Little things that turn a good person into a monster
Name: omojuwa freedom
Date: Friday February 18
You're actually wondering how people turn into monsters right??? 😂😂. The monster you're actually thinking of is not what I actually meant, the monster in this article is actually a behavior that we tend to express sometimes mostly when we are angry or frustrated from what's happening around us.
The monster can actually be acknowledge as anger. So basically the topic means some little things that makes a good person get angry easily. Sometimes it grow up to become part of us and sometimes we are able to control that aspect of monster in us. In conclusion the topic is the little things that leads to unleashing the beast or monster in us.
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The list includes;
1. SLEEP DEPRIVATION
A day without having enough sleep can be a torture the next day in class or at individual work place because you couldn't recover the lost energy for the previous day and due to this reason any small issue can trigger out the monster in you just because you're stressed out meanwhile you're naturally not that kind of person.
If such occurrence keeps on repeating itself each day, it will get to a point that we become naturally bound with such behavior because we are now used to it and fortunately some get away with it once they start getting enough rest.
The obvious causes of sleep deprivations are stress, nightmares, illness, medical conditions and sometimes it's a lifestyle based on the work we get attached to or being obliged to us.
2. LACK OF ANY SORT OF AFFECTION.
Affection can be in form of friendship or parental love or the romantic type and when people start feeling they are always left alone and never carried along and their beast are usually at the brink of being unleashed and when anything that can trigger their anger is been done to them, the beast is unleashed easily.
Affections or love is among the basic needs of a man and when they don't experience this, it will obviously affect them mentally especially when they do experience affections from their partners before but due to some issues they lost such affections and this triggers the beast inside them.
3. DEVASTATING HEARTBREAK
After experiencing heartbreak, you can see a cool, happy and awesome person turning into miserable and angry type because it's not easy to pull yourself out of that emotional pain and because of this they regard such gender as problem and never want to have anything to do with relationship again.
People tend to have this monster like behavior after experiencing heartbreak from their partners and Because of that they don't trust anyone other person when it comes to relationship because the one they really trusted last time really broke their heart through cheating or lying to them.
From what they experience it becomes very hard to get into another relationship because they don't want to be hurt again and it takes time for them to heal up, some might be lucky that when they try a new relationship they eventually find the right partner but for some they get hurt once again.
4. DRUGS
Being addicted to drugs affects your relationship around everyone close to you and whenever people are around you they tend to be careful because the monster in you can be triggered at anytime due to the influence of drugs.
A short story
I have lost a lot of friends because they got into drugs, friends that do come around each day just to prepare to go do soccer field together are now into drugs and Because of that we stopped being friends. They were cool to be around and they are the funny type but now when I see them I barely recognize their faces and all the help I can offer was all in vain because they are not ready to give in. I really miss those days we were all together as friends.
The crazy part is that you won't be aware that you're losing friends and when you aware of that you still don't care because of the love you have for drugs meanwhile it's damaging your health as each days goes by.
Being addicted to drugs is never easy to recover from, they best solution I can give is to seek medical and psychological help, try to be around friends that don't do drugs and try to be productive each day because an idle man is a devil's workshop.
5. ALCOHOL
Being intoxicated by drugs will definitely unleash the real beast in you and you show your real self when you're drunk. When you're drunk and you're in the midst of friends you will definitely pour out the words and whatever secret you had been keeping because you don't want to hurt anyone but when you're under the influence of alcohol you will definitely do it because you're not in control of yourself at that moment.
6. MONEY
Having money and lack of money unleash different beast in us. lack of money makes us do what we can't do on a normal day and because of that hunger for Money we find ourselves in situations that's not ideal to be in and as time goes on we find ourselves in more problems because of what we partake in because of lack of money.
Basically what triggers the monster in us are lack of basic needs like sleep, shelter, affections, financial stability, lack of food, they all leads to what can unveil the monster in us.
Thanks for reading 🤗
It's not bad actually to be angry to someone especially if you're in the right track. What makes as monster is that how we dispose bad words that could hurt anyone. Yes, all those what you have enumerated can really be a cause of anger. Better avoid doing those things. God bless