Hello ladies and gentlemen, how was your day today? I've been so much busy in my entire day as I'm currently learning time management lol.

Anyway let's talk about friends. How do you look yourself as a friend? Who will you choose as a friend?

In my entire life I don't have a huge number of friends. As I remember my niece's was my first ever childhood friends, they are my cousin's daughters.

I have this one niece who is also my classmate in grade school. I looked at her as my sister. But as we grow up our friendship started to fall apart until it turned forgotten.

When we enter high school, we go to a different school and by that she meet new friends.

She has number of friends as she is kind of friendly and I don't have any one as i am an introvert.

One time, i saw her hanging out with her new friends. And by seeing her enjoying her new friend's company made me feel jealous. I feel like I'm being neglected and forgotten. I feel sad but I don't have any courage to be friends to her new friends as I am a shy type person and making new friends is hard for me. So i just let her go.

I just accept the fact that friendship change. I may be her favorite friends at our grade school but not in high school anymore.

Since then I don't have any friends to hang out. So i use to stay at home most of the time.

Then one time i transfer to another school. And meet new friends but they look at me as their competitors.

I was a third year high school student when i meet new friends. I have these two friends who I hang out the most.

One time our teacher gave us our report card. I was just excited to see my grades and their grades so we do exchanges our report card.

Then one of my friend reacted with my grades. Asking why i have higher grades than her. Like she was expecting that I'll get a lower grades than her. I was a bit for surprise and disappointed with her reaction, i feel like i don't deserve to have high grades than her. While our other friend was just happy to see my results.

So by then i started to separate myself to her. I don't like competition and comparing. I just want friendship.

And now that I have grown older, though I still find it hard to make friends. I slowly learn how to communicate with others, as how i communicate with my new virtual friends that I just meet in noise.cash and at the same time here in read.cash.

In real life, I have one real best friend. She's the one who I can totally be myself around, as I trusted her. She was the one who stand still beside me through my ups and downs. And what I like about her is she knows how to listen before she say something.

Somehow I meet some friends, but there true colours show up. I have been betrayed too and trust have been broken. I thought they are really my friends but found out that they talked about me behind my back. So sad.

I have realized that it's not important if how many friends you have, but its all about if who will stand by you in any means.

Making friends and being a friend defined a true friend.

Take someone as they are and leaves them improve. -Tyler

Every one of us was trying hard to find our place, where we can feel that we fit in and we are accepted.

Closing thought:

When it comes to our friendship,we must not compete with each other and compare with each other.

Competition is good in terms of sport's and business but it has no place in friendship.

If you look your friends as your competitors then you are not into friendship. Crab mentality will be developed, and you cannot stop your emotions. You will keep on trying your best to be a head.

Just think win-win! Their success was your success!

Message to my dear virtual friends:

We may not have meet personally but we make a unique Friendship as we just meet virtually.

But your success was my success.

I won't compete you nor compare myself/ achievement's with you, but instead i will make your success as my motivation to succeed

You can count on me through your ups and downs. I will follow your footsteps as you are heading your way to success so i will be as successful as you one day.

Believe in yourself as i believe in you.

Thank you, for always making me feel motivated!

Sending my virtual hugs and kisses.

Stay safe everyone 🤗🤗😘

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https://friends.fandom.com/wiki/Friends

Written by yours truly:

GarrethGrey07

September 27,2021 23:11