Hips and Rips of Falling in Love

When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But, when you find new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn’t matter who won or who lost. The most important is you know when to hold on and when to let go!

You know you really love someone when you will find yourself that you want him or her to be happy all the time, even if you’re no longer the reason for it.

Everything happens for the best. If the person whom you love doesn’t love you back, don’t be afraid to love someone else again, for you’ll never know unless you give it a try. Love strives in hurting. If you don’t get hurt, you don’t learn how to love. Love doesn’t hurt all the time. The pain is present to test you and to help you grow.

Don’t find love; let love find you. That’s why it’s called falling in love because you don’t force yourself to fall, you just did. It seems like you cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn to another page.

Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress, but it is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering, and growing. The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on, and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us. On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse as it were, but don’t ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time. Inculcate in mind that to love is to risk rejection, to love is to risk failure. Risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose your true self; to love is to risk not to be loved in return.

How to define love? Fall but not stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt never keep the pain. Love is like a knife, it can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime. It is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling that inspires you and gives you joy and strength. Sometimes the things that make you happy can also hurt you in the end. Loving people means giving them the freedom of whom they choose to be and where they choose to be.

For all the heartaches and the tears, for gloomy days and fruitful years, you grow. Loving someone means giving the person the freedom to find his way, whether it leads toward you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then you’ll experience the fullness of humanity and that is LOVE.

Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love to know why. If you’re not ready to cry, if you’re not ready to take the risk, if you’re not ready to feel the pain, then you’re not ready to fall in love.

There were times in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love, because every time we do, we get hurt. Falling in love can be a beautiful experience and we all should fall in love.

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