Divorce is an option

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2 years ago

This article does not support any form of violence

One incident happened about a gospel singer who died due to domestic violence and abuse being perpetrated by her husband.

Gospel singer Osinachi by name who died yesterday was told to have died because she suffered from domestic violence which she couldn't escaped from and ultimately led to her death while in the hospital. People claimed that her husband was fond of beating her time to time and this affected her health in a very deteriorating manner which eventually led to her demise. Some people blamed the fact that she could have worked away from an abusive marriage as marriage sometimes is not meant for everybody. Yet I read that the woman probably had no choice than to continue to "endure" that marriage because she was a gospel minister and she might probably not be called to minister by churches any longer if she divorced her husband. What a myopic way of thinking?. She continues to endure and endure the inhumane treatment by her husband until she was unable to endure it again.

I have always been an protector of laws, either biblical or country laws. I know that beating women is firstly a violence against women. Women are often seen as vulnerable groups opposed to men and there are many laws and rules out there by different countries to protect women from violence or assault. So why would a man tries to engage in domestic violence against his wife in marriage just because the woman is weak?. Violence against women can try many forms, such as verbal violence, sexual violence, physical abuse etc. I wonder why it's always easy for men to beat their wives as if they didn't love them or something?.

Even at that I realized that domestic violence increases on a daily basis especially because of one factor, that women are not able to voice out to concerned authorities about the violence being melted upon them. How they try to keep silent on it and instead of it getting better it becomes more worse.

Many women have met their untimely death from their husbands. Because their husbands keep beating them like a pike of clothes and those women can't even voice out or make a cry. If women will start to voice out about their violence against them in the homes I think the abuse will start reducing in a while.

Sometimes religion have also help domestic violence to develop greatly too in many homes. Because some people will tell you that their religion doesn't allow for divorce unless your husband commit fornication or he died. Asides from that reason they didn't have any more reason for them to leave the relationship. Personally I don't feel this is bad as marriage is sacred union which you can't just enter to and leave as you like. However there are still some conditions that are always exempted. It's better to stay away from an abusive husband than to die untimely because of him because of regular assault and violence. Religious leaders should not encourage wives to stay and endure an abusive marriage. It kills the woman in the long run just as the gospel singer died an untimely death because of perpetual violence.

No To Violence❌❌❌

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Absolutely man. If a man abuses a woman, I don't see why she would remain in it. She should save herself while she can. Nice to meet you :-)

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Divorce should be considered if a partner is being punished from domestic violence. Marriage should be enjoyed not endured

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