It's all about you

If you are searching for that one person that will change your life, take a look at the mirror.

-Unknown

Look on yourself, stop looking at other people, the moment you start looking at other people you will likely fail yourself. When you start putting your whole trust on other people you tend to be a loser, because those people are still humans just as we are, and they also have their own problems too. When we depend on people rather than depending on ourselves, we made a very wrong mistake that will definately affect our lives in the future. I have gone through so many things, and I have be hearing it from some people complaining how they were disappointed through looking at others instead of looking on their selves.

It is all about you as a person, it is all about me as a person, self motivation is important and it is good that you become the first motivator to yourself before other people comes in to motivate you. Look around yourself, admire who you are, stop looking from afar, because the people you are looking from afar are standing from a distance, it could be before they reach you it's become too late, or you might not really know the person's mind that you are looking from afar.

Stop looking at people to be the ones helping you out in every challenges you go through, always try your best, give in your effort and also trusting on God. If people will assist you they will do, but don't let all the whole load on people to start it for you. Unlike what I do, and I don't know about others, if I want to help you I will only assist you, I will ask you how far you have gone already, I will ask you what and what you need to complete it, and from there if I see the need of assisting you I will do. But if at the end I find out that you don't have anything to show that needs my assistance I will work away.

I believe that is exactly what people of nowadays are doing. I read a post from princessbusayo some days back,where she said that her cousin who is in Senior secondary two came to her and told her that he needs money. I can still remember what princess said she replied him. Princess first ask his consin, can you write up to nine hundred - one thousand words? And he said no, she said the same cousin came back again and told her that he wants to join Yahoo boy and start making money. Princess also asked him do you have a laptop that you will be using? According to princess she said that the boy in question is not very good in word spellings.

I really wanted to use an example from a active writer from the read.cash platform I didn't just want to go afar, I like looking around and believing on people i go through their writings everyday. To point out my view, my question is why did princess didn't just register her cousin on any of the blogging platform and start writing for him since her cousin was looking for a way to make money? Or why did she not buy laptop for him? Why did she not start everything from the beginning for him since the boy was her cousin? than asking him some questions.

I really want to conclude what I said, people will only assist you, people will only help you when they see your alittle effort, no body would like to start from the beginning for you, you will be the one starting for yourself and others will assist you, and from there you become your real you and stand out. Had it been when princess asked her cousin if he can write up to nine hundred to one thousand words and he said yes, or had it been princess saw his capability in writing, do we think she would have not assisted him to start making on his early stage?.

Most people are waiting to see what you can offer before they can recommend you to others, no body will recommend you to go and work for some body when he does not know what you are up to. No body love disgrace or disappointment in life. It is about us, it's all about our life not others, life that we are living is like a battle field, it needs preparation, you need to be well prepared if you most stand out, you need to be prepared privately while hoping to demonstrate in the public, anything that has a show room has its own work shop.

You're already important, you are already matter. Stop looking at people today and start looking on yourself, your are the nature's greatest miracle, no body is far better than you, believe that no body can do it more than you, they might just be better than you in some certain areas. You are also better than them in your own area, keep the fire on in what ever you are doing. Don't look down on yourself, and even when people look down on you tell yourself that your are better than that, you can never be what they are saying you are unless you accept it to be the where they say.

You were born to be real, not to be perfect, you were born to rule, you have every right and everything it's take to rule your life. You have everything it's take to rule your future, nothing is possible, it's depend on the eyes you see those challenges, it depends on how you deal with every bad situations, so it is all about you. The destiny of a mighty man lies in his hands, no body is holding your future than you.

It is not who you are that holds you back, it is who you think you are not, it is those things that you thing you would not be able to do that weigh you down. It is a man's thought that diminish his vision. It is never too late to be what you might have been.

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