Teenage Pregnancy

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How do you normally deal with the so-called LUST?

Are you okay with premarital sex?

Do you know anyone who got pregnant at an early age?

Were they able to cope?

Are you someone who got pregnant at an early age?

How were you able to cope?

TEENAGE RELATIONSHIP

I wouldn't need to discuss how to get pregnant here because I know you are aware with that. (LOL!)

Let us talk about the reasons why your parents wouldn't want you to enagage in a relationship with opposite sex.

Now a days, teenagers at the age of 13-18 may get pregnant. They enter into relationship and get engaged into premarital sex then when they break up pretend as if it is nothing, while others might also become depress as they gave their all to someone they aren't meant to be. (Pinaglandi pero di tinadhana!)

Good thing I am not into guys so I did not get to experience this and I have this feeling of being afraid of getting pregnant since we are poor and I don't wanna add burden to my parents so I am fine, if a guy would leave me just because I don't want to have sex with him because I value more my future than lust. (Which actually happens to me in real life, may his soul rest in peace haha!)

But if you are a teenager reading this lemme cite some reasons as to why your parents wouldn't allow you to get into a relationshit, opps I mean relationship:

  • Control over your Emotion

    Parents have already gone through a lot of challenges and known various of people throughout their lives, as a Teenager, you wouldn't know how to control your emotion and distinguish love vs. infatuation. So don't be too shock when they freak out when you started to have bf/gf. Some teenagers would even commit suicide when being cheated. You don't have control over your own emotion and tend to decide while at the peak which may bring you trouble.

  • LUST

    Teenagers are much naive. Compared to adult who can take responsibility, teeangers are often controlled by their own emotion and can easily be manipulated with things they knew from peers or from the internet. Some teenagers were already aware of porn sites while they shouldn't be browsing it but they have this curiosity that they can never control.

  • Lack of Experience

    It takes a lot of time in order for you to learn things about life and struggles to make you grow. Since you are a teenager there would be a lot of things to improve and learn so you have to give yourself sometime to explore the wonders of life and nature instead of getting too much insterested over someone who is not even 100% sure if they are really meant for you.

    Relationship can wait, if a love is true it should be able to wait.

As much as possible, especially girls value your self and know your worth. A guy who loves you should remain in love without giving your ALL and that should WAIT til the right time comes if not til your wedding at least to the time that you both are responsible enough not just to take care a CHILD but also to support ONE.

TEENAGE PREGNANCY

Those that I have mentioned above may lead you to getting preggy at an early age. How can you manage to take care of a child when you are still a child for that matter?!

I have seen a lot of teenage moms in FACEBOOK who are way too proud of getting pregnant at an early age. Stating that," It is better to be pregnant than to have an abortion". Would you agree? Well, at some point yes but in the first place you won't get pregnant at an early age if you don't get into PREMARITAL SEX. Yeah?

To this generation, virginity isn't a big thing. For some it is just a hymen that is not been stretched while others believed it symbolizes purity and self-respect.

But may I remind you that when you get pregnant or when you get someone pregnant your responsibility does not end just by making sure the baby will be born or by acknowledging the child. You will be raising your LEGACY.

That LEGACY will someday become someone's girlfriend or boyfriend then eventually will become a mother or father.


Your mistake today can be a poison of tomorrow.

Get pregnant when you are ready not because you were horny.

Let us "NOT NORMALIZE TEENAGE PREGNANCY".


Disclaimer: This article isn't to disgrace teenage parents but to educate/inform the cons of getting into an early relationship and being pregnant at an early age.

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Thank you for your time. Hope you will be an instrument as well to enlighten our youth.


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Very well said,this article of yours serves as warning to both parents and children.We parents should be observant everytime and children should follow what their parents say because it will not mislead you❀️

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"Let's not 'NOT NORMALIZE TEENAGE PREGNANCY'. I highly agree since I have some neighbors who are years younger than me and they already had a child but still act like a child. It's like they are implying that it is not a big deal to get pregnant at the early stage, and some would even say that they get pregnant because they are pretty. I don't really understand why they ruin their future just because of some 'puppy love', I mean--yes it's not a sin and the babies are angels, but I pity their parents and for their future as well.

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Hi Selle dear. Apolgies i havent been able to renew my sponsorhips. I have encountered error and there were some bugs in read.cash.

Thats true. Whenever they get pregnant they would be so proud especially if their parents would be so proud of them not thinking how it hurts for the parents to see them like that and not being able to fulfill their plans and goals of having them finish college because they got pregnant. It would be harder to sustain their needs by then since their parents would also have to shoulder their babies expenses.

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no worries po :)

Yes, that's very true but I guess they'll realize it one day if they are on their parent's shoe.

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Yan na tlga malaking crisis ngayon. Premarital sex and teenage pregnancy.. Ang iba nmn nagpapabuntis tapus papabayaan lng ang anak.iba ipapaabort.. Nkakainis mga yun

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3 years ago

Correct. Well di naman ako nag.judge talaga kung san sila masaya dun cla pro mostly sa na wi.witness ko na nanganak ng maaga or nagkaanak ng maaga would end up to a broken family. Bata yung ka wawa samantalang yung ama o ina lagalag..kwawa din yung parents nila.

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Also, I would like to add that a lot of teens think they are more mature for their age because they are still under the roof of their parents and could get way with just doing what they want. I have nothing against teenage pregnancy when both parties are aware of what that entails.

What I hate is the fact that it is taboo to speak about sex in the country which actually adds "thrill" for the teens. If only they would be aware of what happens during pregnancy, I doubt many girls would willingly opt to do it raw. Also this hush hush around the topic of sex also opens opportunities for predators to prey on teens because they can easily manipulate them and the teens will not know better because no one taught them how to protect themselves against tactics like that.

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3 years ago

This is sooo true. Some people would change the name of vagine to cupcake or whatever just because they would put to their kids minds that when they say the exact term its gross or bad. When its not. Thats part of our body. Thats why I am keen with my girls. I have two daughters. If they dont want to be near a certain person even if thats a relative i dont force them. They might feel different towards a person that I may have not noticed. I even see to it that I will always observe anyone especislly the opposite sex how they deal with my baby where they touch even if thats my partner. I always tell him the dos and donts.

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What you said about substituting names of reproductive organs to cutesy words reminded me of a news I read a few months ago about how a little girl was telling her teacher that her uncle was licking her cookies before she goes to school and the teacher did not think much of it. Until she talked with the mother who used the term cookies for vagina and they were horrified that it has been happening and they did not know even when the child was telling them. I am so glad to know that you are taking good care of your daughter and not forcing them to interact to someone they have icky feelings with. I am sure that they will grow up to be wonderful people themselves with someone like you as their mom.

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3 years ago

Pa bata ng bata ang nabubuntis ngayon dahil na rin minsan na hindi sila naalagan ng kanilang parents at dahil na rin cguro eh may ibang mga kabataan na curious about sex. Kung ano ang feeling , ewan ko ba. Thanks for sharing this post , hope that teenagers will realized how value they are.

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3 years ago

Peer pressure or influence din..kaya if we have a child or may bata sa bahay we have to look after them kasi pwd sila ma engage sa ibang bata na di naturuan ng maganda or may nakapagturo ng di maganda. Yan kc ang crucial sa child development or growth yung influence.

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3 years ago

If you are a religious person. Sex without marriage is a mortal sin. But in this kind of generation, premarital sex is always everywhere. The only thing that we can do now is to educate the young generations to have safe sex.

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3 years ago

Thats right but not everyone would follow this. Some teenagers for some reason can afford to go to a hotel but cant buy a condom or pills lol

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3 years ago

I always believe in the value of chastity. I just wonder how other young people like me take it just very easy as if it something not very important.

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3 years ago

Thats true. I even had a hard time when I gave birth at the age of 23 and has a stable job. Hopefully those teenagers reading this would get to realize what are they trying to get theirselves into before its too late.

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3 years ago

Naiinis ako ate kapag nagfefacwbook ako kasi ang daming batang ina sa fb tapos inonormalize pa kaya tinamad akong magfb eh. Gladly, may noise na walang toxicity tapos parang ninonormalize lang niya na having a sex between each other in such a young age which is completely a sin. Wala, kainis lang. Thanks po for sharing...

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3 years ago

Totoo madami toh sa fb naglipana kaya babies ko ayaw ko kay fb. Tsaka n pag like totally they know whats bad and good for them. Kaya ko toh na isipan kac babae mga anak ko and madami ako nakikitang proud na teenage parents. Wlang msama maging proud pro instead na mag post n bawal or wag tularan e na eencourage pa.

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3 years ago

Mostly yung mga ganon po is merely totoo or fake accounts. Inggit lang ba

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