Let's talk about Cheating Partners

The greatest relationship sin and a well-known relationship destroyer is cheating. The majority of people are aware of the repercussions of infidelity, especially in a marriage. Parental upheaval and divorce are two outcomes of betrayal. Domestic abuse, anxiety, and sadness are all predicted by marital infidelity. However, many depart from it and are content to do so. Why is the unanswered query? Why does dishonesty persist?

Some people begin a relationship with the intention of being friends or coworkers and later discover they have a secret in common while fully aware that their partners or significant others are waiting for them at home.

Because partners may not share the same concept of cheating, many couples have difficulty because the boundary between benign flirtation and romantic betrayal is sometimes hazy. Anything other than having sex with someone else is okay for some people, but it is unacceptable for others to pay someone else any attention. Yes, as spouses are always One and not half somewhere, cheating should never be tolerated in a marriage. People will continue to cheat on their partners until this rule is followed.

A woman who died chasing her husband and her side chick made headlines last month. The deceased woman was told about her cheating husband by a friend, and in her zeal to defend her love, she slammed her car into a tree and passed away instantly. Just lately, additional information about the deceased woman's husband's death surfaced. Although I don't truly know what happened to him, the news reports that he has died.

People say it because he's depressed, he can't forgive himself for causing the death of his wife and maybe took his life or something else. I keep asking myself what happens to the kids they left behind. All these happenings were just because of infidelity. Had this man not cheated on his wife with just a girl, he would have been living happily with his family. If the woman was alive, would she have forgiven her husband even though he would apologize.

Who would trust a cheating partner ?

People easily say "forgive and forget" but my dear, it is not easy as said. In fact, it is almost impossible to forget and as easy as to forgive. We are humans and we have the ability to remember things, it's just who we are.

Although one's history does not necessarily predict their future, research shows that those who have been unfaithful in the past are three times more likely than those who haven't betrayed again in a future relationship. Additionally, people who have cheated are more inclined to act hypocritically when discussing adultery. Even when there may be marital discontent that leads to infidelity, many people who choose to have affairs believe they are happily married. With a few rare instances, most people don't leave their partners in an affair for their marriages. In actuality, the majority of infidelity never had any intention of leaving their partners. They are glad to indulge people while achieving nothing, and they are aware of what they are doing.

Therefore, ending the affair becomes a straightforward choice: "it's over" for no discernible reason when their marriages are seriously imperiled following the revelation of infidelity. They spread broken hearts instantly.

Even though it makes sense for disappointed spouses to think that affairs are all about pure, unadulterated pleasure, for the majority of conscientious people, the situation is more complicated than that. Their early relationships are thrilling, passionate, and alluring, yet they also cause enduring feelings of guilt and shame. This is especially true for those whose choices to deviate violate their own moral standards.

Betrayed spouses find it difficult to comprehend how someone may feel crippled by remorse while continuing the conduct that is causing it. But they are able to and do. It's also true that once the affair is exposed and the truth is made clear, unfaithful people frequently experience a great sense of relief at not longer having to keep their dark secrets a secret or try to maintain their lies straight. Now that he has joined his wife in the afterlife, things are quite different for this man. His inner and true self was torturing him, and there was no relief.If someone has earlier warned him to stay away from cheating on his wife and he didn't listen to the advice, this is the time he would tell himself the truth and will be like "had I known"

This is made worse by the advice that friends and relatives frequently give betrayed spouses, as well as the widespread notion that "Once a cheater, always a cheater." It goes without saying that there will always be people who feel entitled to continue having affairs and experience no guilt at all, as well as those who leave their spouses and families in order to be with an affair partner. This is both untrue and regrettable. Because of this, deceived spouses would be wise to exercise caution when recovering. Contrary to popular belief, people frequently terminate relationships without ever looking back.

People, let's say no to cheating in marriages and relationships. It feels so bad to have a cheating partner and aside from that, it is not morally accepted. It is a sin before God and man and will always lead to shame and unnecessary embarrassment. Let's call a spade a spade!

Thanks for reading.

@Gianna-B

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