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How women show their love according to the zodiac sign If you care about horoscopes, here is a post for you. There are a thousand and one ways to express your love, various ways of showing it, and all kinds of words to express the feeling in the heart! Of course, everyone shows their love differently. Women are more romantic and emotional than men. But it is not the same for every woman. So, let's see how women show their love according to the zodiac signs.. **Ram** For an Aries woman to love you, it means to be loved without expecting anything in return and to have an intense commitment. Aries women are independent and outspoken, passionate and full of energy. He is a generous lover and likes to show his affection by touching it often. **Bull** The Taurus woman is very playful but also loyal. Once Taurus decides to love, nothing can shake him. True, you will need to win her love slowly and steadily, but you will be blessed with strong, unyielding love. To sum it up in one word, he is a dedicated man. If you have a bull to love, you're in luck. **Twins** The Gemini woman will most likely charm and entertain you with her wit. A Gemini woman is hard to keep up with and often hides her love with sharp thorns. However, actions speak louder than words, and although he may have anger, he will also love resolutely. Don't be afraid of his sharp tongue, it means he loves you more. **Crab** Cancer women are volatile and emotional lovers. They can process their emotions well and tell you exactly what they're thinking, but you'll still have to figure out how to make it better. Gemini shows their love by sacrificing, putting their partner's needs above their own. His ideal partner will remind you that self-love is also necessary, whether it's a spa day or a little shopping trip with girlfriends. **Lion** Leo is gorgeous, like the queen cat of the jungle. It is very comfortable when placed in the center of attention. Also, like a mother tiger, she protects those she deems worthy of her love. But be careful, when he gets angry, he becomes absolutely lion-like and is unlikely to be forgotten by someone unlucky enough to be subjected to it. He calms down easily and can also be your best friend. **Virgo** Virgo is ruled by Mercury and gives a curiosity that only matches the intelligence of women born under this sign. Virgos are very romantic. When he gives you his heart, it's yours forever. They prefer to express their love with tangible things like a love letter or a neatly wrapped gift. They may also appear humble and dignified, but don't be fooled by that. They are passionate lovers and will gladly accept it if given a chance to stop being so serious. **Scales** Libra women are very playful and have an incredible sense of humor despite having a dark side. These ladies are unlikely to have a regular relationship, even if it ends happily ever after. Libras tend to take everything lightly, but if you can build mutual trust, they will show you their true self. **Scorpion** Scorpio women are known for their lovemaking skills, but they don't like ordinary things. They want to share their little fun with the perfect partner. This is how they approach many aspects of life. When it comes to school or work, just like in a relationship, a woman born under the sign of Scorpio will never settle for second best. However, once she's made her choice, she rests forever. She likes to keep the fire alive by adding romance to everyday activities. **Arrow** A Sagittarius woman is one of those who love to roam free. They carry this with all their might into their love life. She is ready for just about anything and they love to show their love with little words or phrases. Make him feel special and enchant him by planning little adventures for him. **Goat** Women born under the sign of Capricorn are often unlucky in love. It's not their fault, they just tend to be a little picky. Capricorns are likely to expect the best. They have harsh humor. They make sure a partner's needs are met, but it's a little difficult to hear nice words out of their mouths. If they say they love you, they're serious. To make him happy, just be sure to tell him you love him. **Aquarius** An Aquarius woman often appears detached from what's going on around her. They appear calm, unaffected by romance. They are very passionate but a little cowardly about hugging their hearts. You will need to persuade him to come out of his shell, **The fish** Women born under the sign of Pisces are very mysterious and distant at times. But they are not distant at all when it comes to love! He tends to fall in love with the wrong person and often makes well-intentioned, romantic proposals, even if they are not received that way. The Pisces woman is also the one who won't get attached to anyone unless it's all or nothing. So, don't expect to have a happy relationship with a Pisces woman unless you are willing to invite her into every aspect of your life.but once revealed, he will be a passionate person.

@Fluwon

Mask Recommendation for Hair Loss We women have many problems such as skin problems, acne, spots. The thing that affects women most negatively is hair loss. Hair loss is common in women. In addition to the cosmetic problem it causes, it can also cause psychological problems such as depression and loss of self-confidence. According to studies, 100-150 hair loss per day is considered normal. There are multiple potential triggers for hair loss problem. This can make it difficult to understand the causes of hair loss and then to determine the appropriate treatment method. Hair loss problem is one of the important clinical problems caused by various reasons in both men and women. Especially in women, the problem of hair loss may increase from time to time with the effect of physiological changes in hormone levels over time. In this sense, having correct and sufficient information about hair loss is very valuable in terms of solving the problem. Hormones Stress Iron Deficiency Hypothyroidism and Hyperthyroidism Vitamin B12 deficiency Dramatic weight loss Menopause or genetic factors May be causes of shedding. Of course, first of all, if you are experiencing such a problem, you should consult a specialist doctor. Another method that is said to be good for hair loss is yeast mask. You only need two ingredients for a home hair care mask: water and dry yeast! Yes, that's all. Yeast helps to reduce hair loss with its protein and B vitamins. Mix two tablespoons of dry yeast and one tablespoon of water in a bowl. Massage into the scalp. Then wrap it with cling film. Leave for an hour and rinse. You can adjust the amount of yeast and water according to the length of your hair. Dry yeast, which you can buy from the market at an affordable price, has rich vitamin, mineral and protein content. When you use it as a mask, it reaches the roots of the hair and nourishes it. In this way, it improves hair quality and health. After keeping the mask on your hair for an hour, you need to rinse it off with warm water. If you use very hot or very cold water, the yeast will not be removed from your hair. Therefore, always choose lukewarm water. Yeast can make your hair a little stiff. For this, you can use oils that are beneficial for hair loss and moisturize. In fact, this effect varies from person to person. But in general observations, it was noticed that hair loss decreased after the second or third use. Please don't just make a mask once and then never mind. This job requires patience and discipline. Keep applying the mask recipe for hair loss twice a week. Many factors such as vitamin and mineral deficiency, use of poor quality shampoo, diseases of the scalp, hormone imbalance, breastfeeding period can cause hair loss. For this, first consult your dermatologist and explain your complaint. If he deems it necessary, he will direct you for a blood test. Remember: care from the inside is as important as the care from the outside against hair loss. Therefore, take care to consume foods that are beneficial for hair loss. You can add foods such as walnuts, almonds, avocados, chickpeas, fish, yogurt, carrots, ginger to your daily diet. In addition, drinking plain or detox water throughout the day is beneficial for hair loss. Because it allows you to get oxygen.

@Fluwon

What Makes a Person Attractive is Changeable Tastes and colors are indisputable, what a true word. Beautiful Ugly, handsome sympathetic can change for everyone. A woman's attractiveness may not be the same for every man. Get out of the classical perception and become aware of yourself. Being sexy isn't just about impressing people with your appearance. Your attitudes, speeches and actions are the most important factors that determine your sexuality. Many of us want to be in a romantic relationship for different reasons. That's why we're looking for a "suitable" partner. From an evolutionary point of view, reproduction and continuation of the species is a common human need, and this need can only be realized in the presence of a partner. Since we want to continue our lineage in a healthier, stronger and more durable way, we are influenced by people we believe have these characteristics and we try to choose them. But what do we really mean when we say “suitable for ourselves”? There is an attraction that makes people be attracted and attracted to each other: That is what is called sexuality. The energy that emerges with the combination of your spiritual and physical characteristics and enables you to influence the other person is the very essence of sexuality. For example; such as your facial features, body features, behavior, gaze, lips, smell, etc. With the effect of these, there are biochemicals secreted in the person in front of you. So it affects you. “Beautiful is good.” As individuals living in societies with a saying such as, we can observe how easily being attractive can open some doors. Thinking that someone attractive is automatically extroverted, self-confident and energetic can be counted among the positive prejudices we have. However, being attractive can be associated with a longer and healthier socioeconomic life, starting with a higher tip. While thinness is presented as attractive on female models, more curvy body lines are considered attractive when asked to men. When we look at it universally, among the genetic traits considered "attractive" for women, big eyes, a small nose and chin, high eyebrows and a warm smile come to the fore. For men, this issue is a little more complicated; While it is considered attractive to have a bony face structure, wide chin and sharp eyes, they are expected to have a baby face and a distinctive smile at the same time. Having a symmetrical face and body is considered attractive for both sexes. The fact that we examine the person in front of us in all details without being aware of it, as we said at the beginning, also stems from our search for evolutionarily healthy genes. We tend to think that people with these physical characteristics have beautiful and healthy genes. In addition, factors such as intelligence, warmth and reliability are among the characteristics that make a person attractive for a long-term romantic relationship. People of both sexes who are kind, understanding, and intelligent begin to be more attractive to the other person. The fact that a person has a high IQ level can come across as an interesting characteristic. The interesting thing is that people who find intelligent partners attractive do not find the intelligence itself attractive, but rather what their partner can achieve as an intelligent person. An example of this is when a smart person has a better job, more money, more interesting topics to chat with. In addition, the fact that the partner chosen for a romantic relationship is honest, does not keep secrets and is someone we trust makes it more attractive to the other party.

@Fluwon

Emotional Differences Between Men and Women The differences between men and women are always obvious. Although there is equality in terms of rights, emotional and physical differences are undeniable. Women's experience of love is not the same as men's experience of love.   When women fall in love with butterflies in their stomachs, what do men feel?   Personality, perception and behavior differences between men and women are one of the most talked and written topics. While the physical differences between the two sexes are obvious, psychological differences are much more complex and controversial. Are these innate biological differences or are they socially and culturally shaped by society?   Men and women are so different in structure that they seem to come from different planets. This claim has made people laugh and angry for a long time.   Logic or emotions?   In studies in which personality traits were detailed, it was determined that women scored more points than men in areas such as enthusiasm, compassion, kindness, orderliness, instability, introversion, and openness to the new, while men scored higher in terms of assertiveness, hard work, and intelligence. The "women are smarter or think faster" thing was totally true, according to studies, men have more gray matter in their brains, while women have more white matter. This means that nerve signals are transmitted faster in the female brain and that women think and make decisions faster.   Logic or emotions? I think we both act with our feelings, sometimes with our logic. However, studies have revealed that under extreme stress and crisis situations, women decide according to their emotions, while men make decisions according to their logic.   The forebrain lobe and limbic cortex responsible for problem solving in women's brains are larger than men, making women more successful in problem solving, while also making them more emotional. This must be the reason why women approach every event more emotionally!   Do women like funny men?   But do women really like funny guys? While men very often use the 'being funny' weapon to impress women, women rarely try to be funny and funny, this is the main reason why men think women have no sense of humor. Women often scrutinize a man they like very secretly, even when they decide to flirt or make the first move, it can take a long time for a man to figure it out.   Are men more romantic or women? Many psychologists claim that men are visually oriented, meaning they place less emphasis on romance or personality. Although I do not agree with this, the general examination results were like this.   Women celebrate anniversaries, birthdays etc. while men are more inclined to remember bill due dates, tax dates etc. I was better at remembering.   When women are sad, they tend to talk to feel good. Men prefer to remain silent. I guess that's why women talk more. In other words, at least it is said... Women used to talk more to share information. For men, speaking was just a matter of transmitting information. In this case, men are more result-oriented.   In fact, here again, the event comes to the confusion of logic and emotion between men and women. Women are emotional, men are rational. Although it is supported by scientific data, we can experience this confusion in most relationships. Sexual feelings, which are indispensable in a relationship, are also one of the strongest feelings between men and women

@Fluwon

Being a mother for a woman means giving up on herself. Have you become a woman who feels inadequate when you become a mother? Don't worry, it means you are a mother now. Why doesn't a father feel inadequate because they have a set of needs to do and they don't strive for more. Mothers forget themselves and live only for their children. A mother who slept soundly before she had a baby does not have this right after holding her baby in her arms. Her eyes open repeatedly to check her baby's breathing. Pregnancy is an important life period in which positive and negative emotions can be experienced. Even if this process evokes feelings of “happiness and joy” from the moment of receiving the news of pregnancy, many negative emotions can also be experienced: Anxiety, worry, uncertainty, guilt, inadequacy. No doubt every woman has some basic instincts about being a mother. Thanks to these, the mother naturally has the ability to handle the pregnancy process and to properly care for her offspring after birth. However, on the one hand, the excitement of bringing a child into the world, on the one hand, hormonal changes and physiological difficulties experienced during pregnancy, on the other hand, worries about the future and the "pressure to be the best" caused by modern life can undermine women's natural skills. For this reason, it is known that many women experience feelings of inadequacy that starts with pregnancy and continues throughout the first months of motherhood. This situation sometimes lasts longer and is accompanied by emotional disturbances such as “Postpartum Sadness” and “Postpartum Depression”. These disorders are seen in approximately 15% of women giving birth. The rapid decrease in estrogen, progesterone and adrenal gland hormones, which are very high towards the end of pregnancy, is one of the important causes of these problems. They usually begin towards the end of pregnancy or in the first week of puerperium and appear as a sad, distressed, tearful mood. Mom's; they experience complaints such as fatigue, lack of joy, lack of energy, reluctance, not being able to enjoy life and apathy. In addition, the situation gets worse when trying to put in the effort and effort necessary to take care of the baby. It is known that a significant portion of mothers who experience postpartum sadness or depression experience feelings of inability to care for their babies properly and depressive thoughts that their individual lives are over. How is your dialogue with yourself? “It doesn't work”, “I can't do it”, “It's not the way I want it to be”, “Will it always stay like this?”… Stop if you find yourself saying these things often while caring for your baby and handling maternity chores. You are likely to be unfair to yourself. What would you say to a friend in the same situation as you? “Anyone can do it. How would you comment to your friend who said "I guess I'm the only one who can't do it"? As a new mom, you would probably highlight to your friend, who was feeling inexperienced, what she's done so far and what she's been able to do wonderfully. That's how, be your own best friend. Criticizing yourself doesn't make you a better mother. Remind yourself that you've accomplished a lot despite your messy sleep and diet. You are doing the best you can under these circumstances, believe it.

@Fluwon

Sometimes you just keep quiet, the skin speaks Heads matched, the relationship was stepped on and you are together now. Emotionally, the feelings are alright. So, how is your skin compatibility? Skin harmony is a phrase we hear often. How to understand skin compatibility? Can couples without skin compatibility be happy? Sometimes the tongue is silent, only the body speaks. If two bodies speak the same language, there is harmony. A happy sex life includes many emotions ranging from love to affection, from affection to lust. A sex life where there is skin harmony between spouses is literally 'different'. Harmony between couples; It is formed by the combination of many factors. Physical and sexual harmony as well as spiritual harmony increase the bond between spouses. When even one of these is missing, the relationship may wear out over time, as there will be no full harmony. Skin harmony, which can only be described as sexuality for some men, is a state of interaction formed by the combination of different elements. Charm, magic, imagination, passion, giving and giving pleasure, the light of life in the eyes, isolation from life. Love is started, the entrance is made with skin harmony," he says, and adds, "Skin harmony is not a must for a relationship, but it is an important introduction to a perfect relationship." The leading role is the skin, its assistants are color, taste, smell, feel and texture. When the movie starts, your soul or inside becomes strange, you feel all your veins beating. There is a movement in your genital area, your heart beats, your lips are dry and words play hide and seek with your mind, you cannot catch them. You want to touch it, you want to experience it. You want to stop time and express something by looking at it, without using words. This stage is the skin adaptation stage. It can occur before or simultaneously with sexual intercourse. Skin compatibility, which shows that there is a harmonious sexual understanding between spouses, can be defined as a desire that increases the desire to touch. Although it is understood only as sexual compatibility, it is actually formed by the combination of different factors. In other words, while sexual harmony is a result here, feelings such as attraction, imagination, passion, taking pleasure and getting away from life are the most important prerequisites for sexual harmony. Substances that secrete various substances in the body and enable us to live a healthy and happy life are called "hormones". The discovery of "Pheromone", one of the hormones secreted by our body, explains the relationship between skin harmony and sexuality. This substance, which controls love, is taken through the air and transmitted to the brain, during which a skin communication takes place. The pheromone, which is described as the "Scent of Love", can even affect the way people behave. For example, the pheromones that women emit during ovulation are more attractive to men than at other times. There are other details that show that you have skin compatibility. If you and your spouse have skin compatibility, you don't need to make an effort to warn each other; you stand, your skin speaks. When you touch, smell, taste, you are isolated from life, you travel on the clouds, and you experience an incredible sense of happiness. You can't understand where your mind is going, you just live. You kiss it, inhaling its scent, you never get tired of doing it. Even when holding hands, you make love, do not judge each other, on the contrary, you understand with your soul. Not being able to sleep in bed without each other is another indicator of skin harmony… These dream-like sentences may seem unrealistic to someone who has not experienced skin harmony. Those who know have a pleasant smile on their lips.

@Fluwon

Happy woman Happy family Women are the foundation of the family. A happy woman means a happy home. If the mother is happy, she will raise happy children. If the woman is happy, she is the joy of her home. make you feel valued 'Every woman is valuable', but it is not enough to express this, you have to prove this thought with your actions. In fact, making women happy is not as difficult as it seems, and it is not difficult to buy expensive gifts as many people think. Women are fed with love and attention. Every man who is aware of this knows very well how to make a woman happy with the gifts he receives and his behavior. Making a woman happy means your happiness too. Because if a woman is happy, she makes the other person happier than herself. The value, interest, trust, loyalty you give to women is like this in every subject. We ask many people we meet during the day, how are you, but unfortunately, most of them are routine questions like they are automatic. Ask her how she really is, how she feels, by looking her in the eye and asking sincerely. Let her share with you what she does during the day. Listen carefully to her. One-tenth of the attention shown during the dating period is not shown after marriage. In this case, the woman is colder than the man. The pleasure of love is lost. Always make women feel that you are interested in them. Respect her choices and include her in your plans. Do not miss important days and buy gifts for her on these days. Make her feel that you think of her, that you value her, that she has a very special place in your life. Women like men who take care of them. Their unhappiness is usually due to the fact that their men do not take care of them. Just as a flower needs water, don't forget that a woman needs love in order to live. Taking care of a woman is not texting her every minute, saying where are you every 5 minutes and questioning her. To care about her ideas, to respect her choices, to look for opportunities to spend time with her, to ask her about her condition and well-being, to deal with her troubles, to question and solve the reason if she is upset means to take care of the woman. Measure your words, actions, actions, and attitudes. Put yourself in the other person's shoes and try to understand them. When you have a problem, do not ignore the wishes and desires of the other party. Try to look at things from her perspective. Do not live life selfishly by always saying that you will do what I say. Respect the other party's feelings, thoughts and choices. Do not pressure the other party. Do not accept it as it is and try to change it. Know how to apologize when you're wrong. Trust is an emotion that should be at the foundation of every relationship. Once trust is broken, it is not easily regained. This is a very important issue that goes without saying. In the face of the endless trust and loyalty between the two parties in a relationship, a woman's unhappiness is out of question. Loyalty is the most important thing for a woman. So avoid trust-shattering actions and always try to be honest. Honesty will ultimately win you over.

@Fluwon

What are we looking for in a Perfect Love? What are we looking for in a Perfect Love? We always draw certain criteria while imagining. We are looking for a partner according to our wishes. Is this true? Why should it be as we want it to be different so that they can complement each other. Let that be your missing piece.   Should personality come first in love or behavior? Look, I would like to present you a piece of our lives. In a friendly environment, your dear friends want to introduce you to someone. You are already in an empty period as a heart, you want to evaluate alternatives. You put on the most beautiful clothes, don the most special swords, and put your magnificent knowledge on your back and enter the environment with the slogan of maximum sociability.   The man, who tells his friends about the football players of his team, will be surprised to see the girl who listens to this conversation. Because it is difficult to find a girl who likes football or participates in this conversation. In fact, he gets even more excited when he hears that he has bought a ticket to next week's all star in basketball. The background music is jazz, West End Blues by Louis Armstrong. They discover that this music has common tastes, they agree that men can watch romantic movies in the cinema, and it turns out that they even stayed at the same hotel during the world cups they went to last year. Pasta is the favorite food of both of them. Extending their breakfast until the evening, even sitting at the table until the next day, talking and talking is their favorite holiday mode. When they get home they think how nice it was. The result is phone exchange. And she can't stand it and calls a man in the evening and promises to have dinner the next day. How much they have in common. The guy who puts a + on the score line because he performed an unexpected performance from the girls, is aware that he has the same score. As days chase days, an urge to enjoy arises. Girl likes boy and boy likes girl, but what does he like? A few attitudes, a few actions. However, it is thought that by attributing the liking to the whole person, he gets electricity from him and that he can start the relationship and the continuation will be very nice. He fell in love with her, his body, his mind, his dhikr, everything...   Gradually, as the days pass, the likes and wishes that emerge begin to differ, the range of attitudes and behaviors begins to expand, and even the feelings begin to express themselves. For some reason, after this time, behaviors that are not similar to each other and even diametrically opposite to each other are observed. Although people like to generalize positive situations, they love to generalize negative situations. Now, both boys and girls can express the truth, there is no hesitation, there is no need for admiration, everyone should look at the wave, maybe it was used for exactly this situation in slang. But isn't it unfair? This is done to one's self and personality. Now it is said that the person I like and like has changed, it is not said that I did not know him or that I made a quick decision. In fact, nothing has changed in the person, only different aspects have been revealed or removed. This time, the man said that he liked white socks rather than dark colored socks, he stated that buying gifts on special occasions was a commercial concern, he said that he did not like to talk much. Is this individual the same as the other? It's actually the same person. What is the problem then?   The problem is that the couples do not know that each of them is different, The problem is that they make a sudden decision, The problem is that they give up immediately in the face of negativities and spend the relationship quickly and The problem is that they don't talk. Having a relationship is easy. Finding the relationship you want is difficult. A perfect relationship, if it's 100% similar to each other in every way and always getting what you want, don't miss it. But nowadays, it's not 100%, it's 50%, don't let it go!!!! In our society, where the word compromising or underestimating is taken out of the lexicon, there are so many perfectionist people in life and there is no stepping back, I will have a humble advice to you before having a relationship. Take the paper in your hand and sum up the pros and cons of the person in front of you. If the pluses are too much, don't stop and accept it into your life. If the cons are too many, who is it!!!!!   One more piece of advice for you... A perfect relationship includes both sexual, social and spiritual harmony. But don't forget the rules of this harmony that you set. Here, make sure to write down these rules before someone enters your life. Then you may not find time for questions or pen and paper.

@Fluwon

Does age difference matter in relationships? The first question asked to people who have a girlfriend around us is their age. **Why is this a matter of age?** According to most young women, the first criterion is a man who is at least two years older than her. In middle-aged women, this varies, and she wants men a little younger than herself. Although younger women are ideal for young men. Buddha may vary. What strange generalizations, aren't they? However, from the point of view of the basic dynamics of a relationship or marriage, it does not concern anyone other than the two people who are the subject of the union and their families, depending on their social characteristics. So is it like that in life? Of course not. Even those who describe themselves as the most "modern" think that money is the basis of the relationship when they see an older man next to a young and beautiful woman. Or we find it very difficult to believe that a young man next to an older woman loves her. What we see may be love, even if we find it hard to believe, right? Or maybe many of the things we think of as love are far from being love.   Depending on their spiritual and physical needs, expectations and tastes, people may make choices for the opposite sex, older or younger than them, and even for their same sex if their preferences are in favor of their same sex. If we look at it from the framework of criteria and situations that everyone can understand, what makes the age difference attractive?    It is said that women who raise their husbands in a cradle are more intelligent when a woman looks out of her window. In fact, according to the results of a study; One out of every three women between the ages of 40-69 is with men who are 10 years or younger than them, and one out of every 8 women aged 50 prefer men in their 40s. This is the proof of the superiority of our intelligence. Although the main reason women prefer it seems to be to be strong in a relationship, the main reasons are the desired dynamism, movement, importance and sexuality.   The fact that women do not expect a guarantee about the future from younger men and that their needs are met only socially and sexually leads to such a choice, who knows. The aim is perhaps just friendship, fun and happiness. Some women resort to this path because they prefer a man who is more interested in them and can put his career in the background. They catch this in young men, too.   Why does a man prefer an older woman? Pleasant conversation, material, experience and difference in social or sexual life. Age, which is actually a subject that people don't care much about today, has fallen into the background of physical attraction. Because people don't care about biological age anymore. The age that he felt and reflected increased its importance significantly. Such relationships are the result of this view.   Let's take a look through the eyes of men. Most men in their 30s to 40s who have a good job can get away from the fast-paced private life of the past and opt for a quieter life. Another reason may be that he wants to be with a woman who is aware of his femininity or femininity. Perhaps a less common reason is that men no longer want to have children, could it be? Is there an ideal age difference in bilateral relations, which is how we examine this issue? If we looked at it in terms of logic, I could come up with a number. But the majority of partnerships develop emotionally. Emotions lack ideals, are unclear, even subjective. So I can say that there is no ideal age difference.   For both sexes, perhaps the main reason is the need for security. Because the presence of a person who is more experienced than himself in his life gives confidence to the person. The man, who does not grow as he gets older, naturally prefers a young partner because he avoids the woman who becomes a mother as he grows up. The mother, on the other hand, is looking for a young man to take care of and raise.    Being with a girl that men can dominate, managing and holding the flag can be considered as another reason. Regardless of the outcome, if it's love, affection, liking, age is always secondary. The important thing is to have a good time, to be happy, to enjoy life without making the floor slippery. Sometimes, chasing feelings and trying not to lose the moment, without caring what anyone says, is more important than anything else, remember!

@Fluwon

The time I spent with you is priceless Now I want to keep quiet and shout out what I've accumulated until now. The lands swept away by the storm that blows inside me while I am experiencing these pains. I'm silent again, in fact, the words have come together and are pouring out of my pen. She says she can't take it anymore... So write it down, pour it out and tell everyone.. And to that man “‘The time I spent with you is priceless. And our wrongs confirmed in each other. In the middle of the movie, even the feeling of starting from scratch in life, 'that's it!' I don't have a recipe. I say that; I can only kill you inside of me, I am complete with you alone. I want Nazım to pass over to you, to break my heart with you, to wash my heart with you, and to let your timid peace dove eyes fly towards me. Come forgive us and the love that feeds on impossibility. Let's stand together. I love brazenly. I know that eternity is no more endless than without you. I can't fit in, I can't dream a new dream. I cannot sit at a table with enthusiasm, I cannot see the brightness of the sun through the gray curtain that descends on me. Everything is okay if you are, I am a whole person with you. I know if you didn't love me, I wouldn't have found a face to rub it on your face. Continue to love from where you left off. Neither I went that day, nor the love ended that day. Doesn't life sometimes give such distasteful opportunities to appreciate? Let's face it, we learned our lesson. I am glad that you were born to be eternal in me... I am glad that I have hope to live without you. You know what I think is what makes us 'us'? Closing the distance between us when we thought it had opened. When one of us takes a step back, sometimes with anger, sometimes with resentment, sometimes right, sometimes wrong; the other of us taking at least two steps forward. In order not to lose it... In the grip of the years spent together, under the magic of countless memories and indescribable moments... You took one step back now, wherever you look, I'll come to you three steps, to close our distance. The love that I count as a chance to own it. I have no pride. I don't have an account book. I'm just walking in the space between us. We deserve a happier road together, we took our lessons and put our pockets for travel. Would you walk life with me again... It's hard to give up.' I was going to tell you this. If I could control my writhing brain, I would say 'stay with me, be mine, love me, take my love'. I couldn't say. Sometimes people don't want to live. There is no recipe for it, and there is no justification for it. If I could turn back time, I'm sure I would love to live. But at that moment I didn't want to. Yes, one does not want to live for a moment. A moment determines life. Even when abandoning a person, one thinks more than one thinks when abandoning oneself. I didn't think I would want to live. You could have thought, but you didn't. I'm sorry that I can't say goodbye, but I realized that those who say goodbye don't say goodbye either, unless they forget the ones left behind. Remember me. Live on, but don't forget me, don't forget that I love you. Remember that you once loved me. Love others too, one should not stop loving, but do not forget me. Don't be mad at me. At that moment, I did not want to live. I would love to have it right now. You know what was the first thing I thought of when you left me? The day we make peace, we will cry and make love. Maybe if I didn't go we would have made love, I couldn't wait. You didn't come when I could have waited. Maybe it was a time shift and we just didn't get along. Remember me. Do not forget that you are loved as if you are breathless, that you make love while crying. Don't forget our possibilities. Also, I like tulips the most, don't forget that.

@Fluwon

Being a woman.. Despite everything I loved being a woman the most. As I loved, butterflies of happiness flew inside me. The more I loved, the more seeds of love spread in my heart. The more I loved, the more I saw that my love became a medicine for others. But neither being a woman was enough, nor loving too much. No matter how much I love it, but they were all a little helpless. There has been a lot of writing, but we could not alleviate this pain. Our identity, which we are proud of and consider as the subject of the glorious history of being human, was a pink cloud before the rain. And she cried a lot of time. She cried a lot, a lot. As we tried to explain, as we got closer to being intelligible, someone forgot our language. A lot has happened thanks to us, but none of them have been easy.   We believed in what we could achieve first and sometimes only us. However, we had an acquaintance with all of you, which was kept apart from the majesty of men and somehow alienated from that blessed moment of birth. But we were breasts and hips and some meat. A little spectacle and eye-catching. A soul dump where some percussion, some hurt, and misplaced anger can be emptied. Of course, only in your eyes. We always believed that we were not like that. Even when we are silent, silenced and intimidated.  We were never on the labels you put on us, and we never understood the labeling of a person. We take advantage of our helplessness, our stuckness and sometimes our sleep; you made us believe who you think we are, no lie. But deep down, people always know who they are and most of all, who they are not. You did everything necessary for us to be ashamed of being a woman, and the sad thing is that they were not necessary. No one should be ashamed of being who they are. For example, if it doesn't harm another life, if it doesn't push or marginalize another person, if it doesn't despise or torture another person. Who do you think should be ashamed? I know that it is not us.. Bullying has become the fate of our pink identity in this geography. You have created enemies from neighbors, relatives, families. And sometimes you even made enemies among us. We were unarmed. But that shouldn't mean we wouldn't resist. Femininity itself is a resistance in the world now and yes you asked for it.  So many words, so many sentences… Again, a bitter fate, an unjust attack, a struggle for rights that we can only tell to those who want to understand… A women's story, the independent but similar story of millions of women… We really didn't deserve what happened. Even if you are equipped to convince people to the contrary, times are changing as all your traditional and outdated patterns are considered weapons. We will change time, time belongs to everyone. And this age will make women smile. We will resist!

@Fluwon

I liked you.. How do you feel about love? How do you manage to give peace to people and turn their life into a dungeon at the same time? I love madly, but it hurts.  I loved you. Because you were the one who took the lead among the remedies for my loneliness, and I am someone who loves your wounds differently.   I know, it is possible to fit hatred into a love. I know that mountains of anger may surround your head, when that poplar wind blows. I know I could kill you if I wanted to. But not being able to stop… Do you know what it is to not be able to stop? I can't stand rainy weather when I think of being on the street. If the song you love is blown from the city wall, I will stop and listen in awe, it doesn't matter if it's heaven or hell, I'll stay close to you in the apocalypse. Let the passion and hatred find a new shelter for you when you are alive like this.   It's the number one time you put your head on my shoulder. The smell hanging in my nose is out of my longing. But if they ask me, the oldest temple in the world is your eyes. Have they ever seen your eyes, as I see them? What if anyone became invisible to a god as I am invisible? The gods love their servants even when they are testing them. The gods do not get offended, the gods reconcile with a sincere prayer. Can't you be a god too, if I were a weak servant?   It's the day my mom gave birth to me. They think I don't know, but I know what the world is like. If I learn to walk, I'll run to you, I'm sure. If I learn to speak, even 3 letters is enough for now, I will tell you your name, but no one knows. Doesn't man know for whom he came into the world? I will suffer on the way I will come to you, victories and even defeats. I will go through meaningless wars and peaces. There will even be lovers that I kiss, but in all of them I will rehearse you. Do you know what it means to be born into a love?   I thought I loved everyone I loved. I stand before you as someone who has lied many times. And I confess to you; I just loved everyone as if using the verb 'to love' in a sentence in Turkish class. He said but did not hear, said but did not know, said but did not feel. Honesty walked when I loved you, to the spelling of my heart. I love you even if you divide me into my elements, you are the explanation of my existence. You are my mother tongue. And everyone should know at least one love poem in their mother tongue. What if you read me once? Memorize me, even if you want to forget me, you can't forget... Let me be a poem to you, a poem to me.   I thought you'd like to know why I love you. Between finding no reason to love you and knowing that even the shape of the clouds is yours, for the sake of every cool morning you walked barefoot in the rooms of my mind and every magical night filled with moonlight, I loved you like a wound. I have loved my scars since childhood. Ever since my childhood, when my father only knew how to love while asleep, and my mother hugged me in fear because she could not learn to cry for joy when she lost it and found it… I love love with capital letters.

@Fluwon

Love love love.. Love is an inevitable fact since the existence of man. A sweet scourge for some. Sometimes you fall madly in love at first sight. Sometimes there are loves that do not end even after years. Sometimes love is just until you get your partner. Sometimes it leads to marriage. Sometimes love trips on that road.   Many changes, both physical and emotional, are observed in the person who falls in love with someone. The person who is in love loses their appetite and begins to sleep much less. Because he only thinks about the person he is in love with, he becomes distracted and has difficulty focusing on anything. He has difficulty even doing his routine work during the day.   When a person sees the person they love, their heart starts to beat faster. He gets excited talking to her. If the person is in unrequited or platonic love, then they may show signs of depression. He completely withdraws and isolates himself from society. On the other hand, people who receive their love in return experience sudden emotional outbursts and an exuberant mood.   The sweetest part of a relationship, the dating period, is full of unnamed but peaked emotions. Unspeakable jealousies, eagerly molded concealments, unquenchable desire to embrace…   This period, in which the desire to be loved and admired is at its highest, is generally the period of expressing oneself differently than it is and acting in accordance with the ideals of the other person. This is a behavior that often develops involuntarily and that individuals can even convince themselves of their way of expressing themselves over time. It is a common trend to become a prince or princess in dating.   Relax so you are not alone… Everything is permissible to achieve!!! period :) But it is possible to act without noticing for a while, of course, it doesn't take long. The person eventually becomes himself, and then the disappointments begin. The duration of this is certain... Huge 6 months Huge? Suspicious…   In other words, when the influencing process, that is, the period when the passion begins to loosen, is over, you have come to the end of acting as expected and you have returned to your essence... You don't need to be perfect to experience movie-like loves “Perfect man and perfect woman! I'm sure you wouldn't even wait that long for the famous Godot, who didn't come. Who knows, maybe you should like imperfections too. **Isn't love a little bit of loving even your flaws?** Like individuals, loves are also diverse, their characters and feelings are diverse, and their sexual exchanges are diverse. While this is the case, there are no standard norms for men and women to be exactly as the other person wants and to be perfect. You have to realize this.   I say everyone should live for themselves and ultimately everyone should live their own movie... It is very important not to be late in returning to reality after the usual dating period of the relationship and to establish solid foundations by getting to know each other correctly.   It is absolutely necessary that you tell him about yourself, that you often share in common, that you blend your different tastes and experiences, and that you make it a habit to create individual times for yourself.