Life will never be fair. During the time that you are motivated to change it, your plans will fail. When you start to get back on your feet, you get rejected. Universe seems balancing everything by making you feel uneasy when you are ready to fight for something.
We can get good results, but that will never be consistent. You can do the happy dance all the time. You need to feel bad, after you feel good.
Just recently, I experience something awful. It made me feel demotivated. I do not absorb the bitterness though, because I learned, in my entire life, that being bitter about an awful event of yours, only lead you to believing, you fail and your plans are all wrong.
Plans might not work, but it doesn't mean we should not plan. Plans are trials to experience or execute because we have the idea that something might work that leads to meeting our goal. Plans could work as well, only if we try to execute every plans we have. Again, it is a trial and error execution.
This gives me the idea that if we do not win the battle, we learn from it. Once we learn from it, we have more options and plans to take to still make it through our goal. We do not Lose. We should make losing a different definition. You only lose if you didn't try. You only lose if you didn't plan to take actions.
I suggest everyone to set their mind that if we didn't get what we want in the process, we learn from it. We learn to move on and change the plans. We try again and we will make it happen. Losing should never be an option. We make things possible by the things we learn. We could win everything.
Exactly! This is true. Having bad experiences is how we learn to be better people.