A refined state of love in both mind and body generates a soothing effect in the body and mind. This soothing effect counters stress-induced changes in the body and mind. These changes are known to cause or worsen problems such as hypertension, anxiety, depression, nervousness, irritability, fatigue, lack of motivation, insomnia, drug abuse, and other health problems. Living in a family with love is great because you can share and understand each other with less stress and less effort. You can live with peace of mind. Moreover, when you live in a family with love, a great mutual support network will be built up which helps both you and your family to improve your life quality. You will be happy and healthy. If we live in a society with love, then it will be a stable, peaceful environment where everyone will get help from everyone.
Love is the engine that powers all relationships. But many of us are caught in a relationship with sex where we keep finding ourselves in the same situation, time and again.
Time and again we find ourselves in a spiral of unfulfilling relationships with sex. And one of the most predominant reasons why our relationships with sex have turned into a cycle of brokenness is because we keep thinking about it as a means to an end. What does it mean to love? Well, it means that you have to stay focused on what you want and not on something else. When you focus on your partner you will achieve your desired results and will feel satisfied with your love.
Love is the engine that powers all relationships. We need to focus our attention on how we want to live our lives. If we focus only on our partner we will never feel fulfilled and happy with our love life. Instead of focusing on the meaning of sex, we should focus more on ourselves. Our relationships will be happier. To achieve our goals we need the right amount of focus and passion. There are many different ways to achieve this. Some people focus solely on their partner and do not allow themselves to experience the feeling of love in their life or at least it should be done with love and affection. But we must never forget that our relationship is our life and we cannot change our partners because that would mean we would have changed ourselves as well. So, we have a choice of whether we are going to be with someone or not. The choice is ours and it is one we make alone. However, if we can create a space where our focus is on us rather than our sex life, then we start to realize that sex is just a byproduct of our other relationships and that the passion we put into our relationships is what will bring us happiness.
A relationship is not always about sex and romance, it's about love that exists between two people. It's the connection that we create with the person that makes sex a good thing. Relationships are what we want, and sex can help us fulfill those desires.
Without relationships, we might never be able to create those feelings of passion and connection. Because if sex doesn't have any meaning then what's left to it? If you can't create relationships then you cannot create sex or great sex life. Love is the engine that powers a good relationship. We must first focus our attention on that. Once we do that then sex becomes a bonus in our relationship. There is a saying in Chinese that goes like this "When you are in love, do you still need sex?" It means you need to put a lot of effort into making sure that your relationship stays strong and healthy.
A relationship is important to us, but sex should not be the main focus of any relationship. Of course, sex has great importance for a relationship between a couple, however, as soon as you start looking for sex, you should also look for some other aspects of your life that are equally important. For instance, the physical aspect of a romantic relationship is what should make you feel most satisfied. You should feel happy when you both are physically intimate. Do not look at the sexual aspect and think that this is all you want and need. Sexual desire is great but it has to follow a set of rules. And if you do so then you can have all the pleasure and satisfaction you wish for. That is how you truly make your relationship worthwhile.
The bottom line of this discussion is that you can enjoy a lasting relationship with your partner in a world filled with broken hearts due to uncontrollable sexual desires leading to adultery and broken marriages. Once your focus on your partner is based on love rather than sex you start noticing your relationships for what they are. You will see that they are more than just sex and you may start feeling less afraid of life without sex.
So, how do we get rid of this cycle?
When we look into the past we see couples that had a strong connection with each other. This may have been because they built their marriage on the foundation of love and not on sex. They were very passionate about their relationship and when they saw their future together, it was very clear that there was no love lost in the relationship. Sometimes we lose our passion when we try to be too selfish and focus all our energy on sex instead of developing our real relationship with each other. As you may have already read, our lives are complicated and there is always going to be an aspect of relationships that you cannot control. Our love lives will always go through ups and downs. But when love is the engine that powers our relationship, we can bear every circumstance we might find ourselves in.
Thank love 💕