What are the advantages and disadvantages of same age relationships?

When love is between a boy and a girl of the same age, it is called same age relationship or a peer relationship. Many have termed this relationship as one of the best relationships ever. But most relationships stop midway, maybe a handful of relationships last until marriage.

Because as there is sweetness in this relationship, there are also more hurdles compared to other relationships. When you fall in love or in a relationship with someone your age, you will be told different things by different people. Because according to many people this relationship has no future.

Usually these relationships are more common among teenagers. Here boys and girls are studying in school or college. And a girl becomes a burden to the family when she crosses the age of 18-20 years. The family begged her to marry him. On the other hand, a boy cannot pass college at the age of 18-20. The boy has no ability to manage his family. And surely a parent would not marry off his daughter to an unemployed son with an uncertain future.

Again, it takes 26-30 years for a boy to walk in our country. Whereas many families do not like to see girls single at this age. So most of the time the girl gets married. As such, while giving importance to the family, the painful end of the relationship has to be brought to the reality.

Let's see what the disadvantages of peer relationship can be:-

1. Uncertain future.

2. There is turmoil between the two families.

3. Fear of losing each other.

4. Hearing a thousand bad words from the family.

5. Failure to make sound decisions.

6. Moving from minor insults to separation.

7. suffer from imbalance.

8. Suffers from lack of support from family.

9. One does not hesitate to commit suicide if one does not find the other.

10. Ignorant of reality.

11. Peer-to-peer love often leads to a gradual loss of respect and dignity. That is reason enough to break the relationship.

This peer relationship is more fulfilling if it takes place in the workplace. Because then boys and girls have enough knowledge about their own good and bad. They become marriageable. Then the boy can afford to run the family. That is why the girl's family does not even think of handing over their daughter to the boy. There is no fear of losing anyone.

In our society, most of the peer relationships turn against the family, but sometimes love wins, reality loses. Because as I said earlier there is sweetness in peer relationships.

Let's see what are the advantages of peer relationship...

1. Understanding among themselves is good. Peers understand each other easily.

2. The turn of honor and shame does not last long.

3. Peers do not feel shame in admitting guilt. They understand that admitting guilt reduces anger and increases love.

4. They have less love, more friendship. Consequently they are not afraid to take risks.

5. Less demanding than each other. When other couples consider their needs differently; Couples of the same age share the same needs, hopes and dreams.

6. Less prone to suspicion among peers.

7. Dependence and mutual cooperation are high.

Many people say that this relationship is two days old. It will be nice for two days, you will talk, you will be emotional for a few days. Then everything will lose to reality. Basically, love is based on trust, confidence, dependence and mutual cooperation. Not by emotion or doubt. So, before getting into a relationship, it is not age or career, but how trustworthy, sincere, and trustworthy the person is. According to me, it is the right decision not to ruin the relationship in the middle by listening to other people's words. However, the future of peer relationships is indeed uncertain. If the future is balanced between two people, everything is possible.

★May the love of all ages come to perfection.★