human being is a social creature by nature, he can affect or be affected by his environment. At this point, what I mean by comparison is a positive situation in the form of taking an example, envy and being inspired by these people. People always want to be the best, but they miss a point. Today, people who have proven their existence in a certain area and whose name is identified with their work did not come to their position with the touch of a magic wand by a fairy. Recognizing their personalities, they climbed over the obstacles and difficulties that stood in their way on the path they believed in.

 You cannot change your feeling without changing your mind. Since I am aware of my shortcomings, "What can I do?" We have to make certain changes by questioning. Then there is the stage of acceptance, in this stage we know our weaknesses and are ready to accept them. This is the most important stage because at this point the person can give up, constantly criticize himself and adopt this dissatisfaction as a lifestyle. Right here, it is important to remember that “Nobody is perfect”.

 Once we start accepting where we want to start and accepting ourselves, we have to move on to the planning phase. Whatever our goal, our plan, the point we want to reach, we should focus on it as much as possible. We should not be afraid of failure, we should know that we cannot discover ourselves without trying. Personal development is a lifelong process. Patience is the biggest weapon in this process. There is no end to development, strive for the better whatever you are, and as time goes by, you will realize that you are more than you want to be. You don't have much time to be yourself.

Write down your goals and dreams and attach these objects where you can see them in your home or workplace. In this way, it will motivate you by constantly communicating. Dream big, let the sky be your limit. Spend time with people in the same lane who aim for similar things as you. Look for ways to communicate with people you take as an example, ask what you are curious about. Don't be afraid to learn from your past mistakes and make new ones. I am one of those who believe that one misfortune is better than a thousand advices. Read books that you think will be effective in getting you to your goals. Education is the best way to improve ourselves.

 Take up certain hobbies and rest your mind from time to time. Reward yourself first for your achievements. Keep your network wide, every person you know will add something to you. You can't please everyone, remember that the work you do must first get you through. Our desire to achieve something consists of 3 steps. To wish, to ask, to devote. Ask a lot.

 Personal development allows us to look at things positively, losing is not the end of the world, if necessary, we can get up and try again and lose again, but we must never give up. Being friends with people you walk on the same path ensures that you don't get lost. It enables us to be self-confident individuals. Self-confident individuals are highly motivated and attract attention in their environment. They do great things because they have big goals and there is no end to the struggle to be the best.

But without knowing who you are, you cannot love yourself without being aware of who you are. Never stop trying to get to know yourself. Only by knowing yourself can you realize your full potential. Never lose your self-respect, remember you are the only one. And you only have one life to live. Finally, don't tell him according to your head, not to try to win, but to walk, to be happy before making you happy, not because of what anyone says, but because you chose, just be you with your mistakes, truths and contradictions, reject everything and follow your dreams.

 Personal development allows us to look at things positively, losing is not the end of the world, if necessary, we can get up and try again and lose again, but we must never give up. Being friends with people you walk on the same path ensures that you don't get lost.Personal development is a lifelong process. Patience is the biggest weapon in this process. There is no end to development, strive for the better whatever you are, and as time goes by, you will realize that you are more than you want to be.