Initial gràgrá
Hello my fellow readcash writers? How are you all doing? I want to believe that you all are doing great and you had a splendid day over there.
The title of my article will be easily understood by Nigerians but I will do justice to it by explaining what I mean so that everyone can understand what I mean.
When it comes to bringing up a child, you don't just bring them up in the normal sense that you have but you must include God's word to bring them up.
Those your initial scolding and shouting at your child about them not to do one particular thing or go that particular place you don't want them to go. It will surely work on them when they are still very small and when they don't know right from left but as time goes on, it will no longer work on them.
When they have the word of God stuck in their head and they know every reason for every step, they will grow stronger in it and will never depart from it. It's the word of God that will make them stand and not the mere human word being said from the human sense.
A short story;
Around last week, I went out to have a free facial, pedicure and massage session that I saw from a WhatsApp GC. While I was done with my facial and pedicure and was doing mt massage, the guy massaging my body was having a conversation with a guy in the room and was talking about a lady.
They said this lady is always an insider, she was always asked to stay indoors by her parent but when she is in school, she stays outside late and become the opposite of what she is at home. She only stays inside at home cos her parent does shout at her to do that but they didn't tell her the right word she needs to learn so that she will grow stronger in it.
She was only being scolded with mere words but they aren't enough for her. If it was the word of God she was fed with, she won't have another choice but to ponder over those words and be led by God on the right step to take. But it was the other way around, she is always the life of the party while away from home, she enjoys her life the way she can't enjoy at home.
The initial gragra of her parent couldn't last her in the outside world or let me say outside their house.
In conclusion;
You need God and his words to be able to train up a Godly child. You can't just train them with your only human sense or capacity and there's a saying that says YOU CAN'T GIVE WHAT YOU DON'T HAVE. It's when you as a parent know the word of God that you will be able to train up Godly children.
Your initial gragra in this context means YOUR HUMAN SENSE OF SCOLDING A CHILD OR REBUKING A CHILD, they won't work when the child has outgrown some certain age and we will be surprised they behave the way we didn't expect. Go and learn about the word of God and leave your initial gragra.
Thanks for reading, I appreciate your time in doing that. Till I write again, take care of yourself.
Bye for now 🥰🥰🥰.
wow, i really love the title, its true that those scolding of children only works for them at their tender age, after that it doesnt work again. they are now wise to decide what they want but the word of God will make them stand.