Are you tired already of having my reviews of articles I have written before? If you do, I am sorry. I am doing this because of the lovely comments that I receive on it and I feel everyone should know about it. All the comments are wonderful and I felt wow for myself for my beautiful write-up, it was a beautiful one I must say. It's good to praise one effort sometimes and that's what I did just now, I am not trying to show pride in that π π π .
I know some read it to disagree with me and I am here to do justice to what I have said. I was never wrong, I only felt the need to clarify better and even to make use of some of the comments on it yesterday. If you haven't read it, click here to do so before proceeding to today's own.
There is a statement I was clamouring on that it is like a curse and we shouldn't say it and the statement is "if you leave me, you will never find someone better than me". I said it was wrong and I gave the correct one to be " if you leave me, you can never find someone like me".
Many could relate to this, suddenly my virtual lover @Ling01 commented and said when someone tells her this, she will reply to such a person that "she will not even go for what's better for her, rather she will go for the best".
Note that word " BEST ", this word really got to me and I thought so much about it and I saw a great sense from it. Have you started thinking about what am thinking? π π I know many will say how will they know what I am thinking, calm down, I will tell you now.
Let me burst your head, do you know the only time you used the word " better " is when you are given options that you aren't 100% satisfied with? Hmm, I know you sigh on reading this, let me explain with this instance.
Example;
Let's assume you have the mindset of buying a Gucci sandal with a specific type that you have seen with pictures. And you know that if you don't get that sandal that day, you will spend the money and that will be in another month to think of getting another one. So you got to the market and found out that you didn't see that particular one that you are looking for and you cannot return home with money cos you will spend it and you need a sandal badly. What will you do? You will have to get another sandal that you haven't planned for. After the show to you like five or more different ones, you will eventually pick one and say to the person selling that " this one is better " after many choices but you know deep down that assuming you were able to get the Gucci sandal you planned for it would have been the what? BEST, it would have the best.
I am sure this example explains it all but I will still add some spice to it. The word better now in this context now looks like something we just accept because we don't have a choice. So now, I will stylishly add to what I said yesterday that for me to have said such a person will never find someone like you, it means you are specially made by God and for this, you are the best and you deserve the best and not someone better. Now, the new misquote now is that some people might think I useless the word better whereas I didn't, I only said for this context of the relationship of a thing π€π€π€.
I am boldly saying it now that, if a guy or lady break up with you, never tell the person you will find someone better than her or him but instead say you will surely find the best person for you.
I should put a stop to this but let laugh a bit, my virtual mom @FarmGirl said with all these my write up that I must have known my ways around girlsπ π π and am like No ma, I am only speaking from what I heard, seen and feel I will do if I am in that position. And as a lovely mom, she advises me that I should be careful with girls, she said I shouldn't play with their heart and I promise I won't. She said I should remember Karma exist and it's real.
Remember karma exists and it's real, don't play anyone's heart be it a guy or a lady.
Thanks for reading and God bless, don't forget to click the thumb up button ππ.
Bye for nowπ₯°π₯°π₯°.
17th November 2021.
I love the two article, well its always bad to wish the worst happen to someone cause you're not in love with them again, thats why I love that Adele song, "someone like you"