What are we looking for in a Perfect Love?

What are we looking for in a Perfect Love?

We always draw certain criteria while imagining.

We are looking for a partner according to our wishes. Is this true?

Why should it be as we want it to be different so that they can complement each other. Let that be your missing piece.

Should personality come first in love or behavior?

Look, I would like to present you a piece of our lives. In a friendly environment, your dear friends want to introduce you to someone. You are already in an empty period as a heart, you want to evaluate alternatives. You put on the most beautiful clothes, don the most special swords, and put your magnificent knowledge on your back and enter the environment with the slogan of maximum sociability.

The man, who tells his friends about the football players of his team, will be surprised to see the girl who listens to this conversation. Because it is difficult to find a girl who likes football or participates in this conversation. In fact, he gets even more excited when he hears that he has bought a ticket to next week's all star in basketball.

The background music is jazz, West End Blues by Louis Armstrong. They discover that this music has common tastes, they agree that men can watch romantic movies in the cinema, and it turns out that they even stayed at the same hotel during the world cups they went to last year.

Pasta is the favorite food of both of them. Extending their breakfast until the evening, even sitting at the table until the next day, talking and talking is their favorite holiday mode. When they get home they think how nice it was. The result is phone exchange. And she can't stand it and calls a man in the evening and promises to have dinner the next day.

How much they have in common. The guy who puts a + on the score line because he performed an unexpected performance from the girls, is aware that he has the same score. As days chase days, an urge to enjoy arises. Girl likes boy and boy likes girl, but what does he like?

A few attitudes, a few actions. However, it is thought that by attributing the liking to the whole person, he gets electricity from him and that he can start the relationship and the continuation will be very nice. He fell in love with her, his body, his mind, his dhikr, everything...

Gradually, as the days pass, the likes and wishes that emerge begin to differ, the range of attitudes and behaviors begins to expand, and even the feelings begin to express themselves. For some reason, after this time, behaviors that are not similar to each other and even diametrically opposite to each other are observed.

Although people like to generalize positive situations, they love to generalize negative situations. Now, both boys and girls can express the truth, there is no hesitation, there is no need for admiration, everyone should look at the wave, maybe it was used for exactly this situation in slang.

But isn't it unfair? This is done to one's self and personality. Now it is said that the person I like and like has changed, it is not said that I did not know him or that I made a quick decision. In fact, nothing has changed in the person, only different aspects have been revealed or removed.

This time, the man said that he liked white socks rather than dark colored socks, he stated that buying gifts on special occasions was a commercial concern, he said that he did not like to talk much. Is this individual the same as the other? It's actually the same person. What is the problem then?

The problem is that the couples do not know that each of them is different,

The problem is that they make a sudden decision,

The problem is that they give up immediately in the face of negativities and spend the relationship quickly and

The problem is that they don't talk.

Having a relationship is easy. Finding the relationship you want is difficult. A perfect relationship, if it's 100% similar to each other in every way and always getting what you want, don't miss it.

But nowadays, it's not 100%, it's 50%, don't let it go!!!! In our society, where the word compromising or underestimating is taken out of the lexicon, there are so many perfectionist people in life and there is no stepping back, I will have a humble advice to you before having a relationship.

Take the paper in your hand and sum up the pros and cons of the person in front of you. If the pluses are too much, don't stop and accept it into your life. If the cons are too many, who is it!!!!!

One more piece of advice for you... A perfect relationship includes both sexual, social and spiritual harmony. But don't forget the rules of this harmony that you set. Here, make sure to write down these rules before someone enters your life. Then you may not find time for questions or pen and paper.