"Help yourself"

1st March, 2022.

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What we do when we want or need help is to seek for it. That is just the best thing we could do when in need, letting it out and not keeping it to ourselves. Most times when we seek this help, we get it, but what happens when someone seeks for help and doesn't get it and gets disappointment in return? especially someone who has been of help to others. Well, all I can say is that it just a painful experience because if it happens to be me, I would think the whole world hates me and regret of the good deeds I have done follows, but when I am in need and gets assistance, you and I will feel greatly relieved.

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This is a world of problems and solutions. Some most certain things we encounter is challenge which some people believes makes them stronger. Situations hits at us and another certain thing which is solution exist. There is and has always been solutions to the problems of the world.

It almost impossible to live without problem. Each and every one of us have something that bothers us. It could be money, peace of mind or anything that we need. It becomes a need for us because it is what we desire to have.

Problems does not finish but I believe it can be avoided.

In our work places, at school and everywhere, problem hides not it's face. Maybe that why the elderly ones advice is to avoid problems and turn away from them.

It is so important to know that, we have to get prepared for the oncoming to save ourselves from situations which might call at us unexpectedly. This can be a hugely achieved by knowing that we one day, sooner or later, there must be situations we could get into or if not us, the people around us which might be our loved ones. Prevention they say it better than cure. knowing that one day we will need a help, we should get our mind prepared for keep up with our activities.

Mindful of our friends.

There is another saying that: "show me your friends and I tell you who you are". It really matters, the people we call friends and people we hang around with. It very nice and full of advantage to keep companions but do we know very well who we associate with. This is very important. There are people who hang around with friends if bad character and habits. When people who knows them see us with them, they sometimes assume that we are same people of same character. This is one of the reasons why we hear gossips about us and it only those who cares about us, hears the gossip and ask us questions about that. This has happened to me twice, hanging around with wrong people and hearing bad gossip about me. In the same way, some hang around with criminals that may have committed one crime and are being wanted.

If by any chance you are seen with people like that on an arrest, it a big problem as you can't deny not knowing the person. Being watchful to making friends is a wise decision to embrace if we would like to stay out of trouble.

Choosing our words carefully.

In everyday life, we have interactions with people, between friends and enemies, known or unknowingly. In most cases, what some persons say in a group or gathering will be the voice to be noticed by everyone. That particular contribution you made will be so loud and viral as if it were you alone in the gathering that said something. Even when we hear what others said, do we tell people the way the word was said without adding our own words or twisting the whole story to suit ourselves and intentions. Rumors spread like wild fires. So many lies are everywhere and people believing what they hear without asking questions to know the right thing. Some words we say can cause us problem and put us in trouble. It is wise to understand situations before passing judgement or making conclusions.

Watching our health

Health is wealth. Problems are unhealthy to us and makes us disorganized. Good grooming is a healthy way of avoiding problem. Eating good food and water when it is supposed to be taken and exercising our body counts to reducing health issues and problem. Taking good care of our body and checking what we give to the body, ie. the food we eat. Good health brings happiness and happiness makes a sound body.

Even those with health challenges are advised to take healthy diet and nutrition, so it better we take them now and avoid being told to when we have health related problems.

Self advice

most times when things goes topsy turvy, all we need to do is take a sit and clear our doubts, the burden is ours not theirs, so if we can give time to ourselves and have a deep thinking of what and best ways to carry on with life, it is probably the best thing to do. Self advice, listening to ourselves and watching our moves and therefore making a better plan for the future.

Mind Your spending.

Money is one of the greatest need of man. It makes life easier and comfortable. Some people work throughout their life to secure a good living in pursuit of money. It indeed a valuable that can solve problems without talking or making noise. Whatever amount of money we earn daily, weekly or yearly has to be respected. The rate of income varies , while some earn huge, many earn low. But whatever we earn could be properly managed and planned because, it can never be enough. Save money and money will save you. out of debt

People take from others to help themselves by borrowing from them. In most cases with agreement to pay back in a certain amount of time. What happens when we fail to pay our debt? problems arise. Some people have the poor habit of borrowing, from individual or firms and are always bankrupt. Nations even fall into this.

They borrow a huge amount of money from foreign countries and until they are Unable to pay. living in debt is no good living, it creates trouble and unrest. Avoiding debt at all costs is a good way to stay out of problems.

The best help we receive are the ones we give ourselves. Problems does not finish but we will do our best to avoid them and live without them.It really up to us to decide how we want to live our life. Thanks for reading and have a great time.

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