I honestly don't understand what the world is turning into anymore, I can't figure out why things have gone from bad to worse in the world we live in today. It is like a lot of people have sold their conscience in exchange for something else.
I really can't say for every part of the world but the things, I am seeing happening out there have made numerous countries been marked as Sodom and Gomorrah. The city was filled with sins and countless atrocities, it got destroyed when the people choose not to turn away from their filthy lifestyle.
If you haven't read or heard about the story, you can Genesis 19 vs 1-28.
A lot of things are happening in the world that seems unexplainable to me because I believe they are not meant to happen. I have written few relationship articles on/outside the platform and it makes me believe that I have little knowledge about relationships issues even though I am still single.
The issue of families having children that don't belong to the man in the family is becoming alarming, I don't know if it is right to use the word "bastard child".
I stayed out late yesterday and a man said jokingly that his first child doesn't like him or his wife, he said he wasn't seeing it as something serious until DNA started exposing a lot of things that weren't meant to happen.
He might be wrong but this trending issue of DNA revealing the true identity of kids in marriage has raised a lot of suspicion in different relationships. It has questioned the trust that has been maintained for decades in so many marriages, it ended with an apology for some families who doubted themselves before the DNA results were given out while it ended in crisis for some families whose suspicion was genuine.
No matter how much a man loves a woman, he would never pamper his wife for having babies for another man. It is a slap and act of betrayal from a woman who tries such in her marriage, no offense from a man justifies the action as long as you are still been referred to as husband and wife. It is better to file a divorce and after the both of you have been separated, you can live whatever kind of life you choose.
While talking about it, a woman said what if the husband offended her and my question to her was that, how would you have felt if your brother was the victim?. She went mute and after that, all she could say was God forbid.
It is funny how people support what they can wish for themselves.
Some victims were able to amend by starting a new life while some had to live with the pain and suffering in their hearts because it was too late.
One of the heartbreaking stories I read was that of a 65-year-old man who discovered after DNA that none out of the two kids he raised with sweat and blood doesn't belong to him. What is expected of the old man at the age of 65 years?
A lot of people have lost their lives from committing suicide when they couldn't hold back the pain that has been inflicted on them by raising a bastard all their live. I wouldn't blame them because no motivational speaker would have succeeded in talking them out of such situations. After all, it is a hard one that can't be forgotten forever.
I have said in various articles that it is wrong to go into a relationship you ain't ready for or force someone to be in a relationship with you because it most times ends in tears. Cheating in a relationship is a terrible act and some women do cheat to the point of getting pregnant for another baby.
I am not condemning any gender but this issue has fallen more on the woman this time and if you agree with me, having a child that belongs to another man while you are married to some is disgusting.
I argued with @Esthery97 in an article she posted yesterday about gender equality, she said that some people cheat because it is their nature. She further said they do it for no reason and I didn't agree to that but after thinking twice, I think she was right.
If a woman or man is married, I don't see a reason they should have an extramarital affair. We have heard of big names been dragged into the mess of raising another man's child as a result of the wife getting down with another man and that's why I said that I agree with someone's article earlier about people cheat for no reason.
The newest story related to this came up a few days ago when a radio presenter, an artist, and comedian told the world that he wasn't the father of the child he always called his own.
I was shocked because I was wondering what the wife was thinking to have done such a thing.
In defense, she said, "she never mentioned to the guy that he owns the child, he was thinking too much".
I thought a man is entitled to his wife's pregnancy, it baffles me how things turned out for the man in the story. She had the effrontery to say he was over thinking for believing his wife was carrying his child, it is the weirdest I have heard this year.
@Bloghound talked about the terrible dress sense people refer to as fashion lately and I think we have pampered lots of things that should have been rejected in society. It is funny how some people still support all these crazy things and it encourages more people to get themselves involved in these disgusting things.
I don't want it to look like the post in an attack on a particular gender but trust me, our mothers have a lot to do with the females of our generation.
A lot of things are getting out of hand and I wouldn't join the people who blame civilization because it doesn't have anything to do with the filthy things we embrace wholeheartedly today. Aside from the issue of DNA issue, there are lots of problems the world is not attending to and they can quicken humanity's journey to its end.
I have a deep thought about this issue , and I cannot find any answer to the question boiling inside me. I don't know why some women are so desperate..
You're inside a man roof and you're having affairs with another man outside, isn't it a pathetic situation ???
If i should be in the shoe of the man whom his wife was impregnant by another man, the home will be hell on Earth... hehehehe 😆.
But those people who discovered that the children they called theirs is not is not for them, who will it be? Expecially the man of age 65...where will the man Start the journey of his life from ?? Chaiii!! some women can be so wicked.
Everything start from the home they come from , some people don't have the moral teaching from the home they come from , just like a Yoruba adage "ile la'n ti ko ese rode" , a children should be discipline at home so that they will portray the discipline outside too.
I rest my case here✍️