What if it all works out?

Today I would basically be talking about how the world is conspiring to make life amazing and also about the word "paranoia" and I'm sure we've all heard this word before, the thought that the whole world is out to get us or somebody is out to get you, I don't know about you but I actually know people that act this way and this makes them not to accept anything eatable from strangers even from neighbors, just Incase of poisoning.

As we all know there is always an opposite for everything and for paranoia the opposite is "Pronoia" and in this case, it means the world is for us and everything that happens to you, is for your greater good..... Have you ever noticed that out of every bad thing that happens, good things always follow, and I'm actually talking out of experience and most people that experience some challenges and difficulties, when I converse with most of them, none of them have ever told me they regretted something that had happened to them.

Most of them that experienced heartbreak then, they've all found the person that really loved them and made them significant unlike before and this kind of situation wouldn't have happened if not for the heartbreak..... Have y'all ever wondered whether all the things happening now are just to get us better and developed to our better self and every challenges is for a reason.

Think of a hardest time in your life, that you wish you won't ever go through it again, maybe 5 or 10years ago and check everything you've learnt during those process to become who you are really and you would realize that they are part of your development and the question is are you grateful you went through those challenges?..... Truly it's not good to go through these things but what's great is what came out of it.

When you start to look your life through the lens of pronoia in the sense that you think that if the challenge, like break up, being cheated on, a death in the family, whatever it might be, if we look at those challenges as if they are placed in our lives for our benefits, for us to learn and grow and we are also forced to look at every person the exact same way..... Instead of looking at those challenges in. Bad way, endeavor to learn something out of it.

You know what, everything in life sucks sometimes, sometimes it might be unbearable to the extent you might be suicidal but just believe in yourself and trust the process that it would make you better and sooner or later you will realize the value of going through it.

Thanks for reading ☺️☺️☺️💕 and I hope you have an amazing weekend❤️