Never waste your precious life for someone else, because they are a lot of people that are just in existence to destory other people's future, while they are expecting to use your own effort to achieve their own aims. Don't put much of your effort to impress people because those same people that your are trying to help are the same people that will turn against you tomorrow. They are the same people that will lure you into temptation or plot evil against you in times to come.
My mentor once advice me to love less, he advised me to love less that if I open my heart widely to love someone that I might be easily to trap by the same people I love. He said I should love less, and even if I love people he told me not to open all my secret to everyone, that it is through some secret that I open to people that they will use to bring me down. If you really want to live long on earth learn to keep some secret, never open all your secret to everyone irrespective of how the closeness might be.
It might not be everybody who needs help from you that are really in need of help, some are just asking for help from your in other to bring you down to their taste. They are most people that are not happy about your progress, or happy about the way you are living life. I recently discover ways on how people use to runs people broke, some people do not borrow from you because they lack the money, most people that borrow from you, borrow to just destory your plans, it might be they know exactly what your target is and they in one way or the order wants to borrow and destory your target.
Many people are describe by the wise people like the snake when passing on the surface of the water, which the crossing mark does not seen, and most of the people that will waste your precious life for nothing can not be seen through their working steps, the way they talk, or the way they behave in their physical appearance. People that would waste your life for nothing are the same people laughing with you, eating with you, drinking the same cup of water with you , the people that will destory you are never far from you.
People sometimes people accept risk which will waste their lives for no reasons, they accept risk that they don't even know the outcome of what will happen in the end, especially most of our youth have given their future to the adult because of nothing, most people have sold their lives, their time, their passion, infact they have sold everything they have just because of the following thing that they don't even know if they will even get it. Some people at times waste their lives through;
People always decide to take some risk that can lead them to death or life in prisonment, just because of some fake promises that people promised them, people take risk that is against the law of the given conutry or against the states, just to achieve some people aims and target. A lot of people are ready to promise you heaven and earth just to lure you to what you may not accept to do on your own, people will bring up fake promises that them, themselves knows that they will not be able to redeem those promises and when we hear of these promise we fall into what will lead us to destruction.
Most people are always likely to waste their life because of money, we know that money answers our neeeds, money can prevent us and safe us out some certain things, but we should not allow people to use any amount of money to bribe or destroy ourlives. I discover that people waste their lives through the amount of money people promise them, some people that wants to waste our lives will buy us with money by sending us to go and kill, steal, liar or commit others crimes that is against the law, and in the end they will escape while we will be the one facing the penality.
Most people are ever ready to make us become useless and frustrated in life by asking us to do one thing or the other that will not land us well, people will come to us by telling us lies that if we do this or that, that they will give us the latest car, the latest mansion and others material things. We know people are so eager to have all those things, but I think if we relax our mind by not seeing the material things like the breath we breath and focus on the important things we supposed to do, we will have all this things.
If we keep doing things to impress other people we will definately fail in life, if we always try to impress other people we might misbehalf at some point, There would be a time where people will need help from you, And when you don't have or when you cannot satisfy their needs you might become scared or become angry with yourself that you were not able to meet up their needs, and through such act you might hurt yourself through having some bad feelings. So I don't see any need of you trying to impress other people, the people you are trying to impress by borrowing when you don't even have just to impress them are the same people that will harm you badly.
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