A Family's Dirty Laundry should be kept Hidden

As social media became a norm to everyone and the usage of internet became known to people my age and even the new generation there have been many secrets that has been spread all over world. Those incidents, happenings that we could only see on movies.

Today it is so easy to shame someone and let people know her as the bad person be it because of unpaid debt or for doing something wrong. Feud within family members that we used to keep secret against other for delicadeza is now being spread without shame way too easily.

There are good and bad in everything. Indeed when it is too much it would not lead us to something good.

I believe this is one of the reason why Queen Elizabeth II do not have any good connection with Meghan Markle, Prince Harry's wife.

Come to think of it, she is a celebrity but she has no right to just threaten the Royal that she can spill the beans but chose not to. You may check some of her interviews as I have only scrolled down to Facebook. My one cent of her action is that she is not honoring the Royal family as she's supposed to be.

The downside of letting other people know about your life is that it would be so easy for them to judge and know what you are up to. It is never good to let other people know whatever issue that you have not unless they are one of those that you trusted. As you grow older you get to realize that it is better to actually keep small circle of friends.

Growing up can be a killer of a fairy tale, you know.

As you get to realize that life isn't a dream come true and there is no such thing as happy ending. That in real life behind those family portrait hid a history of cheating, harassment, embarrassment and all other feud that we could ever imagine. There are always things that is going on a family that is kept hidden and better be kept that way for everyone's sanity.

Social media though is very powerful especially for those who knows how to make of it. It can make you earn for a living, it can make you learn about something but other than these it can also ruin people's lives.

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No one is perfect. Life is never a fairy tale but we can all have a respectable life if we live a life that harm no one.

When you do your best not to hurt other people or stomp at anyone's right then you get to live at peace and not get anxious about the future.

A person has the power to influence other people and so use it in a positive way. In a way that no one would get to feel bias and in a way that someone who is living in a messy home won't feel bad.