This article is to in no way spite any fight it's just from my own point of view.

We must have seen lot of argument here and there on the topic gender equality, I for one don't have issues with it because I respect that every one should be treated equally and we should all be respected not minding our gender.

Gender equality started as a result of these western cultures and all because some women were paid low at work and some women were not allowed to attain some certain position in some certain aspects of life.

In some countries, women aren't allowed to attend secondary school let alone colleges, some women aren't allowed to give their opinion on how to run the family and all they do is stay in the kitchen and cook for the man and satisfy all his need and want.

Now, some women have turned the Gender equality motion into something else. They ignore the big picture and start fighting for meager things which aren't even normal. I'll be citing some examples below.

NOTE: This isn't to cause any argument

You'll see when a man and a woman are going for an outing, the woman will say it's the man's right to close the door behind even if he comes out first, although it's romantic and nice of a man to do it but it isn't something that's based for the man, if a man does the opposite and let the woman closes the door herself since she came out last, she will start saying the man isn't respecting her gender and he's against gender equality.

A woman should have a car because it helps reduce the stress of walking to and fro and getting on public vehicle but if the man can't provide a car for her and he has a car, that doesn't mean he's violating her gender right, most women go on social media platforms to say stuff like " my man has a car and he didn't get me one, my fellow women let's fight for our right so we can have our own cars".

They've ignored the bigger picture on where their right are actually violated and start fighting for things that isn't even a violation on any gender.

The true fact in this is that most men are also violated but they won't speak up about it because they have to act like a man and act tough. In any organisation, it is very rare to see a man as the secretary of any organisation, if a man and a woman should go out in search of something, the woman will be picked leaving the man, they call this a woman's charm but what about the man, he wasn't picked because he's a man, he was violated.

This one happens a lot when I was in secondary school, whenever something goes missing, they won't suspect any lady because they feel the ladies are all cute and innocent but the boys of the class will the thoroughly dealt with because they're guys and guys tend to do all sort of social vices but it shouldn't be so.

In some countries, women right aren't even violated, they are all treated nice and equal but the men are violated, but they won't say anything about it.

This is just to remind everyone that we should not ignore the bigger picture on gender equality movement and start fighting for meager thing.