October 10, 2021
What is Self Love?
You sleep 8 hours a day
You allow yourself to rest
You drink water, take vitamins, exercise and eat healthy foods
You make time for yourself
You find time to be happy and enjoy
You allow yourself to grow
You learn from your mistake from the past, you remember the lesson
You choose the people you go out with, you avoid toxic people
You avoid toxic environment
You choose what you want to do and make sure it is valuable to your existence
You don't take problems seriously, but the solution
You have good stress
You have clear plans
You have goals
You have savings
You allow your money to grow
You find time with your family, friends and pets
Everyday, you do your passion even for little time of the day
You learn new things
And many more...
If you want to survive in this world, it is not selfish to put yourself as a priority. I am guilty with this due to lack of rest, but I make sure I do the rest on the list. I only have one life, and one chance, if I will not make the best out of it, my life is senseless.
Kindly read everything on the list above. I made that on my own. It is a product of experience, self therapy, life's realization and learning from self help books and podcast. I do that list for you to realize what you are making out of your life. A life that is only temporary and God given.
In our present life, today, there are lots of people that train themselves to hurt you. They are the people who do not believe in faith in humanity, that has been hurt lot of times, that has been judged, rejected, and had been to depression, that are still having periods of depression. We all have our own story. We have our own hurt and worst past, but it doesn't mean we need to live with that. An ounce of care and understanding, a leap of faith, a pinch of accepting the differences, that is what we need to live everyday.
However, if you don't fix yourself, you have nothing to give....
If you do not forgive yourself, you cannot give forgiveness
If you cannot accept your flaws, you will always judge others
If you will not know the differences, you will always compare
If you do not, believe in yourself, you never will never have faith
If you always put yourself at the least, you will never be someone's priority
If you will not take care of yourself, no one will take care of your sincerely
If you do not help yourself, you cannot accept help and will cannot identify help from anyone
If you do not know your worth, you always jump from one decision to another
Self Love is...
Accepting you made a mistake in the past, and you will still make mistake in the future, because that is what human beings is all about. We commit mistakes once in a while. What matters is the lesson you gain from it.
I am Worthy!!
I am not here in this world to just be a Person. I am a daughter, a sister, a friend, a hooman of my cats and dogs, an officemate, a citizen of the country, a prayer warrior, a selfless individual with sympathy, empathy and compassion. If I didn't love myself, I can't be all that. And I want to stay that way. I want to be a Person that creates another person to love themselves, as it is the way I live and breathe. I am worthy of this life as a children of God, with love for humanity.
Start loving yourself, be sincere, be serious, so that it will start in you and the rest will follow.
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Sorry that I have to post this late guys. I was busy starts Saturday since I started to renovate our house, and we bought the cement. Little by little I will able to see my dream house!! I will work hard and smart!! I will not give up!! This is my form of Self Love!!
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Lets exercise self love indeed . Because You cannot give what you don't have , so better nourish yourself first , pamper yourself , love yourself first and everything will follow.