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Infidelity has taken a new height.

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I honestly don't understand what the world is turning into anymore, I can't figure out why things have gone from bad to worse in the world we live in today. It is like a lot of people have sold their conscience in exchange for something else.

I really can't say for every part of the world but the things, I am seeing happening out there have made numerous countries been marked as Sodom and Gomorrah. The city was filled with sins and countless atrocities, it got destroyed when the people choose not to turn away from their filthy lifestyle.


If you haven't read or heard about the story, you can Genesis 19 vs 1-28.


A lot of things are happening in the world that seems unexplainable to me because I believe they are not meant to happen. I have written few relationship articles on/outside the platform and it makes me believe that I have little knowledge about relationships issues even though I am still single.

The issue of families having children that don't belong to the man in the family is becoming alarming, I don't know if it is right to use the word "bastard child".

I stayed out late yesterday and a man said jokingly that his first child doesn't like him or his wife, he said he wasn't seeing it as something serious until DNA started exposing a lot of things that weren't meant to happen.

He might be wrong but this trending issue of DNA revealing the true identity of kids in marriage has raised a lot of suspicion in different relationships. It has questioned the trust that has been maintained for decades in so many marriages, it ended with an apology for some families who doubted themselves before the DNA results were given out while it ended in crisis for some families whose suspicion was genuine.

No matter how much a man loves a woman, he would never pamper his wife for having babies for another man. It is a slap and act of betrayal from a woman who tries such in her marriage, no offense from a man justifies the action as long as you are still been referred to as husband and wife. It is better to file a divorce and after the both of you have been separated, you can live whatever kind of life you choose.

While talking about it, a woman said what if the husband offended her and my question to her was that, how would you have felt if your brother was the victim?. She went mute and after that, all she could say was God forbid.

It is funny how people support what they can wish for themselves.

Some victims were able to amend by starting a new life while some had to live with the pain and suffering in their hearts because it was too late.


One of the heartbreaking stories I read was that of a 65-year-old man who discovered after DNA that none out of the two kids he raised with sweat and blood doesn't belong to him. What is expected of the old man at the age of 65 years?


A lot of people have lost their lives from committing suicide when they couldn't hold back the pain that has been inflicted on them by raising a bastard all their live. I wouldn't blame them because no motivational speaker would have succeeded in talking them out of such situations. After all, it is a hard one that can't be forgotten forever.

I have said in various articles that it is wrong to go into a relationship you ain't ready for or force someone to be in a relationship with you because it most times ends in tears. Cheating in a relationship is a terrible act and some women do cheat to the point of getting pregnant for another baby.

I am not condemning any gender but this issue has fallen more on the woman this time and if you agree with me, having a child that belongs to another man while you are married to some is disgusting.

I argued with @Esthery97 in an article she posted yesterday about gender equality, she said that some people cheat because it is their nature. She further said they do it for no reason and I didn't agree to that but after thinking twice, I think she was right.

If a woman or man is married, I don't see a reason they should have an extramarital affair. We have heard of big names been dragged into the mess of raising another man's child as a result of the wife getting down with another man and that's why I said that I agree with someone's article earlier about people cheat for no reason.


The newest story related to this came up a few days ago when a radio presenter, an artist, and comedian told the world that he wasn't the father of the child he always called his own.

I was shocked because I was wondering what the wife was thinking to have done such a thing.

In defense, she said, "she never mentioned to the guy that he owns the child, he was thinking too much".


I thought a man is entitled to his wife's pregnancy, it baffles me how things turned out for the man in the story. She had the effrontery to say he was over thinking for believing his wife was carrying his child, it is the weirdest I have heard this year.

@Bloghound talked about the terrible dress sense people refer to as fashion lately and I think we have pampered lots of things that should have been rejected in society. It is funny how some people still support all these crazy things and it encourages more people to get themselves involved in these disgusting things.

I don't want it to look like the post in an attack on a particular gender but trust me, our mothers have a lot to do with the females of our generation.

A lot of things are getting out of hand and I wouldn't join the people who blame civilization because it doesn't have anything to do with the filthy things we embrace wholeheartedly today. Aside from the issue of DNA issue, there are lots of problems the world is not attending to and they can quicken humanity's journey to its end.

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I have a deep thought about this issue , and I cannot find any answer to the question boiling inside me. I don't know why some women are so desperate..

You're inside a man roof and you're having affairs with another man outside, isn't it a pathetic situation ???

If i should be in the shoe of the man whom his wife was impregnant by another man, the home will be hell on Earth... hehehehe 😆.

But those people who discovered that the children they called theirs is not is not for them, who will it be? Expecially the man of age 65...where will the man Start the journey of his life from ?? Chaiii!! some women can be so wicked.

Everything start from the home they come from , some people don't have the moral teaching from the home they come from , just like a Yoruba adage "ile la'n ti ko ese rode" , a children should be discipline at home so that they will portray the discipline outside too.

I rest my case here✍️

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1 month ago

You got the extra tip for saying a Yoruba adage.

It is a dirty thing, I can't withstand my woman exposing her body to people not to talk of her laying with another man.

The world is turning upside down, the abnormal things are becoming normal in the world today and I wonder why and how it got really deep into us.

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1 month ago

Wow😱😱, an extra tip!!! Thanks, Hug for you 🤗🤗 Even though I'm not fluent with it, I'm always a typical igbo girl, just learning.... hehehehe 😆

You've said it all, they see abnormal things as normal things , still what I'm talking about in the comment I dropped in @Olasquare post that he published just of recent, he was also making refresh to your post too, tell conclusion is that majority of this people in these category lack conscience, they don't care about the outcome of their actions.

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1 month ago

Conscience has been buried a long time ago, humanity has gone astray

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1 month ago

Hmmmm, I took a deep breath with what you just said.... But as the case maybe, there are still some people who are expectational from this inhumane act.

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1 month ago

Definitely but I think we have been outnumbered.

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1 month ago

I don't think I will ever want to ruin my relationship because of this issue like this. For Christ sake, why do most ladies want to destroy their home for bringing a child not their husbands own and will expect to keep it secret? Like, I find it disgusting joor When I have known the end result won't be good because the secret will be leaked and once a man finds out he isn't the owner of the child(ren), why do I have to do it? Some women do not have mind oo

That man (65yrs) should just accept his fate because I don't know what he would do but the act of insincerity from the woman is very bad and wicked.

Cheating is just a choice. Those cheating knows it is bad to do it but just so they can satisfy themselves, they do it.

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1 month ago

That's a wicked satisfaction, anything that has to do with hurting others shouldn't be encouraged. I honestly can't imagine the conditions these men would be and I must say this generation has almost lost it all.

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1 month ago

Modernisation and being part of the "Woke generation " or as we call it here "soro soke" generation is the problem. We've lost all our values and now see things that are not normal as normal

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1 month ago

We have misplaced values a long time ago, it is really disappointing and I wonder what would be left for the next generation.

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1 month ago

Now you see that some people cheat for no reason because for a celebrity wife to cheat it is for no reason Is it money she want or care or fame or child or sex what does she want to stoop so low and get pregnant for another man while married to one

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1 month ago

You have a point, some people just do things without reasoning and it is becoming a trend in the society today.

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1 month ago

very sad story but, they still his son or daughter, being a father or a parents is not only by blood but its about how you feel.

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User's avatar Amz
1 month ago

Too sad for that man who thought his son is his.. Maybe the wife just doesn't want to lose him once he found out about her sin...

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1 month ago

You are right but she shouldn't have cheated in the first instance because she has betrayed the trust in the relationship.

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1 month ago

I don't think that it's a solid excuse to involve with other man, "that we were forced for this relationship" inspite of having your own husband.If woman is not happy with her husband, she should ask for divorce instead of doing this filthy act of having relations with other man.It would be painful for the ones who realised after a long time that they were raising someone's else child.

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1 month ago

That's the fact, she should have just left when she knew that she wasn't getting any satisfaction from the relationship anymore.

It is really disgusting, I can not cope with such woman and I don't pray I fall victim of such in life. Thanks for the honest true to said.

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1 month ago

There is no part of the world, definitely, no religion approves of infidelity in marriage. No argument is tenable for a woman to raise another man's semen in the home of another man, it is sacrilege. There was a story of a seventy-four old clergy who also faced the same fate when a DNA result shows that all four children raised by him were fathered by other men through his wife. Of course he died of heart attack as a result.

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1 month ago

Can you imagine that? Imagine someone knowing that a child he has raised all his life doesn't belong to him.

That's terrible, the poor dying of heart attack is terrible. I hope the woman finds peace again.

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1 month ago

Imagine that woman saying maybe the husband offended the wife. Does that justify why the woman will go out and get pregnant for another man and bring the child for the husband to raise? You can see that most people are not even thinking straight when it comes to this infidelity of a thing, there's no justification for paternity fraud

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1 month ago

Those are the kind of people that pamper rubbish, they have made the world rotten to this extent.

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1 month ago

It's a crazy world, my brother and I read about the Nedu situation too. The wife obviously has no shame and I am glad Nedu also posted about his own side so people can know that the first person to report an incident isn't always right and for them to see how manipulative some women can be.

Some even went as far as saying the man has no rights to do DNA for their child without them knowing. Seriously? Out of all these, that's the only thing they can get angry about rather than why the child didn't belong to the husband? It's a crazy world and this is the new normal for most people. You'd be shocked how many people would find out this harsh truth but no one would know about it. It's painful.

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1 month ago

The new normal, that's scary. I wonder what relationships would become 10 years from now and I doubt if guys would still be willing to get married with the new normal in town.

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1 month ago

Guys that are not ready to marry before, this would definitely scare more guys away because it's shocking with this turn of event.

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1 month ago

It's sad and terrible to see the world turning out this way. A relation is based on trust more than anything. If a woman has a child of another person, she must tell this to the man. A 65-year-old man must be pissed off, and why not? anyone in this situation could be. Let's clear our minds and try effort to turn the world in the good possible way.

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1 month ago

It would definitely be a terrible one for the victims, I just hope things get better with us as an individual.

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1 month ago

lets hope for the best and do our best

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