"When they always got their parents back"
Hello everyone it's me again, yesterday I failes to write an article as I am not in the mood to finish my draft article. Well it was maybe because of what happen to my Free tips in Noisecash, I am feeling so sad as it immediately went gone. I don't know what did I've done, and yesterday I never received any refill again and so I was really bothered. I thought it will stay for a month but it didn't. Maybe I abuse the power of my Free tips, and so the admin take it away from me. So sad.
Anyway let's forget about it, it's still too early to get sad. Charrr . So now let me express myself with the observation that I have made here in our community.
We've been here for almost five months, and we already have some observations and impressions about the people in our neighborhood. Most specially their kids behaviour and attitude.
From the kid's in my neighborhood, I have noticed that nowadays some kid's by the age of eight years old are already master and a pro, on spiting of bard words. Some of them are even more younger than seven but they already knew how to fight back on throwing bad words to other kids. This is actually alarming, most specially that I also have a child.
I am not judging them anyway, I am just worried as I am a mother as well. I am not judging their parents either, but who are the responsible with this kid's behaviour?
So yesterday morning while I was busy typing with my content for Hive, I got distracted by our neighbors kids as they keeps on shouting and yelling around. I can't concentrate with my topic, as I got annoyed by the word's that I have heard from them. The words that I never spit when I was at the same age as them. I also felt disappointed and I can't believe that they are saying some words that I can't imagine how they learned them, as those are only for adults. They are still young, like 7-10 year's old, so how they learned those words? From their guardians/parents? Perhaps maybe from the internet?
The parents of those kids are both working and the only guardians that they have at home during day time, are their older siblings. I guess their older siblings are busy with their personal stuff as well, and so they are unaware with the behaviour of their younger siblings outside their home.
This is actually the disadvantages if both parents are working, as they can't give a proper disciplinary actions for their children's bad behaviour.
Furthermore I still tried to concentrate with my writings but I suddenly heard a loud noise under our roof, and it literally startled me. Seems like someone throws a big stones and so I went up and from our window I checked who made the noise and I saw that it was those kids 🤦. I have seen that they are attacking the house of our other neighbor with those stones and I have heard that our neighbor becomes mad.
Honestly I wanted to stop them but I can't, as I don't like conflicts. Their parents are tolerating their children's bad behaviour.
One time, one of our neighbor complain to the parents, about the behaviour of this kid's as they are really disturbing. However with my disbelief, the parents only say's, "They are just a kid's, and they are just having fun. Why your making it as an issue?"
That is one of the reason why I can't say anything about those kids behaviour, as for sure they will only misunderstood me. I don't like conflicts.
I was like, what?????? So now I understand why this kid's has the guts to make some troubles as they always have their parents back 🤦.
I know they are just a kid's, I've been there. When I was a kid, I always wanted to have fun, but I never makes any troubles. Because if I do and someone came to complain, for sure my parent's would punished me. But this kid's they are already disturbing someone's peace isn't it still an issue?
Parents are the responsible for their children's actions, and they must do something so their children's won't become the communities problem. So their children's would know how to respect the neighborhood. If parents would keep on tolerating their children's behaviour then they will grow up without manners.
Anyway this is too early for rant's, I'm sorry.
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Hello my dear.. regarding the Ft1ps on noise, you're not the only who's sad about it, I've experienced the same.. I believe there's this ups and downs too hehe. Just do not worry about it --it will be back to normal just keep on noising.. hehe
Anyway, working both parents is a big issue for me.. kids needs guidance. Especially at the influence of some kids or what they will have learned outside. We knew kids loves to explore but they must be disciplined. I do hope you're feeling good today. ^_^