@Freedom007
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Friends
Some people find it easy to make friends, however I find it tough to handle when it comes to establishing new friends. I'm not sure why, but it is. I've recently started deliberating more on having conversations with people of both genders, which is more daunting. Even though I have a lot of female friends, we aren't close; we merely converse. Every now and then sincerely, I really have some awesome friends that match every Vibes you throw at them, some friends we rarely meet because of school activities and work but we still check up on each other through social media as the day passes, while some other friends we rarely talk, see or have conversations through social media but once we meet somewhere or at a location we do talk and vibe till we have to go on our separate ways. while some friends we only talk through social media because of the location distance and we may never see again, while there are some friends we do see each other everyday and we talk every day, and every type of friends I have mentioned and didn't mention, they all affects our life in one way or the other. There are friends with whom we share a lot of personal information; they know a lot about us, especially those with whom we grew up, and even those with whom we did not grow up know a lot about us, since we share a lot with ourselves and the more we do, the closer we become. some people have this issues of Having problem with friends that are very close to them and for that reason they don't talk anymore and the vibes will just disappear. for me it's really weird because I haven't experienced this personally and I can't even imagine myself fighting with my best friend that I'm very close to and knows everything about me. Why do some people have problems with their best friends? They simply don't have friends who tend to be their friend for a long time; they always have friends at first and then discover that their friends don't just show interest in their friendship, and they begin to wonder whether the problem is their fault or not; the truth is that they know the reason but aren't open to that possibility. Some people enjoy this solo ride, a life without friends as long as they have enough anonymity; they don't need friends to talk to until they fall asleep at night, and they don't want to open up to people because it makes them anxious; they do have several lonely nights but they are happy about it; I'm not trying to say it's bad, but I don't want this kind of life; that's why we need friends. Final thoughts If you don't think you need friends, that's fine; I'm not against it. However, when it comes time to celebrate your winnings, you'll have to do so on your own, and if something bad happens, you'll have to cheer yourself up on your own. Developing intimate friendships has a variety of effects on our life, including our emotional and spiritual wellbeing. They assist us in overcoming feelings of loneliness or isolation. Aren't you all blessed with wonderful friends? Thanks for reading 💙 And also kindly check out my awesome sponsors
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Life without friends is unimaginable.But yes, we must be careful about choosing friends. Friends can be everyone. But not everyone can keep friendship.
Absolutely Right, friends determine who we are and who we are going to be,. So we must be careful choosing them
If we are to be completely honest, everybody needs friends. But you have to really know the kind of people you roll with
Absolutely right
As the saying goes. No man is an Island. So we need friends it's okay to be picky that's our choice it choosing a trusted and worthy friend.
It's alright to be picky, no one said it's bad but choose the one that matches you
Friends is one of the ingredients of our memorable life. Without friends in our life is somewhat boring. But choosing our friends is defining ourselves of who we are. We should be careful in choosing friends because we don't know whose real in our winning moment.
A life without friend is a boring life and lonely life
Friends, family, your well wishers, your girlfriend, these are the people who are really important in our life they are the ones who keep on cheering us.
Absolutely right, they all are also our friends
You are right @Trofi01 but out of those all, the best one yet is having a wife that is also your best friend. Then you will win one of the biggest jackpots of life.
It is very good, to have friends with this loyalty and kindness, I hope your friendships will be forever, my dear friend. I'm one of those people who, as you say, socializing is stressful for me, and I haven't made as many friends around me...
Socializing is hard but with time you will match the flow
having friends makes our life fun and easy to talk to , things that you can't talk with your family but you can with your friends. good job
Some friends even turn to our family as time goes on
Correct. Some of the people we meet as strangers in our life tend to become more than friends and eventually family. I can tell you one of the best experiences in life is to have a best friend which you can rely on and share your things with. Good article Freedom007 , thanks for sharing it.
We can't live in this world without friends. Even Jesus before had friends. I can't take life without friends.
That's right, he also needed disciples
I need friends to understand that I am not alone. That I exist, that I am accepted for who I am, with all my pluses and minuses.
That's the true meaning of friendship
You shouldn't be afraid or hesitate or uptight about making new friends . Trying going out and mingle with other young people like yourself and join their conversation. Trust me, you would be surprised at the number of people that are eager to be friends with you . ☺. By the way, I'm knew in this forum. Can I be your friend plsssss?
You're absolutely right, nice to meet you
Well we need friends at every point in our life's, some friends come to stay while some are just there for a while. My only fear of friendship is loosing them so sometimes I don't like getting too attached so I doesn't hurt. I also find it hard to make friends too but doesn't mean I don't have friends.