What is friendship? Everyone has his or her view of friendship. Some say it's when someone knows you in and out others say it's a feeling of love towards someone. But I will say that friendship is a feeling of mutuality between persons.
Friendship cannot be complete if the persons involved do not have mutual understanding amongst themselves. friendship has a distinctive characteristic trait because those you call your friends will always stand by you both in stormy and calm times , they never lead you astray or towards the wrong paths and directions, They have your best interest at heart, but, people seem to get the wrong view of friendship,thinking it's some random word thereby misusing this word "friendship".
Friendship has lots of things and meaning encoded in it. if you call someone your friend, you will be able to let go of certain wrongs done by that person and overlook them because there's a saying that no human is perfect....
There is a powerful word that must be inculcated in every existing Friendship, without this word friendship is meaningless. Many friendship lack the word trust!!!
Trust is a grassroot for a solid friendship because, when you trust a person you never have any reason to doubt him/ her.
For instance if someone tells you that your friend was involved in a fight, you will be able to vouch for the person because u know the person in total...
Friendship is not just something you build up in a day, it is a gradual process that involves you getting to know your partner overtime.
Let's not forget that anything that has a positive side also has a negative one....
That brings us to the positive and negative friendship impact....
Some group of people move with the wrong set of friends which influence them negatively while others move with the right set of friends....
There is a saying that by their fruits you shall know them!!! So, negative investment yields negative harvest likewise positive investment yields position harvest...you cannot give what you do not have...
so therefore let us be very cautious careful and wise in choosing those who we call our friends because your friend can also become our worst nightmare!!!!!
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