Shortly after a love marriage, an unpleasant and utter truth is heard from the mouth of a husband or wife: 'You don't love me like before.
Hundreds of sorrows, hardships, anger, arrogance come and get stuck in this one word. Even after a long relationship, only a few days after the marriage, the family gets divorced based on this one word.
But after marriage, why is there no love like before?
After marriage, love is shared. When you were in a relationship, your love was centered only on the person you loved. But after marriage, the love is shared between the children, the mother-in-law and others. So maybe the share of love for the loved one falls a little less than before.
After marriage, the responsibilities of both husband and wife increase. Boys 'jobs, girls' responsibilities in the family are often not as much love as before.
While in a relationship, there was plenty of time to give time to the loved one. But after marriage, there are so many responsibilities, There is not much time available in the busy crowd. That is why there is no love like before.
While in a relationship, the goal of a boy and a girl is to take the relationship to marriage. Once married, the goal is achieved. Man loses interest in the goal that is fulfilled due to his natural instincts.
While in a relationship, many people may say to make their loved one happy - I will bring you the moon of the sky, I will keep you like a queen after marriage. This creates a world of concern among girls about family. But after marriage, when they have to deal with family problems, they panic. Even for a very trivial reason, love decreases a little after marriage.
Many girls can't adapt to the new environment of the in-laws' house after marriage. It takes time for them. As long as the girl can't adapt to that environment, she can't be normal with anyone. Even then, there is a little lack of love like before.
After marriage, when they go to live together, they get a chance to see each other's habits, big and small. They have to adapt to each other's habits. They have to understand each other.
Sacrifice has to be done. Otherwise there is heartache. Because of not being able to adapt, many times the love becomes light.
In many cases, there is a conflict between the wife and the mother-in-law or someone else in the family. This causes quarrels and unrest in the family. The result is mental turmoil.
There is no way to love a loved one like before with mental turmoil.
After marriage, more or less money is needed to run the family. Both husband and wife have to think about money. The tension of money is much higher between the sons who get married from unemployed. The love is not the same as before due to being in tension for a long time.
If you have children after marriage, you have to think about their future. Then the husband and wife pay a lot of attention to the children, to their future.
One day or two, one year or two, It feels boring to live with a loved one for five years. You have to lose interest. Then love is not the same as before, but you have to sign a divorce letter as a solution.
For all these reasons, after marriage without knowing it, there is no love like before.
Give your loved one time in the midst of hundreds of activities to keep the love intact after marriage, take him for a walk, take him out to eat, share happiness and sorrow, blow a plate when he comes back from the office; bring ice cream and surprise him, buy two roses just like before Say - love, love, love.
There are also couples whose love is a hundred responsibilities, in the midst of busyness does not decrease a little, but increases. Thousands of respect for their love.
Thank you for reading.
when there is no more love-respect remains-