How to deal with broken promises
And the sad part is that eggs and promises are meant to be broken
-Singh-
An amazing greetings to you all, I am so grateful to come your way again. I am back again today with the continuation of what makes people to break promises if you didn't read the first part your can do as well to read it here.
The first part of the article was an explanation of why people breaks some of the promises they do make to other people. We were able to explain and people came on with good contributions which brought a very good understanding to so many people, which I am truly believe that people have in one where or the order gain a little knowledge about what really makes people to break promises that they have made.
I won't explain further, today like I have said earlier what we are going to talk on, we wouldn't be talking with only our mouth but we will be talking with the use of ink and paper, eheheh. Without much ado, let's move straight to what we are having today.
How can we deal with the broken promises.? There are ways we can still amend it, like it's said that they don't kill a person who make mistake, rather they caution him or her, or if the mistake was too big enough and it's due for penality they will give to the person rather than killing. The wise people have done so much that they could always be a way out to deal with those who misbehave sometimes, because they themselves they knew that no man is ever smart enough not to make mistakes.
We know broken promises will always cause the heart to feel sick, but are we going to remain sick for ever? No we have to keep moving, if the eggs that people sees physically and handle it with much care can fell on the ground and break, then what is promise that people wouldn't break after making it by giving you much hope and trust.
Here are some ways , or how we can always deal with the broken promises;
Finding solutions
They are many ways we can resolve broken promises, the two parties can always come together to find solutions that will help them to stand up again. Unlike what people really do, when ever broken promises occur, some people would say a word like I don't what to even see her with my eyes, or l don't even have time to listen to his nonsense words anymore.
When promises are broken it doesn't mean we should kill ourselves,they is always a way out, we can come together and discuss about the causes of it. It shouldn't mean we should run away when ever we experience such. If we can build up our trust again it would be in the place of discussion that we will find reasons why it happens that's way, then we will always look forward for aaway to stop it from not happening again.
Practice honesty
We have to be honest if we want to deal with broken promises, like in a relationship where we broke the promises we made, I think the best way to avoid it is to bring in honesty. We have to practice honesty, we have to avoid making some promises that we wouldn't be able to fulfill in the end. When we are dealing with the broken promises we have to be very sure of what we promise to each other. There most be a new policy which would be better enough to keep the relationship going.
Forgive but don't forget
Forgive but don't forget might sounds unrepented. But this doesn't really means people can't easily forgive but when we are dealing with broken promises, we have to forgive but not forgetting the causes that lead to the broken promises that occurred before. If we forgive and also forget, the same mistake might likely comes up again.
Know and also accept that some suitautions are beyond your control
We can always move forward in any broken promises by knowing that some suitautions are beyond humans control. We know that no body is perfect and there's nobody that answers righteous as his or her name, even if they do answer that is fake name. What I know is that there is no man that is about mistakes.
We should always try to deal with broken promises, there's always a way out, for the fact that people are not been able to meet up to their target shouldn't end up the relationship that we were into, we need to know that promises are just words spoken by people. I leave you with this quote" what does the heart & promises have in common?
They're are meant to kept,
But always end up broken.
We shouldn't keep our hopes on people that much, that's why we shouldn't just wait for someone to fulfill the promises he or she promises us before we can do other things.