Expect the unexpected.
I couldn't publish an article yesterday due to some personal reason but the same reason ended up as an inspiration for me to write this article.
Plans and dreams are very beautiful when making them, isn't it great how we can dream without limits?
I remembered Olasquare mentioning in an article how he dreamt of rescuing Manchester United in their crucial games, it is huge and great, right? That's one beautiful thing about every human, the power to dream and plan is in your hands.
A house was placed for sale in my area for $73k, I wish for it. I started dreaming and planning even though I knew it was impossible for me at the moment. No motivational speaker can preach to me about it, I know my worth and wouldn't start a race I know I have o% chance of winning. In some situations, there are things we are very confident about that still wouldn't go as planned.
Does that mean we didn't plan well or dreamt bigger than we should?
That's not the case, the dream and plans can be very accurate and perfect but the unexpected which we sometimes don't have control over happens and it would make us look like we ain't doing anything especially when you have invested a lot of things for it.
No matter how big or small the dreams are, they would only come to reality if we work towards them but what is the next step to take when dreams don't come through even after investing so much.
I know an uncle then who was eager to have his kids, he spent everything he saved on the wedding. It was a huge one, the wife got pregnant and we were all excited about it.
He prepared so much for the arrival of the child but things went sour after the delivery, the child was an imbecile. He became scared to have another baby, the couple separated because he failed to snap out of the unexpected, he didn't get married. The wife had another child three after their divorce while he waited 7 years after, he was scared.
Today, he has three kids with his new wife and they are living well. Calculating the chances of experiencing the unexpected in life make gives the strength to move on whenever it happens.
A lot of unexpected things happen in life which includes death, what would you expect of a family where the husband is the only one working and he died at a very crucial time?
Depending on how he has invested before he passed on, the family would feel it. The woman would need to pick things from the scratch and it is one of the reasons why I don't encourage the full housewife thing. It might be business, it might be family, we can't expect everything to be perfect or go as planned always not because you are not doing your best, always have it in mind that some situations are just beyond human control.
Was it the fault of the husband and wife who gave birth to an imbecile or if the husband who died could avoid it, did you think he wouldn't?
I have seen someone who said he can't be thinking of evil happening to him, this isn't a scenario of wishing yourself evil. As I have said earlier, some things are beyond our control.
One of my mentors in fish farming said he once lost $6k during his early days in the business.
A huge concrete fence collapsed during the and destroyed his ponds with the broodstock and table size fishes, he ran into debt. The microfinance started dragging him about and he somehow got help from his dad, he went back into the business again and his family was mad at him.
Today he owns a big farm where he does livestock and cattle rearing as well, he would say that he knew days like this would come but he wasn't sure about the time. So when the time came, it didn't pull him down and the problem he had was not having another money to start again but somehow help came through.
If he had allowed the unexpected to pull him down, he might not have the same testimony he is having today.
Bracing oneself for the impact of the unexpected in life is important, would you have expected Bitcoin Cash to drop this much after bagging some at $800.
If you claim to expect it, many of us weren't but it happened and we still choose to give our heart to it because we believe in Bitcoin Cash. We must believe in ourselves and no matter what the impact of the unexpected might be, we will rise again.
in my own opinion, it is not we take action because of our dreams, we take action because we want to be productive and successful in life.. that is when our dreams come in... because we CAN be without dreams, but we CANNOT be without success... we need to work hard to succeed and reach what we aim for...