Looking critically at the present relationship trends, it is no longer a news that some relationship experience tremendous successfulness while some meet their Waterloos (failures) vastly. If you are experiencing a nice, amusing and pleasurable relationship, i greet you congratulations! Please keep it up and never let it fall. It really saddens the heart, and brings water from the eyes, when relationship get tiring, frustrating, and ended crashing.  No one ever loved an unsuccessful relationship. There are some things that militates against relationship and detriments it! Also there are things that can help you build strong relationship. I will like to share with you. They're the followings:

THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO IN A RELATIONSHIP

•Never compare your partner to your Ex. 

Nobody likes to be compared with another! Spouse aren't even left out! As humans, some situations come in life  that could be similar to the past, we easily tend to draw conclusions  from the past based on what we had experienced. We do this almost all times, and this is how we live and learn. But in the matter of relationships, this could be highly harmful, hurtful, inimical. Let us take a look at this, for example, your ex took a long time to reply your chats when he/she was showing disinterest in the relationship both of you were. And now you present partner has not  replied your chats on time, then you concluded, and began to say "My present partner is no longer interested in me oh" "not different from my ex"! Ahhh! Did you know what you just said? It was a very wrong conclusion, because you never knew the reason he/she hasn't replied! Always know that every individual is different, and the present person shouldn't be coiled to the unpleasant situation caused the person you had in the past, that is, your Ex. I'm not saying that you shouldn't learn from your past. Rather, always have an open mind. Do not say this statement to your present partner “see, nothing special in what you just did, even my ex did that all the time.” Never compare you partner with your Ex. 

•Don't have unnecessary Jealousy. 

Jealousy is bad. There is an adage in my language that says "a jealous person will either his/herself kill or the partner". When a person is so jealous, there is problem. Just know that! In any relationship where jealousy appears, trust disappears!  And such tends to crash soon! Imagine a partner that don't trust his/her better half, thinking the partner could catch up with another person outside, thereby monitoring up and down like a monitoring spirit.  Trust is a key factor in any relationship, we need to trust and believe our partner. 

THINGS YOU SHOULD DO IN A RELATIONSHIP.

•Appreciate your partner.

A single statement of “thank you darling” or “I love you sweetheart, i appreciate your efforts” is always sweet, pleasing and lustrous. In fact, every partner wants to hear this possibly 22/7.  When a relationship starts the tendency of hearing such statement is very high, but as the relationship continues, many partners tend to forget appreciating their him/her.  If you had claimed to love each other at the start of the relationship, then appreciate that your partner that is doing all things to satisfy you. A thank you sweetheart is not bad, he/she will like it and do more.

•Love your partner genuinely.

Genuine love is the heartbeat of the whole thing called relationship! Please, love your partner genuinely! It pays! Let love lead in your relationship.

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